Why is adoption so difficult? - YorkieTalk.com Forums

BubblPopElectrc · 06-03-2007, 10:35 AM

Why is it, with so many homeless cats and dogs, that adoption is SO difficult. As horrible as it sounds, no wonder so many people just buy from breeders and pet stores as opposed to adoption. Sure, you get gratification in the end, but the actual process of adoption is insane.

I am looking to adopt a kitten. About a block from where I live there is a small dog boutique that also fosters kittens for one of the local animal shelters. I had seen the kitten before, so I decided to stop by since I need dog food.

When I got in, she was loose so I was petting her and asking questions and every question I would ask, I would get the run around. I asked when she would be ready... they said about a month. I was said how that was fine.. I wasn't look to adopt immediately because I'm going on vacation soon. Then they said they would really like her to go home with other pets.. Uhh, what am I here buying dog food? I told them I had two dogs. Eventually she told me to check back in.... WHATEVER.

Over and over I got excuses! It was insane and really weird.

And I've had similar problems before when I tried to adopt a puppy from a rescue.. I was rejected because I didn't have a yard. I guess I am horrible to my two because I make them stay inside in the air conditioning and heat and when they go out they have to walk on leashes.

Sorry.. I just had to vent.

chachi · 06-03-2007, 11:20 AM

I am sorry adoption isnt going so well. I understand you frustration. Before I got Chachi and Jewels looked into adopting a yorkie but they wouldnt consider us because we had a 5 yr old child. Our home was perfect except for that. We own our home and our front and back yard is fenced and I am a stay at home Mom so I am home all day. It s a wonder that animals in rescues or foster situations get adopted with some of the rules. I found them to be very snooty too

TatumsMom · 06-03-2007, 02:56 PM

I hear ya! When we finally moved into our new house in the country, we decided to adopt two kittens - to be "outside cats". I am highly allergic so we can't have them in the house but wanted some outside to keep away the critters. It's not like they would have a bad life outside. We had a very large kennel to keep them in at night while they were young - so no bigger critters could get them. Well, one shelter turned us down flat because of the fact that they would be outdoor pets. What in the world is so wrong with that? They'd rather euthanize these poor things than give them a chance with someone that really wants them. Luckily at another shelter, we were able to adopt two adorable kittens. They've done great outside - spent their first year getting put up in the kennel at night until they were old enough to fend for themselves. They are spoiled fat cats though! And they keep the little critters away for the most part!

Anyway, our adoption story turned out okay in the end but it was ridiculous the fight that the first one gave us.

celstu1 · 06-03-2007, 03:19 PM

Ive had the SAME experiences and eventually bought my 2 boys from a breeder as well. I also had it with a Rotty I tried to adopt! its very sad that the 'good ones' like us, are rejected for insane reasons, but I guess they really do need to make sure the people and home are good so the dogs dont end up back there. But I really think that a personal evaluation, rather than a home evaluation should be more important! I mean I could walk 10 dogs, 10x a day if I had to, so just bc I dont have a yard does not mean that my dogs do not get the exercise they need! WHATEVER! haha (sorry, I get a bit heated when I think of how many times I was rejected when I KNOW I provide a great home!!)

sweetr72 · 06-03-2007, 03:28 PM

I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from..it seems there is always a reason I dont qualify for a rescue...and because of that I started my OWN small breed rescue LOL!! I have had to turn down a FEW people for obvious reasons but geez some of these rescue organizations are waaaaaaaaay too strict.

Dawn

BubblPopElectrc · 06-03-2007, 04:00 PM

Glad I'm not the only one who has had these problems.

Is it sad that they would rather turn down people for insane and unfair reasons isn't it?

Oh well! I'm gonna keep trying!

YorkieShadow · 06-03-2007, 04:07 PM

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Originally Posted by BubblPopElectrc

Glad I'm not the only one who has had these problems.

Is it sad that they would rather turn down people for insane and unfair reasons isn't it?

Oh well! I'm gonna keep trying!

If you want a kitten we have four you can have, and I just posted about a lady whos dog just killed a stray momma cat and she also has 4 3-4 week old kittens.

Anna Banana · 06-03-2007, 10:53 PM

Ugh, I know! It is soooo frustrating! Try going directly to a shelter instead, they'll probably be A LOT more lenient!

Anna Banana · 06-03-2007, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by YorkieShadow

If you want a kitten we have four you can have, and I just posted about a lady whos dog just killed a stray momma cat and she also has 4 3-4 week old kittens.

