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02-01-2008, 06:56 PM | #1 |
YT 500 Club Member | I feel horrible! I know I havent been a member long here but I find all of you so welcoming and nice. I just feel so horrible. Today my boyfriend decided to break up, it was sort of mutual but mostly him and I am hurting so bad. We were only dating four months, but I truly cared a lot about him. It was not his fault though it was both of us, but I am hurting so bad from it. We rush into this relatioship we both agreed that we did and he said things just were going too fast for him,but I just thought we could work it out some sort of way. And guess what on top of this break up my tooth is killing me and stomach is cramping, just my luck lol. Thanks for letting me rant.
__________________ I have lost my bestfriend, Poppy my angel,my protector March 29,2008-June 14,2009. |
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02-01-2008, 07:01 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: texas
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| I am so sorry. Sounds like you are having a really bad time right now. Hope you get to feeling better soon. This is a good place to come and vent...lots of sympathetic "eyes".
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02-01-2008, 07:04 PM | #3 | |
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02-01-2008, 07:04 PM | #4 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
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| *big hug* sorry you are having a tough time |
02-01-2008, 07:06 PM | #5 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: upstate ny
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| awww, keep your chin up girl. Things will be looking up for you soon, I'm sure even though it doesn't seem like it right now. We'll all be rooting for you. |
02-01-2008, 07:15 PM | #6 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Illinois
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| ~hugs~ BIG GROUP HUG for you! I'm old enough to have survived my share of breakups. It even hurts when it's your idea! And we can all say the right things. But deep down inside you already "know" those things. So how 'bout we just hold your hand for a while til you feel better? And take something for that tummy and tooth!!
__________________ Diane, and my boys ..... Coby and Reggie !! Striving to be a YTPP - a YT Positive Poster! In Memory of My Beautiful Mother 7/22/28-8/27/08 |
02-01-2008, 07:17 PM | #7 |
Kyle Plus 3 Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Washington, DC
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| Aw, I'm sorry! I hope things get better as time goes on.
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02-01-2008, 07:22 PM | #8 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Bay Area, CA
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| I'm definitely with you girl!!My boyfriend (ex?) and I broke up last night and it sucks because I LIVE WITH HIM... I can't get away to cry, he doesn't want to comfort me, I'm depressed... We were together 5 1/2 years and there just comes a point when you know it isn't working and so does the other person... but the last thing you want to do is realize it... I've been an emotional wreck since last night and I feel like I have noone (except YT)... So I feel for you. I hope things get better. This is what I do in my lowest moments... 1. either curl up in a ball and hold my teddy bear and cry and cry OR #2 I turn up my music REALLY loud and just jam! Singing, crying, dancing , cleaning (I do that when I'm angry)... it won't fix things forever but it gives you some YOU time and that's exactly what we need sometimes. <3<3<3<3
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02-01-2008, 07:26 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Illinois
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| Sorry Bizzbeth too. You are included in this group hug then!
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02-01-2008, 07:28 PM | #10 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Bay Area, CA
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| thank you!
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02-01-2008, 08:32 PM | #11 |
YT 500 Club Member | All of you are so kind and sweet thank you. Parker:he said that he was done so nope no getting beack together,Diane I will nake sure to take a motrin tonight, that is the only way I can get to sleep without being in major pain until it gets pulled, Elizabeth your relationship was really long and I also would like to give you a hug and to everyone who made me feel better and yes the hardest part is realizing. I wish you the best. I will be taking a hot bath and later listening to music. Thanks everyone
__________________ I have lost my bestfriend, Poppy my angel,my protector March 29,2008-June 14,2009. |
02-01-2008, 08:38 PM | #12 |
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| I think that things like this happen for a reason. I believe you will find someone wonderful that will be more suited for you. When I have had breakups in the past I try to concentrate as much as possible about the things I didn't like about the person and what we didn't have in common and then realize that I think I can find someone more suitable for me. Good luck.
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02-01-2008, 08:39 PM | #13 | |
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When I met DH he had broken up with someone and so had I. We both were looking for a friend and nothing more a the time. He had issues with my age (he was five years older..I was 16 and he was 21). But you know what we hung out...nothing to it. Problem was that I fell head over heels in love. During one discussion he told me he really liked me but my age bothered me and he knew we could only be friends....well that was devestating. But I decided to stick around and see what would happen even though at the time I though per his feelings nothing would come of it. Well he got just as sprung as I did and we have been together now going on 16 years, married almost 9 with three children, Zoey, a cat and a house. So I say walk away for a bit and give it time. He most likely will realize that although he is afraid that it moved fast...maybe there was a reason it moved fast. Sometimes it just clicks and that is how it is supposed to go.
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02-01-2008, 08:45 PM | #14 |
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| Sorry you had a rough day! Hope you feel better soon!! |
02-02-2008, 01:04 PM | #15 |
YT 500 Club Member | Thank you everyone,Doodlebug I also think things like this happen for a reason, and I do the same as you think about all the things we didn't have in common, there wasn't much we didnt but I can still think about what we didnt. Beth that is a beautiful love story, I love hearing happy outcomes, to me it seems like your husband is your soulmate, the both of you were met to be together. I can only hope things turn out that way for me in him, but right now I think I just want to get over him and not date till I am 23!
__________________ I have lost my bestfriend, Poppy my angel,my protector March 29,2008-June 14,2009. |
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