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a2luckygirl · 08-10-2008, 12:34 PM

I am sorry. hugs to you.

RoxyJosMom · 08-10-2008, 12:35 PM

I wish there were magic words to take away your pain, but, unfortunately, all I can offer is a big hug and the knowledge that it WAS an accident. In time, you will accept that and the guilt you feel now will start to lessen. In the meantime, use your babies to help your broken heart heal. Extra kisses is a good start. I am truely so sorry you had to experience such a tragedy. Take care and God Bless.

red98vett · 08-10-2008, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by altigger74

This morning two of my labs got out of the fence. When I was going to work this morning they were running along side the truck, (we've been having problems with them getting out even though it's a chainlink fence with an electrical fence inside), well I didn't have time to fight with them to get them back in the fence. Anyway as I pulled out of my driveway they were on the side of me (usually they only go a few feet and go back home), another van was coming the opposite dirrection so I pulled over because I didn't want them to get in between us. Well I looked in the mirrors and saw one of them start to go home and I saw the other go around the back of my truck so I pulled back onto the road and had just started to touch the gas when.........oh God I can still see it, I ran over her! I looked back and just saw her roll! I turned around and went to her and she was already gone. I ran home and got my husband up screaming. If it was any other day I would have stayed home from work but we were having a big auction and I had to be there. When my husband got up to go get her, I left for work. It's a 20 minute drive and I still don't remember getting there. This guilt is killing me! I go from being numb to hysterical! I've lost animals before but NEVER by my own hand! I can't even go to her grave site yet!
I'm not looking for sympathy and I certainly can't handle any more guilt. I am hoping that by talking about it more it will help me at least get it out of my head.

oh no ! I'm so sorry ....

We all know how fast these things can happen and you can't beat yourself up over it...but that doesn't take away the hurt and guilt does it ? Even if you hadn't been in the car it could have happened....I hope you can get the image out of your head.

I'm so sorry

IluvLucy · 08-10-2008, 04:26 PM

I am so sorry for your loss

God bless you!

loveyorks · 08-10-2008, 04:41 PM

I feel so bad for you, I can imagine what you must be going through. But don't beat yourself up too much, it was an ACCIDENT and feeling guilty is not going to change anything. God bless.

Doodlebug · 08-10-2008, 05:00 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't feel guilty about it, it was an accident. It was a blessing that he didn't have to suffer.

zoeybear · 08-10-2008, 05:04 PM

Hugs from Zoeybear and Baby Chloe.

jonibear · 08-10-2008, 07:42 PM

so sorry for your loss. I ran over a neighbors dog last year. It ran out in front of me and I tried to swerve and stomped the brakes, but they are just so fast. It was an accident and yours was an accident too. Please try not to blame yourself. I liked what some one else on here said, God needed your dog with him now. Hugs to you, my thoughts are with you.

altigger74 · 08-10-2008, 07:58 PM

My heart is telling me she is being the lap dog she always wanted to be. I just wish she didn't have to go that way. I'm going to take a sleeping pill for tonight, I was able to get about 3 hours on and off last night.

gypsyqueen · 08-10-2008, 08:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by altigger74

This morning two of my labs got out of the fence. When I was going to work this morning they were running along side the truck, (we've been having problems with them getting out even though it's a chainlink fence with an electrical fence inside), well I didn't have time to fight with them to get them back in the fence. Anyway as I pulled out of my driveway they were on the side of me (usually they only go a few feet and go back home), another van was coming the opposite dirrection so I pulled over because I didn't want them to get in between us. Well I looked in the mirrors and saw one of them start to go home and I saw the other go around the back of my truck so I pulled back onto the road and had just started to touch the gas when.........oh God I can still see it, I ran over her! I looked back and just saw her roll! I turned around and went to her and she was already gone. I ran home and got my husband up screaming. If it was any other day I would have stayed home from work but we were having a big auction and I had to be there. When my husband got up to go get her, I left for work. It's a 20 minute drive and I still don't remember getting there. This guilt is killing me! I go from being numb to hysterical! I've lost animals before but NEVER by my own hand! I can't even go to her grave site yet!
I'm not looking for sympathy and I certainly can't handle any more guilt. I am hoping that by talking about it more it will help me at least get it out of my head.

Oh sweetie Im so sorry

stovesj · 08-10-2008, 09:12 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs from me and Gracie.

yorkiegirl83 · 08-10-2008, 09:21 PM

I am so truly sorry for your loss. I know nothing I could say could take away the pain and hurt you are feeling right now so I will just pray that you are able to greive, forgive yourself, and heal.

KimberlySRN · 08-10-2008, 09:32 PM

I am so sorry for your loss.

ladyj · 08-11-2008, 04:52 AM

Accidents happen to all of us. My father ran over our family cocker spaniel many years ago because she took one of her puppies under the car with her. The puppy was nursing and she wouldn't move, we thought. She was not usually under the car. He ran over her and the five-week-old puppy. We had five puppies left in the litter and a country vet gave them worm medicine that killed all of them, so we lost the mother and all six of the puppies. We all do the best we can, but still accidents happen. I'm so sorry for your loss.