Even better! Help out YorkieShadow, she has her hands full!

xxmxaxrxyxx · 06-04-2007, 05:33 AM

yes from what i have read..it seems that trying to adopt is a pain in the a$$...kekek

Pipersmommy · 06-04-2007, 06:14 AM

Sometimes it is unbelievable. We bought Misha from a breeder but we had to fill out a questioner.
How many hours a day are we away from home working?
If we would have answered more than 5, they would have never let us have her. I could have never left her that long by herself anyway.
They also asked if we smoked, because they didn't want her getting 2nd hand smoke.
The breeder lives on the other side of the state, & they hand delivered her to inspect our home.
I though this was a great breeder to make sure she had the best. She wasn't cheap either.
We didn't have a problem with all the questions, she turned out to be the most perfect little girl we could have asked for.

BubblPopElectrc · 06-05-2007, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by YorkieShadow

If you want a kitten we have four you can have, and I just posted about a lady whos dog just killed a stray momma cat and she also has 4 3-4 week old kittens.

If only we lived in the same city!

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Originally Posted by Pipersmommy

Sometimes it is unbelievable. We bought Misha from a breeder but we had to fill out a questioner.
How many hours a day are we away from home working?
If we would have answered more than 5, they would have never let us have her. I could have never left her that long by herself anyway.
They also asked if we smoked, because they didn't want her getting 2nd hand smoke.
The breeder lives on the other side of the state, & they hand delivered her to inspect our home.
I though this was a great breeder to make sure she had the best. She wasn't cheap either.
We didn't have a problem with all the questions, she turned out to be the most perfect little girl we could have asked for.

If I was a breeder (which I could NEVER do- I'd get to attached and would never get rid of any puppies), I'd probably be just as picky! Haha.

jacky · 06-05-2007, 07:44 AM

i adopted a dog from a rescue after a LOOONGGGG adoption process. then evrey couple of weeks she would show up my house and "check up on things" she would DEMAND updated pictures by email, and would call me ALOT. thats why ever since then, ive bought my dogs from breeders, they do ask for pictures and want updates, but ive found breeders to be friendly and polite, not rude.

ARCHIE · 06-05-2007, 07:53 AM

I tried for 9months to adopt a homeless Yorkie from animal rescues without even a response! Believe me any yorkie they had was deprived of a wonderful loving home because I worked I would assume. I filled out many papers telling them about my whole life and the past lives of my pets. One lived to be
17 and the other 16 both rescues. Buddy was bought from a pet store so
I feel I did save a life afterall. Regardless, they ignore many wonderful homes because people work or don't have a yard. No wonder there are so many
unwanted animals in foster homes. No one is good enough for these rescues and I know I'm not the only one that feels this way.

Gazou · 06-05-2007, 08:01 AM

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Originally Posted by sweetr72

I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from..it seems there is always a reason I dont qualify for a rescue...and because of that I started my OWN small breed rescue LOL!! I have had to turn down a FEW people for obvious reasons but geez some of these rescue organizations are waaaaaaaaay too strict.

Dawn

If you had obvious reasons , maybe rescue organizations have too to turn down peoples .

06-03-2007, 10:35 AM	#1
BubblPopElectrc Kyle Plus 3 Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 6,929	Why is adoption so difficult? Why is it, with so many homeless cats and dogs, that adoption is SO difficult. As horrible as it sounds, no wonder so many people just buy from breeders and pet stores as opposed to adoption. Sure, you get gratification in the end, but the actual process of adoption is insane. I am looking to adopt a kitten. About a block from where I live there is a small dog boutique that also fosters kittens for one of the local animal shelters. I had seen the kitten before, so I decided to stop by since I need dog food. When I got in, she was loose so I was petting her and asking questions and every question I would ask, I would get the run around. I asked when she would be ready... they said about a month. I was said how that was fine.. I wasn't look to adopt immediately because I'm going on vacation soon. Then they said they would really like her to go home with other pets.. Uhh, what am I here buying dog food? I told them I had two dogs. Eventually she told me to check back in.... WHATEVER. Over and over I got excuses! It was insane and really weird. And I've had similar problems before when I tried to adopt a puppy from a rescue.. I was rejected because I didn't have a yard. I guess I am horrible to my two because I make them stay inside in the air conditioning and heat and when they go out they have to walk on leashes. Sorry.. I just had to vent. __________________ Kyle (me), Britney, Brooklyn, and Coral Last edited by BubblPopElectrc; 06-03-2007 at 10:37 AM.

