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09-12-2009, 02:04 AM | #1 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member | My Dad has been gone 2 years on the 20th He died of Pancreatic cancer. He fought a hard battle for 9 months. Since it is getting close to 2 years it feels like yesterday in my heart. I just wanted everyone to know he was the best Dad I could have ever asked for. I have so many regrets that I didn't appreicate that more when he was here. I wish I would have hugged him more and told him how much I loved him. He knew and I knew he loved me more than anything. Life passes so fast. Hold your love ones tight and remind them how much you love and need them. You never know what is going to happen. My Dad was healthy then bam it hit and hit hard. It was so fast it was like a dream. Sometimes I still feel like I am in a dream and want to wake up.
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09-12-2009, 03:25 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Morristown, TN
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| Oh I am so sorry for your loss. None of us do the things we should with our loved ones when they are here. I will be praying for you.
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09-12-2009, 05:33 AM | #3 |
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| Melissa, I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Sending lots of and your way. |
09-12-2009, 05:58 AM | #4 |
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| Melissa i am so sorry it is so hard to lose someone that you love so dear from aug.1988 to may 1991 I lost my mom,husband & dad so i do understand you feeling so lonely & i think sometimes we feel guilty because we are still here, i am sure your dad thought you were the best daughter ever and would want you to go on being happy. time helps ease the pain but we never forget. praying for you
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09-12-2009, 06:06 AM | #5 |
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| Thank you for sharing. I miss my daddy, too. Have no regrets, just think of all the good times.
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09-12-2009, 06:12 AM | #6 |
Donating YT 500 Club Member | I am so sorry for you loss! I can only imagine how hard it is! I am sure your Dad knew how much you loved him! I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
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09-12-2009, 12:23 PM | #7 | |
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I can totally relate to what you said. Life DOES pass fast & you are never ever 'ready' for a death I went thru the same things - wish I hugged more etc....said I love you ever chance I could and more than ever....wish I had just one more day like I'm sure you feel too. People don't understand that even though we're not talking 'months' anymore since the loss - it still stays as fresh in our hearts like it happened yesterday. sending hugs I'm sorry and am here if you need to talk - | |
09-12-2009, 01:40 PM | #8 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | I understand your losses. My Mom has been gone 2 1/2 years tomorrow on my birthday and it will never be the same again. The pain never goes away. Hopefully one ay we will all see our loved ones again. Hugs
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09-20-2009, 05:49 AM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Ohio
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| Melissa, I think these times are almost harder than when our loved one dies. Dad's are so special and i can relate since mine was the salt of the earth as well. My prayers are with you and just know it does get easier as time goes by, to remember only the good times. Hugs, Joan
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09-20-2009, 02:51 PM | #10 |
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| Melissa...my heart aches for you in your loss. I know how you feel, having lost both my dear parents to cancer. I send lots of hugs and love. God bless the memory of your precious Dad.
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09-20-2009, 03:23 PM | #11 |
Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: wiith my furbabys
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| Im very sorry for your loss, I lost both my parents with in 4 yrs of each other i know the pain your feeling and my first husband who i remained best freinds with lost his battle with PC last yr .....HUGS and PRAYERS
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09-20-2009, 04:01 PM | #12 |
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| I just wanted you to know that I am thinking of you today. I understand the sadness...my dad will have been gone one year on the 25th of this month and oh how I miss him! |
09-20-2009, 05:34 PM | #13 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Rhome, TX
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| I am so sorry and know what you are going through. I lost my dad 2 years ago in May to brain cancer. He was 54 when he died and was healthy until 18 months before he passed away. That is when he was diagnosed. You are right, time passes so fast and you never know when someone you love will be gone. There are days that I miss my dad so much. I know that they say time heals all things, and I hope it is true for both of us. It was suggested to me that I do something special to honor his memory on the aniversery of his death because I was having such a hard time with missing him. I planted a tree and it helps me remember the good times when I look at it and think that it is in his honor. Perhaps you could do something to honor your dad and it would help you feel better. Theresa |
09-21-2009, 05:19 AM | #14 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member | Thanks everyone.. yesterday was a hard day for me but i got through and stayed busy. I visited his grave put new flowers on and cleaned his headstone. It made me feel closer to him.
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09-21-2009, 05:24 AM | #15 |
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| I am so sorry. Prayers for your broken heart. My dad has been gone 27 years and I keep waiting for it to get easier. Last week was my first time to go to a Detroit Tigers baseball game. Dad had never been to a game and he was always going to take me when I was young. He never made it there. I walked into the park and just started to cry. I was so sad that he was not there with me.
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