Villette it's so nice to see you back. I can totally relate to how you are feeling right now, I think. I lost my baby sister last year and now, when I think back on those days and weeks following, it just all seems like a dream. The memories are not crisp and clear like most memories, it's all a fog from the time the doctors said there was nothing more to do until she passed away a week later and even after that for a couple of months. I didn't realize how much I was going thru life just keeping busy. It is a little easier now although I still miss her like crazy. It's like a yearning to see her and talk to her and I still have things happen and I think, I have to call Krissy and tell her and then I realize I can't. I also had so many dreams about her. Dreams like she was still alive and I would wake up crying. And sometimes I had those dreams and felt like she was there with me. Like there was an invisible thread and I could talk to her in the dreams. I like to think I could and that does give me comfort. And I do think that her life is a reminder to us all that life is short and we should never ever take it for granted. I know she would not have traded her life for anything even if it did only last 32 years. I think it was a full and mostly happy life and for that I am grateful. I wish I could offer you the perfect words that would make everything better but I haven't found them yet so I just will wish you the best and take care. Theresa

Oh, honey, it's so great to *hear* your voice. Anything I could say right now would sound like a cliche. But, having lost my mom to cancer when I was 21 (and after taking care of her), I came to realize SOME of those darn cliches are true. It DOES get easier - but I know that doesn't MAKE it any easier.

I just wish you some precious moments, some snippets, of serenity and peace - just a glimpse of some healing. I'm thinking of you, my friend.

Hugs,
Ann

SO great to "hear your voice" again. I'm sure anyone who thinks they are strong enough to handle something like this on their own would no doubt get proven wrong. That's what friends and family are for.... to lean on. Do not feel guilty for that. I'm so glad you've found someone to keep the girls while you're gone. Of course they'll miss you and you them but they'll be in very capable hands so that you have one less thing to worry about. Keep strong but don't put too much pressure on yourself. Keeping busy is a nice distraction but take care of yourself also! Love you, V!

Vee - we all love and miss you and just know that you have many, many friends here on YT to help you through all this - even though many of us do not live near you (hahaha...maybe that's a good thing - you would get sick of all of us coming over)...we are an email, phone call, PM away if you ever need anything.

HI V, Its wondeful to hear from you, I think and pray for you daily, i have lost many close loved ones, so i do know how you feel, They say time heals, please take care of yourself, we all miss and love you,:hug: hugs to you and your babies.

Villette - I'm so looking forward to meeting you too. I've enjoyed our phone conversations tremendously!!! Keep doing what you've been doing and you'll get through this. I have faith in you and in the universe - everything will work out and we'll always be there for you. Love ya girl!

Villette, I am fairly new here and I alway's liked your post, you are very funny in most of them! I had posted once and you were nice to respond, I thought your girls were some of the most prettiest Yorkies I have ever seen!! I was sad to hear what you have been through recently. I could not imagine what you are going through right now. You have been in my prayers. Take care of yourself and get the rest you need. Sending my prayers and love your way, Brandy.

I know I don't post much, but I always enjoy reading your posts. I can always count on a good laugh and I've missed not seeing you on YT. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, I know you are a strong lady and will get through this and in the meantime, my thoughts are with you.

V , its wonderful to hear from you .

Villette, I am so sorry to hear of your loss :( Your posts (and everyone elses) brought tears to my eyes. I hope time helps you heal the pain you are going through right now...hugs & prayers from us

V - I can't tell you how happy it made me to see your post this morning:) Your caring personality and wit has been sorely missed.

I think of you often and have been praying for you constantly because I know what you're going thru:(

Take care of yourself!!

Lucy and Rebel send big sloppy kisses:)

Villette, love & :aimeeyork hugs & lots of smooches from the kids.

V I'm sorry it is taking so long to get all the arrangements taken care of. that has to be difficult. You can't go on with your life until all of this is taken care of. I cannot even imagine what you are going through.

You are in my thoughts constantly.

Good to see you post V ! Keep it coming, as you can see you are very much missed ! Kiss the Girls for us ! Hugs

V, it's nice to hear from you. Your not giving yourself enough credit
for all your going through. You are strong, give yourself credit for it.
Having to wait so long for closure must be very difficult but you are,
in your own way,dealing with that. Hence, the spotless house.:p
See my friend, you can do it. One day at a time V. One day at a time.
Again, I am here if I can do anything at all for you. Your in my
thoughts and prayer's daily.


Hugs.