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I've been checking the posts regularly, waiting to hear from you. I was so excited to see you'd posted. Be kind to yourself, do what you need to do. We'll all be waiting for your wonderful humor and kindness. Hugs! Jacki Harry, Chloe & Darla |
Glad to see you were finally able to post...do you know how much you have been missed on here...I know about the sleeping habits but I will for once keep my mouth shut:rolleyes: I love you girl, and miss you on here so much, but I know how hard it is for you, I will be talking to you soon...give those girls a big kiss & hug from me...and give yourself a big hug, your in my thoughts V...:) |
V...First and foremost take care, it is never easy to lose one that we love...time helps, but it is so very hard. At first it seems as though, it's not real...like maybe it's just a terrible dream. But as time goes by, the reality does set in, I think that is the hardest thing to deal with. I remember what my father told me on his death bed...he said "Life is for the living, do not dwell on my death, I want you to live your life as I have lived mine". That is exactly what you must do...you must live your life and try not to dwell on your husbands death. Remember him yes, always...as he was, while living his life. And the fond memories that you shared will forever be part of that life. Wish that there was more we could do to help you through this rough spot...but just knowing you have us, your friends to turn to any time you may need us, I hope comforts you in some way. You still have a whole lot of love to share...and many friends that truly care. Hugs to you Villette...take care. |
Oh V, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't been on much at all and never saw the post. I am glad to hear you are doing better and am sending prayers your way. |
HI! Just take one day at a time, someday you will only remember the good warm memories. Please know that we are all here for you! Take good care of yourself. |
Ohhh V we are all thinking about you thru this tough time and always cause we all love you! Please, and i don't know what is going on but don't let anyone's bad intentions and words get to you. Only God knows why they do those things, it's sad really. We all love you and praying for you. :love: Sarah |
I'm glad your back and posting! It's good to see you back. I hope your doing O.K and hanging in there. Remember, were all here for you! |
Hey Vee! Glad to hear from ya! Hope you are taking care of yourself. We are here for ya if you need anything! HUGS! |
Hi Villette.. Its good to see your post...you are surely missed on YT...rarely do I read a thread without you posting on it and not seeing that has been strange..you are a kind wonderful person and I cant imagine being in your shoes right now but you have us to lean on when times get tough..so nice to hear the girls have been there for you as I knew they would be...our furkids are a good source of comfort and joy..take care and hope to see you back on here regularly in the next little while... Dawn |
It's good to hear from you. I think of you daily and keep you in my thoughts and prayers. |
Hi Villette I am so happy you posted. When I read the post I cried of happiness that you are back and of sadness that you are hurting. Make sure you get lots of sleep and take time for yourself. You need to be strong for you and for the girls. We are always thinking about you and we keep sending our prayers Maria and the babies |
V we all love you, and I'm sorry if someone upset you. This is a time for everyone to pull together for you. Love you, and hope time helps you heal. You're in my prayers. |
Villette it is nice to see you on here. I hope you continue to heal. If you need anything let me know I am continuing to pray for you |
you can do this ... as hard as it seems ... As with any loss, you don’t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story—part of what makes you uniquely you. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May G-d's loving hand touch you and give you comfort through the days ahead. It may seem as if this hurt will last forever, but you will get through it although you will never get over it. Take it one day at a time ... just baby steps. And the less you dwell on it publicly, the easier it will be. I believe I was quite a bit younger than you when this happened 5 years ago, and I felt so alone ... the loneliness was the saddest part, I missed him so much. Think of all the "fun" times ... it will help ... I used to cry while the dentist was examining my teeth ... especially if a song came on that reminded me of my sweet husband.:cry: all my love goes your way ... and you are right, cherish what we have while we have it ... Life is precious. So is yours. |
Vilette- I am glad to see you on here again. I am sure the last couple weeks have been very difficult for you- I can't even imagine. I am here if you just need someone to simply listen. You are still in my thoughts and prayers everyday! |
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