Kathryn_V a Flake?
 

I have had my character attacked countless times over the last 9-10 months and my only defense has been that "I have some personal issues that I cant get into" I am sick of saying that.... While a select few have been given a generic idea of what's going on, the rest of you (I'm speaking to the folks who know me long term, not the new folks who I'm sure will be very confused when reading this) have no clue. The ignorant comments made and the judgments cast without any knowledge of my personal life or circumstances are both callous and a reflection of your own character.

I went through some very personal issues, most of you remember that. As things were looking up for me.......

I was in a car accident, it was in November of 06. Many of you may remember this. A father of a student Rushing to pick up his child from school hit me. I suffered some internal abdominal injuries and spent a few days in the hospital. I have not been the same since..

This is the reason I have not been the same.

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Every month or two it comes up for jury trial and I am a wreck! Then it is postponed... I am an even bigger wreck! Then it comes up again and I am a ball of nerves and I am again a wreck and I get served that subpoena and then it gets postponed again! Its a vicious cycle that I am caught in, and it seems never ending!

It was postponed AGAIN last week. I am angry, I am scared, I am hurt, I am everything you can't even imagine!

Its pushed out 2 months this time! 2 more months he gets to walk the streets! 2 more months I live in fear! 2 more months I wait for justice!

I'm not the same folks... I don't know when I will be... but I'm trying. So please don't pass judgement when I write an off post, it may just be my way of coping with another twist in this whole situation.

No replies are necessary here... I just wanted to set the record straight, I'm tired of writing "I am going through some personal things right now" My name is a matter of public record now since I testified in the pre-trial so I'm no longer Jane Doe. But really I'm not supposed to talk about it, per my lawyer, so please don't ask questions.... Just know that I really do have personal issues going on...

OMG Kathryn!! I didn't know! I remember your accident but I never knew this terrible, unspeakable thing happened to you!

I am soo sorry! what a horrible piece of lard! Can you maybe go to a higher court and try your case there?

You don't have to defend yourself to anyone here! You don't owe anyone that! We (the members that know you) know you're a sweet, kind person!!

I hope this will all be over for you soon!

I will be praying for you

Your accident was all I knew about. I found you to be a very outgoing, funny, sympathetic, and sweet young lady. I'm so very sorry this despicable act from such a sick monster has caused you so much physical and emotional pain. When this freak does get put away, he's going to suffer the same horrible, painful fate as he gave. But his is going to last much much longer!
You will be in my prayers. :hug:

Hon I didn't know the extent of your current turmoil. Sending you prayers and lots of hugs your way. Hopefully that animal gets put away soon so he can't hurt anyone again.

You are in my prayers. How horrible for you to have to go thru this.

Hugs girl - don't let things get to you - you're a strong woman - you can do it......Jerks like that are cowards....concentrate on what'll happen to HIM when he's convicted and hopefully that'll help you get thru it.

OMG, I'm so sorry for all that you are going through. I don't know you but I just wanted to lend my support to you through this horrible ordeal.

Hang Tough, my Friend
 

Kat, please be strong. You have an army of people Praying for you. Sending hugs :ghug:

Prayer going up for you Kathryn. No one should have to go thru what you did and no one should have to live in fear.

i read that thread you were referring to where people were assuming things and it made me ill. I've only known you as pleaseant and helpful and SO fast with getting your products out. it's too bad that they can post such things on here and you have to go into personal details in order to defend yourself. I'll be praying for you. i hope the trial comes fast and is over with and justice is served.

I'm sorry you feel bad. I don't know you, but want you to know that I am glad you're posting.

:ghug: Hugs to you!

i'm sorry with everything that's going on. i don't know you personally either, but sending prayers your way. :)

No, no, no... I am not concerned about that thread... I am ok with that, she had every right to express her concerns as a customer. And I was very happy to see the support of all of the people who did post! It was very heart warming.

Seeing Shanas post is what drove me to post this. Over the months I have bit my tongue on numerous occasions and it has taken every ounce of restrain in me to do so. The "if they only know what I had on my plate" thoughts were so very overwhelming!

I just didn't want to have to use that BS line any more "personal bla bla bla"

Bottom line... I feel so much better not having to explain myself... I have a ton of S%@T on my plate right now. I'm not ok... I'm not the same... I'm a bit off.... But I'm dealing with it. :)





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Kathryn, you have had to go thru so much this past year. Be strong and hang in there. Our prayers are with you.

We Love You Kathryn V!!!
 

You know we are here for you, Kathryn!! Hang in there. Prayers continuing for you from here.

Wow... I'm sorry.

I doubt any long term members would ever think you are a flake. If anything they would only be concerned about you. I remember bits and pieces of your accident and other things and I just remember tons of people being worried about you. And those who don't know anything about your personal stuff still know you run a great business. You have a lot of friends here. :)

I am so sorry you had to endure that...I don't know you (I'm new) but my thoughts and prayers are with you. Good luck.

Kudos to you, girl. You are a strong woman and you will survive. I am sorry you have more to deal with than anyone deserves, but we are all here for you. I, myself, had no idea of either the accident or what followed. I only knew there was something in your life that was a struggle and hurting you. Not that it's any of my business, but I am glad to know what you are fighting so I can offer my support if it is ever needed. We need you here at YT and you need to be here. Thank you for all you've given us.:thumbup: :) . :bighug:

My sympathies. I hope that guy rots in jail, and I can only imagine how you feel on a daily basis. As for these people on here saying things... shame on them! I have always found you to be such a pleasant person! Hope things work out for you.

Lisa

Thats horrible. You are in my Prayers!! Put everything in God, and he will lead you through this.

Kathryn - there are no words to express my thoughts over the horror you had to endure. I would say you are functioning pretty well considering. Stay strong - you know we are there for you.

Kathryn, I just wanted to let you know that I've been thinking about you. I know you didn't want to have to put all of this out there, but I think you know how much support you have here on YT. It stinks that they postponed the trial again. This jerk :mad: will get what's coming to him one of these days. You know where I am if you need anything!

I'm so sorry! I didn't even know you had an accident! That is horrible. I can't even imagine what you are going thru. Many people here care about you, you don't have to explain anything to anyone. I hope things get better for you, I really do.

We know you have had alot of personal issues to deal with. We still love ya girl and are here for you whenever you need us. Good vibes headed you way with lots of huggs!!!!

Im sorry Kathryn.. I am one of those "older" members you are talking about.. so I know you are not a flake or a whatever else they have called you.. I am also a customer to your wonderful business and I have nothing but good things to say about how you are as a person, yorkie mom, wife, daughter and business owner.. you were one of the many other older members that reached out to me after maddy passed and during the whole ordeal... I hope this guy gets what he deserves and you can sleep safe at night knowing he got what was coming to him.. take care and like my mother used to tell me , "take everything with a grain of salt".. hugs girlie!

Kathryn I didn't know you had been injured to this extent. I am so sorry that you had to endure this horrible nightmare. I've seen that you are a kind person and a good business woman, honest and caring. I support you and will pray that justice is served for you and as soon as possible.

Kathryn, I remember you talking a little about that months ago. I'm sorry that you're still having to deal with it everyday. You have a great support group here. Hang in there!:)

I was also not aware of all the nasty details of your accident... I am so sorry you are having to go thru this. Girl, hang in there, we are here for you if you ever need us. We will continue sending prayers your way always...

About the negative ... just it(them) them be, they don't deserve a second of your thoughts...