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02-01-2009, 08:04 AM | #1 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: wilmington nc
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| i just cant do it i told my ex-husband that we were absolutely NOT getting back together after we were considering it for the past couple months. Now its like the wound that was healing is open again Whats worse is my son was so happy at the thought of us getting back together. ugh! i just cant go back to him after what he did, even though i still love him so much. I don't know how much more of this i can take
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02-01-2009, 08:08 AM | #2 |
YT 1000 Club Member | Sorry to hear that you are going through this...I know how difficult divorce is...you have to do what you feel is right in your heart...and it takes time....but things do get better! Hugs to you and your son from KiKi and I!
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02-01-2009, 08:12 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: wilmington nc
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| thank you, I have posted several times on here about the whole situation and Im sure a lot of people are getting tired of hearing about it, but it just helps to write things out and to have a little extra support through all of this
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02-01-2009, 08:22 AM | #4 |
♥ Chip ♥ Smokey ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Leesburg
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| ((hugs)) I'm sorry you're going through this. I can't offer any advice, but I can offer hugs. Just hold on your son and you will get through this together. In time your wounds will heal.
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02-01-2009, 08:42 AM | #5 |
Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia
Posts: 4,438
| I hate that you're having such a rough time. When I divorced my ex husband, my older son (4 at the time) told me he hated me because I made his Daddy leave. Broke my heart! He's 33 now and believe me - they DO get over it!
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02-01-2009, 08:50 AM | #6 |
Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys
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| I'm sorry it's not working out for all of you....I'm so glad your making this important decision based on what's in your best interest in spite of your feeling for him...Good for you, that is where so many women make their mistake, letting feelings guide them instead of doing whats in their best interest...I hope everything works out for you and your son.....
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02-01-2009, 09:02 AM | #7 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: wilmington nc
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| I told him to listen to this song because it is how I truly feel now, it's over and we both need to accept it and move on...This explains how I feel exactly
__________________ Proud Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club and in the end, its not the years in your life that count but the life in your years.... Abraham Lincoln |
02-01-2009, 09:17 AM | #8 |
♥Sapphire♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: PA, USA
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| I know it must be hard, but stay strong! *hugs*
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02-01-2009, 09:21 AM | #9 |
Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota
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| I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I don't have any advice, but want to send you hugs and let you know I care and wish you the best...and you deserve the best!
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02-01-2009, 09:25 AM | #10 |
Lovin' my R & R Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Middleton, Idaho
Posts: 2,152
| NO ONE is getting tired of you!!! You went through a horrible ordeal with him, and everyone understands the impact that had on you. I for one am so glad that you are sticking to your guns and not going back to you. It's hard right now but it would be much harder in three years if it happened again, ya know?? I am proud of you!!! Go give those babies some hugs and kisses!!
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02-01-2009, 09:30 AM | #11 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Maryland
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| Like my grandma used to say: "Warmed up only some foods are good..." I whish you the strenght to do the right thing and the wisdom to know what's right! |
02-01-2009, 09:37 AM | #12 |
Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Mississippi
Posts: 2,564
| Divorce is an extremely personal thing. I am the child of divorced parents so I knew the one thing I didn't want was to go through that myself. Well, it didn't work out that way and, after 12 years and 2 kids, my ex and I got divorced. It was hard on the kids but both of us made a real effort to put them first and our personal feelings second. We have now both moved on and have other spouses and the kids did turn out fine. We both do recognize, however, that it was mostly a lack of maturity on our parts that led to the divorce and that our problems weren't really that bad. In hindsight I would encourage anyone to think long and hard before divorcing, maybe even go through some counseling, which is what we should have done. Even if it doesn't work out, at least both of you will have had the chance to 'air things out' and get a better perspective. Best of luck to you and everyone concerned. |
02-01-2009, 10:21 AM | #13 |
Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida
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| I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't know what happened, but take your time, and let your heart and head figure our what's best for you and your son.
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02-02-2009, 03:57 AM | #14 |
Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Tyne & Wear, UK
Posts: 219
| It took me 9 and a half years to pluck up the courage to do what you're doing - and I've never looked back since. It was hard to start with, but it does get easier, in time. You know you're doing the right thing, and even though you still love him, hang in there and look to the future - it WILL be brighter, I promise.
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02-02-2009, 05:29 AM | #15 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: KS
Posts: 3,289
| Just want to add my support to whatever decision you make. Trust is a difficult thing to get back. No one can live without trust. It makes for a miserable life. And, no, we aren't tired of hearing from you. My heart went out to you the first you shared and it continues to be with you. It also sounds as it there are lots of YTers that understand from personal experience, and they are offering their support and understanding. Hugs. ~Joanne~
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