06-03-2007, 11:20 AM	#2
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I am sorry adoption isnt going so well. I understand you frustration. Before I got Chachi and Jewels looked into adopting a yorkie but they wouldnt consider us because we had a 5 yr old child. Our home was perfect except for that. We own our home and our front and back yard is fenced and I am a stay at home Mom so I am home all day. It s a wonder that animals in rescues or foster situations get adopted with some of the rules. I found them to be very snooty too __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

06-03-2007, 02:56 PM	#3
TatumsMom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: TX Posts: 2,799	I hear ya! When we finally moved into our new house in the country, we decided to adopt two kittens - to be "outside cats". I am highly allergic so we can't have them in the house but wanted some outside to keep away the critters. It's not like they would have a bad life outside. We had a very large kennel to keep them in at night while they were young - so no bigger critters could get them. Well, one shelter turned us down flat because of the fact that they would be outdoor pets. What in the world is so wrong with that? They'd rather euthanize these poor things than give them a chance with someone that really wants them. Luckily at another shelter, we were able to adopt two adorable kittens. They've done great outside - spent their first year getting put up in the kennel at night until they were old enough to fend for themselves. They are spoiled fat cats though! And they keep the little critters away for the most part! Anyway, our adoption story turned out okay in the end but it was ridiculous the fight that the first one gave us. __________________ ~ Angie

06-03-2007, 03:19 PM	#4
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	Ive had the SAME experiences and eventually bought my 2 boys from a breeder as well. I also had it with a Rotty I tried to adopt! its very sad that the 'good ones' like us, are rejected for insane reasons, but I guess they really do need to make sure the people and home are good so the dogs dont end up back there. But I really think that a personal evaluation, rather than a home evaluation should be more important! I mean I could walk 10 dogs, 10x a day if I had to, so just bc I dont have a yard does not mean that my dogs do not get the exercise they need! WHATEVER! haha (sorry, I get a bit heated when I think of how many times I was rejected when I KNOW I provide a great home!!) __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

06-03-2007, 04:00 PM	#6
BubblPopElectrc Kyle Plus 3 Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 6,929	Glad I'm not the only one who has had these problems. Is it sad that they would rather turn down people for insane and unfair reasons isn't it? Oh well! I'm gonna keep trying! __________________ Kyle (me), Britney, Brooklyn, and Coral

06-03-2007, 03:28 PM	#5
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	I TOTALLY understand where you are coming from..it seems there is always a reason I dont qualify for a rescue...and because of that I started my OWN small breed rescue LOL!! I have had to turn down a FEW people for obvious reasons but geez some of these rescue organizations are waaaaaaaaay too strict. Dawn

06-03-2007, 10:53 PM	#8
Anna Banana YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: California Posts: 3,025	Ugh, I know! It is soooo frustrating! Try going directly to a shelter instead, they'll probably be A LOT more lenient! __________________ Anna and Wobie

06-04-2007, 05:33 AM	#10
xxmxaxrxyxx Missing Yoshi Everyday! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 15,110 Blog Entries: 3	yes from what i have read..it seems that trying to adopt is a pain in the a$$...kekek __________________ Yoshi Mei Ling Ting Ting Ting Ki Sun Hye Yukio Kioshi

06-04-2007, 06:14 AM	#11
Pipersmommy Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: SW Fl Posts: 1,808	Sometimes it is unbelievable. We bought Misha from a breeder but we had to fill out a questioner. How many hours a day are we away from home working? If we would have answered more than 5, they would have never let us have her. I could have never left her that long by herself anyway. They also asked if we smoked, because they didn't want her getting 2nd hand smoke. The breeder lives on the other side of the state, & they hand delivered her to inspect our home. I though this was a great breeder to make sure she had the best. She wasn't cheap either. We didn't have a problem with all the questions, she turned out to be the most perfect little girl we could have asked for. __________________ Debbie (mommy to) Misha, Piper & Maximillion

06-05-2007, 07:44 AM	#13
jacky YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Miami Posts: 308	i adopted a dog from a rescue after a LOOONGGGG adoption process. then evrey couple of weeks she would show up my house and "check up on things" she would DEMAND updated pictures by email, and would call me ALOT. thats why ever since then, ive bought my dogs from breeders, they do ask for pictures and want updates, but ive found breeders to be friendly and polite, not rude. __________________ Still looking for my perfect puppy My myspace <3

06-05-2007, 07:53 AM	#14
ARCHIE No Longer A Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: NEW YORK Posts: 16,218	I tried for 9months to adopt a homeless Yorkie from animal rescues without even a response! Believe me any yorkie they had was deprived of a wonderful loving home because I worked I would assume. I filled out many papers telling them about my whole life and the past lives of my pets. One lived to be 17 and the other 16 both rescues. Buddy was bought from a pet store so I feel I did save a life afterall. Regardless, they ignore many wonderful homes because people work or don't have a yard. No wonder there are so many unwanted animals in foster homes. No one is good enough for these rescues and I know I'm not the only one that feels this way.