I know just what you're saying .....I MAKE myself check everyday but I can't imagine the pain
even if it's just a few lines posted with tears in my eyes - I've come to realize we can't change the fact that they've lost their precious yorkie ...but can offer a shoulder.......
I used to get really worked up and sad to the point it affected me and couldn't get them off my mind - but now try to concentrate on just being supportive....but I feel each story of a loss just like you guys are saying.... and many have made me lose sleep or get really depressed.
My mom used to say "There but for the Grace of God go I" and I never really understood it - now I do.