MyPeanutAbbyGra · 08-12-2008, 02:22 PM

I know you've had a rough couple of days sweetie. I so hope everything gets better. Take care of yourself.

08-10-2008, 12:34 PM	#16
a2luckygirl YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: HASTINGS, NE- 4 NOW!!! Posts: 2,208	I am sorry. hugs to you. __________________ :I PLAYING....THE BANJO........ AND KISSING MY MOMMY:kiss3

08-10-2008, 12:35 PM	#17
RoxyJosMom Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ny Posts: 4,282	I wish there were magic words to take away your pain, but, unfortunately, all I can offer is a big hug and the knowledge that it WAS an accident. In time, you will accept that and the guilt you feel now will start to lessen. In the meantime, use your babies to help your broken heart heal. Extra kisses is a good start. I am truely so sorry you had to experience such a tragedy. Take care and God Bless. __________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie [COLOR="Purple"]Mom to RoxyJo & Remington , Fozzy Bear & Chloe

08-10-2008, 04:26 PM	#19
IluvLucy Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,438	I am so sorry for your loss God bless you! __________________ Kim , Rebel ,and baby Dixie RIP my sweet Lucy

08-10-2008, 04:41 PM	#20
loveyorks YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Montreal, Qc Posts: 428	I feel so bad for you, I can imagine what you must be going through. But don't beat yourself up too much, it was an ACCIDENT and feeling guilty is not going to change anything. God bless. __________________ LoveYorks (Aggie) slave to; Chewy Choupette Tucson Sunny

08-10-2008, 05:00 PM	#21
Doodlebug ♥Love My Puppies!♥ Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: US Posts: 5,786	I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't feel guilty about it, it was an accident. It was a blessing that he didn't have to suffer. __________________ RIP My Sweet Darling Angel Daisy 08/09/03 - 10/02/15, RIP My Sweet Baby Boy Teddy Bear 02/01/04 - 02/11/16 Photos HERE

08-10-2008, 05:04 PM	#22
zoeybear Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California Posts: 4,186	Hugs from Zoeybear and Baby Chloe. __________________ We give dogs time we can spare, space we can spare and love we can spare. And in return, dogs give us their all. It's the best deal man has ever made. -M. Acklam

08-10-2008, 07:42 PM	#23
jonibear Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Ottumwa, Iowa, USA Posts: 49	so sorry for your loss. I ran over a neighbors dog last year. It ran out in front of me and I tried to swerve and stomped the brakes, but they are just so fast. It was an accident and yours was an accident too. Please try not to blame yourself. I liked what some one else on here said, God needed your dog with him now. Hugs to you, my thoughts are with you.

08-10-2008, 07:58 PM	#24
altigger74 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Alabama Posts: 1,523	My heart is telling me she is being the lap dog she always wanted to be. I just wish she didn't have to go that way. I'm going to take a sleeping pill for tonight, I was able to get about 3 hours on and off last night. __________________ Mommy of Cody,Gracie,Bella,2labs,1cat, 2 skinkids one Angel Baby Boy 8/8/09 I carried you under my heart for 20 weeks and will carry you in my heart forever

08-10-2008, 09:12 PM	#26
stovesj Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Kenmore, Washington Posts: 3,299	I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs from me and Gracie. __________________ JoanneGracie and Izzy Wag More...Bark Less

08-10-2008, 09:21 PM	#27
yorkiegirl83 Love My Furbabies! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: somewhere Posts: 4,427	I am so truly sorry for your loss. I know nothing I could say could take away the pain and hurt you are feeling right now so I will just pray that you are able to greive, forgive yourself, and heal.

08-10-2008, 09:32 PM	#28
KimberlySRN Twins=double the fun! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: California Posts: 2,981	I am so sorry for your loss. __________________ Kim Anakin Bella

08-11-2008, 04:52 AM	#29
ladyj No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Oliver Springs, TN Posts: 683	Accidents happen to all of us. My father ran over our family cocker spaniel many years ago because she took one of her puppies under the car with her. The puppy was nursing and she wouldn't move, we thought. She was not usually under the car. He ran over her and the five-week-old puppy. We had five puppies left in the litter and a country vet gave them worm medicine that killed all of them, so we lost the mother and all six of the puppies. We all do the best we can, but still accidents happen. I'm so sorry for your loss.

08-12-2008, 02:22 PM	#30
MyPeanutAbbyGra I love my baby girls! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,718	I know you've had a rough couple of days sweetie. I so hope everything gets better. Take care of yourself. __________________ Tammy, Mama to Abby Grace Daisy Mae RIP Peanut & Chloe, ABBY 's WINSTON Within the heart of every stray Lies the singular desire to be loved