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11-02-2006, 04:26 PM | #1 |
My Tiny Treasures Donating Member | Confession You know the "in memory thread" ? I just can't read it. I just can't bring myself to read about them poor babies and the poor moms and dads. It just breaks my heart !!! My biggest fear? One day posting there..... I hope this isn't too aweful of me. My heart aches for everyone who has posted there... |
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11-02-2006, 04:31 PM | #2 |
My Best Friend Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: oklahoma
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| I'm right there with you. I can't read it either. My prayers to all of you that have posted there.
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11-02-2006, 04:36 PM | #3 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: In my house :)
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| Same here. Everytime I even start to read one of those threads it makes me cry. I know Boog has been gone for 2 years but that memory is still as fresh as the day it happened...reading other stories just brings it to the surface for me and I can't deal with that again. My confession? I have to skip those threads but I do feel for everyone who has posted there...believe me...I do know how they feel! |
11-02-2006, 06:56 PM | #4 |
BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED | I was the same way until I had to post about my precious Kloey who was hit by a car in July. Everytime I went there and read others post, I would just bawl, but now that I can relate and know there pain that there going through, I feel comfort that I can maybe help and support someone who is going through the same thing I went through. I was so devastated when I lost Kloey, you have no idea the closeness I had with her, after I was attacked by that Doberman, she healed me, I was a mess and she was there for me and comforted me in ways no one could, and then she was taken from me, I wish I knew why, I guess one day I will know. I dont wish this pain on anyone, it's the worst feeling in the world. |
11-02-2006, 07:06 PM | #5 |
Mojo, LilyGrace & Me Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: cuddling with my babies<3
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| I have a confession too.....I generally skip that thread....not that I do not feel sympathy for those who have lost their precious furbaby, but I just can't handle it myself. I have stayed up late some nights and I have actually replied to some and I just about made myself sick from crying and worrying so much. I know that thread is a blessing for those who have lost....they need to share their experience and get the comfort. I know (heaven forbid) when the day comes that I need to post there, I will feel very blessed to read the thoughts and prayers posted. Right now, I will probably still shy away from it....but I do send hugs and kisses and thoughts and prayers to my YT family members who have lost one of their precious babies!!!!
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11-02-2006, 10:14 PM | #6 |
Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX
Posts: 4,596
| Me too, I want to post my well wishes but i just can't. I know when I lost my Max I came to YT and posted, but I just can't bring myself to go there. I'm so sorry to everyone that's needed to and please know that my thoughts are always with you guys although I just can't go there.
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11-02-2006, 10:26 PM | #7 |
YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois
Posts: 4,823
| I don't like to go in that section either. I usually search just the new posts, or my subscribed threads, but if I see one in the New Posts I try to avoid it. It's just so hard, and knowing how it feels to lose a beloved pet, It's really hard to find the right words to say to make someone feel better. My heart does go out to everyone who has made a thread in that section though.
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11-03-2006, 12:46 AM | #8 |
My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N
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| I know it's hard to read those posts, it's difficult for me to. But it does help the person to know that we all care by posting our message to them. After i replied to one of those posts, i go read something happy or see cute pics. I know what it feels like to lose a baby, the hurt is is impossible to explain. For those people to know that we there for them, will help them even if it's just a little....
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11-03-2006, 04:32 AM | #9 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | I know just what you're saying .....I MAKE myself check everyday but I can't imagine the pain even if it's just a few lines posted with tears in my eyes - I've come to realize we can't change the fact that they've lost their precious yorkie ...but can offer a shoulder....... I used to get really worked up and sad to the point it affected me and couldn't get them off my mind - but now try to concentrate on just being supportive....but I feel each story of a loss just like you guys are saying.... and many have made me lose sleep or get really depressed. My mom used to say "There but for the Grace of God go I" and I never really understood it - now I do. |
11-03-2006, 04:50 AM | #10 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Canada
Posts: 3,617
| Reading them is always difficult for me because I know the feeling of posting there . In my case , It really helped me to read the posts peoples sent . |
11-03-2006, 07:11 AM | #11 |
My Tiny Treasures Donating Member | I think as hard as its going to be, I'm going to MAKE myself try to read there. I know that everyone needs the support. It may be in little steps, but I think I owe everyone who has lost a shoulder. I just needed to confess I had a hard time with it. Real hard. But I plan to try to do better!!!!! But even though I may not always respond, my thoughts, prayers, and heart are all there for everyone whos' lost! |
11-03-2006, 07:38 PM | #12 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Space City
Posts: 2,079
| You know, my first post was in that section. Every since then I take a look at that section every time I'm on the forum, so I can support the ones that know my pain as well as I know their pain.
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