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Originally Posted by missj2007  I know I havent been a member long here but I find all of you so welcoming and nice. I just feel so horrible. Today my boyfriend decided to break up, it was sort of mutual but mostly him and I am hurting so bad. We were only dating four months, but I truly cared a lot about him. It was not his fault though it was both of us, but I am hurting so bad from it. We rush into this relatioship we both agreed that we did and he said things just were going too fast for him,but I just thought we could work it out some sort of way. And guess what on top of this break up my tooth is killing me and stomach is cramping, just my luck lol. Thanks for letting me rant. |
Hon it will hurt for a bit but just give it some time. Sometimes we decide it's too fast but then when we take the time apart we realize that we were scared for nothing and we really can't live without that person.
When I met DH he had broken up with someone and so had I. We both were looking for a friend and nothing more a the time. He had issues with my age (he was five years older..I was 16 and he was 21). But you know what we hung out...nothing to it. Problem was that I fell head over heels in love. During one discussion he told me he really liked me but my age bothered me and he knew we could only be friends....well that was devestating. But I decided to stick around and see what would happen even though at the time I though per his feelings nothing would come of it. Well he got just as sprung as I did and we have been together now going on 16 years, married almost 9 with three children, Zoey, a cat and a house.
So I say walk away for a bit and give it time. He most likely will realize that although he is afraid that it moved fast...maybe there was a reason it moved fast. Sometimes it just clicks and that is how it is supposed to go.