ladyjane | 08-26-2013 07:13 AM | Thanks, Sandy. It has been a difficult year...and that is an understatement. They say that what does not kill us makes us stronger...I don't know that I want any more strength. Having people bash me for making suggestions makes it even more difficult.....what they do not understand is that it is not that I expect anyone to do what I do....I merely suggest it because it is what has worked for me and my pups. It is not that I have the money...it is that I sacrifice other things to do it. My pups are simply my priority and why I am vilified for it is not something I can comprehend. It is, at times, difficult to offer my help to others because there is a *force* that is ready to pounce on me and say how dare me tell people what to do. OR say that I think they are bad people and should not own yorkies...that is SO far from what I believe. Now, if you are out and out making a pup suffer, sure I believe that. Most people are not that way...they love their pups...everyone loves in different ways. To some, I am over the top with the money I spend...I get that, but it is my money, my pups. BUT people must know by now that if I see something that is possibly scary/dangerous/not in the best interests of a pup, I will say it...does that mean everyone has to agree? NO! I say it because I have an obligation in my mind to educate and also to speak up for the voiceless. Am I perfect? No. Could my words be different at times? Sure...but no one is perfect and honestly in the years I have been on YT I believe I have changed my posting manner quite a bit. I will never be what others want me to be...I am not going to say "you are a good mommy" to someone who is making horrible choices for a defenseless pup. I am not going to say "your are a bad mommy" either. I simply make suggestions for people to use IF they choose.
I have thought of starting a thread about such things, but decided to just post here since clearly there are people who have issues with how I treat my pups....OR have issues with me because I must, by doing what I do for mine, make them feel that they don't do enough. So....I know everyone will see this. What I do is NOT what I expect others to do...and I am quite sick of those insinuations. I post so that those who wish to do it know how. Just saying because I feel strongly that others read my threads and think I have a lot of money OR think that I believe they should do the same. I don't TELL people what to do. I strongly suggest it at times because I see sick pups and it hurts me. I also do not have money as some seem to think.....I am in a BIG HOLE right now because of the nightmare year I have had. I honestly have no idea how I will climb out of this debt. BUT...I simply don't know another way...in my way of thinking, if I am going to take in pups, I owe it to them to provide the best that *I can*. We each have to do that...and find what is the best for each of us. I believe in God...and I believe that if I care for his little creatures it will work out. I said that when we founded YHR...we had I believe eight fosters at the time and NO money. But...I said that we should "build it and they will come" and we believed and it did! :) The same will happen for my personal pups and expenses...I believe that.
OK...enough of that. As for Olivia, I have tried SO many things. The issue is really not what she likes. She just has moments where she is not hungry and she won't eat a thing. The problem is that when she needs to take meds, she has to take them on time...not when she is hungry. I have found that in the end, the only solution is the pill popper and/or my finger. It usually takes a few times, but in the end I win. I hate doing it, but she has to take her meds. The one pill that is a problem is the Denamarin and it cannot be cut or crushed...by the time I am finished cramming it, she has a blue tongue and I have a blue finger. Poor Olivia...heck, poor me. haha Thanks so much for your suggestions and well wishes! :)
Thank you for your well wishes...very nice to wake up to a nice post. :)
I want to add that I sincerely hope that people will not comment on the things I have said here.....I just had to get it out of my system so to speak. I don't want to start a whole thing about what is right and wrong...I merely wanted to voice how *I* feel since it seems everyone feels that they need to voice how *they* feel all of the time. I rarely expose myself this way. But...I have blood just like others and I bleed like them. "nuff said. |