Boyfriend question....

[JCarlson2004]

Originally Posted by LoveMyGirlz

I disagree that baby talk might be hard for a man to see a grown woman do!! HAha! My husband is almost as bad as I am!! LOL! And he is a bit biker type, long hair, tattoos etc! I think it's adorable! He walks in the door and the girls go running to him and he sings "its the girls, its the girls" in a not so masculine tone! When I brought home Gemma, he was playing cards with the guys and I sent him a picture of her to his phone. He said another guy said "oh....it's not even a dog, its one of those tiny things" and he said he turned to him and said "HEY NOW! Those are my daughters!!!" How cute is that?!
I think we've all been told we are "a tad over the top" by people who don't have a yorkie and just don't understand!

LOLOL!! I totally agree!! Jim baby talks alllll the time!! He does a better baby voice then me!! lol

[PuppyLovinNurse]

Well, based on this thread I'd say kick him to the curb. But, I have no way of knowing enough details of your overall relationship.

You're just lucky this came out after 2 months rather than 2 years.

[PuppyLovinNurse]

Originally Posted by LoveMyGirlz

I disagree that baby talk might be hard for a man to see a grown woman do!! HAha! My husband is almost as bad as I am!! LOL! And he is a bit biker type, long hair, tattoos etc! I think it's adorable! He walks in the door and the girls go running to him and he sings "its the girls, its the girls" in a not so masculine tone! When I brought home Gemma, he was playing cards with the guys and I sent him a picture of her to his phone. He said another guy said "oh....it's not even a dog, its one of those tiny things" and he said he turned to him and said "HEY NOW! Those are my daughters!!!" How cute is that?!
I think we've all been told we are "a tad over the top" by people who don't have a yorkie and just don't understand!

My fiance, too!!! He's a BIG guy, just over 6'4" and about 275lbs, HUGE muscular arms, piercings, etc. Anyways, he baby talks to Chloe ALL the time! He's always telling her he loves her and everything - SO cute - and kissing her. He baby talks when he plays with her or anything! He also calls her his daughter (so do I, obviously lol) and he snuggles her all the time. It's freakin' adorable!

[PuppyLovinNurse]

Originally Posted by jp4m2

Personally, how a person treats animals is a scale I use on a more deeper level of how that may transfer to relationships w/ people.....for me, it sends up red flags for his ability to feel compassion, jealousy, caring, understanding, warmth,
etc. etc. especially if I hear the words, " It's only a dog!"....that statement would be very telling for me...be careful & move slowly

Me, too!

Actually, when I knew I was going to be with my fiance forever is when he met my Min Pin. I can't really explain it, but she just went RUNNING to him & started kissing him like CRAZY & usually she's mean to strangers. And he picked her right up & started kissing her back.

And somehow, I just knew then.

[Tiggerwit]

Love you... love the dog

[PuppyLovinNurse]

Originally Posted by Pipersmommy

If you plan on making this boyfriend permanete, I might worry about some of his issues. All 3 of ours sleep with us, & it has cute down on the cuddling at night. If you know what I mean. They sleep between us & it's hard to even get a goodnight kiss without them being right up there getting theirs. Hubby says "just shut them out of the room," but I hear them scratching at the door which ruins the mood for me. We are older, so we plan our intimate nights around our furbabies.

LOL We need to start doing this. Chloe is permanently glued to me so it's so HARD to get frisky. She won't lay alone and I could never do anything with her barking to get on the bed with me, that's just weird (fiance doesn't agree ). It's been 2 months since we got her

[sondra2004]

Originally Posted by Betty'sMom

Ugh...I vote for Momiji. Hit the road, Jack...

I agree ! Your baby was there first. If you take her off your bed at bedtime she will think "What Did I Do Mommy".Im sorry this will not stop ! First its the dog next its the way you dress,what color lipstick you wear,what friends you have .........Love me for me and nothing else!

[Sadie's Mom]

I personally could never be with someone that didn't approve of the way I am with Sadie. She sleeps with me & if anyone ever had a problem with that, they'd be gone. But that's just me.

[Stella's mom]

Sounds like he could be a little insecure to me, I mean really having an issue about a furbaby....hmmmm....what's next? family..friends.

[browniesmom622]

Originally Posted by Betty'sMom

Ugh...I vote for Momiji. Hit the road, Jack...

[mizzwanned]

Originally Posted by PuppyLovinNurse

My fiance, too!!! He's a BIG guy, just over 6'4" and about 275lbs, HUGE muscular arms, piercings, etc. Anyways, he baby talks to Chloe ALL the time! He's always telling her he loves her and everything - SO cute - and kissing her. He baby talks when he plays with her or anything! He also calls her his daughter (so do I, obviously lol) and he snuggles her all the time. It's freakin' adorable!

My bf's a total softee with Teddy and London also. He baby talks to them and always worries about them, holds them like babies. It's so cute!

[Luckyone]

I agree with everyone else. How could a man be jealous over a dog? And if he can't accept you for who you are and the love for your dog, then he's obviously not worth the time.

[AngelWorks]

Originally Posted by PuppyLovinNurse

LOL We need to start doing this. Chloe is permanently glued to me so it's so HARD to get frisky. She won't lay alone and I could never do anything with her barking to get on the bed with me, that's just weird (fiance doesn't agree ). It's been 2 months since we got her

Two words---- bully stick--- A king size bed with a far corner doesn't hurt either.

Milo reads me really well. He knows when I get THAT look in my eyes same way The Hubster does.

[camly]

Originally Posted by PuppyLovinNurse

LOL We need to start doing this. Chloe is permanently glued to me so it's so HARD to get frisky. She won't lay alone and I could never do anything with her barking to get on the bed with me, that's just weird (fiance doesn't agree ). It's been 2 months since we got her

yes i was thinking give them a bullystick or a kong filled with peanut butter or something .. it'll keep them occupied for plenty of time

[SophieRose]

Originally Posted by Akina

I just start dating this guy for about 2 months now.
He likes Momiji(see attached picture) but now he tells me there are few things that bothers him.
He said I'm too attached to my dog that he feels he isn't getting attention from me, doesn't want to sleep on the bed with her, and can't stand I talk baby talk with her.
I am VERY attached with my dog.
I agree that she should sleep on her bed, not mine.
I can't help talk baby with her, she IS my baby.
Am I so wrong or crazy????

Whoa! Are you really satisfied with his demands? Step back and think if someone was telling you this story. I would imagine at this point, you are avoiding your pup at certain times so he won't be upset. Correct? Listen to your inner self talk to you...your pup is your child at this time in your life. Good luck and remember you have a voice and you are the voice for your pup.