Im Furious!!!!!!

[SWEETPEA]

the guy im seeing dumped me last night over a jealous rage. im so pist off cause i really care for him. all i did was go out with my best friend for coffee and he flipped on me

[Elisandra]

Well if he's going to get jealous like that over you going out with your friend those are the first warning signs that he is not able to trust you. Like they say things happen for a reason and although you said you really liked him there is nothing good that can come out of a relationship where your partner does not trust you.

Who knows you might meet the one who sweeps you off your feet and is not jealous.


good luck and if he calls you and says he'll change be weary because they might change at the beginging but then they fall back into the same routine.


Good luck

[SWEETPEA]

Originally Posted by Elisandra

Well if he's going to get jealous like that over you going out with your friend those are the first warning signs that he is not able to trust you. Like they say things happen for a reason and although you said you really liked him there is nothing good that can come out of a relationship where your partner does not trust you.

Who knows you might meet the one who sweeps you off your feet and is not jealous.


good luck and if he calls you and says he'll change be weary because they might change at the beginging but then they fall back into the same routine.


Good luck

thanks alot. its a real shame. he doesnt like my friend so thats why he gets like that

[Elisandra]

Originally Posted by SWEETPEA

thanks alot. its a real shame. he doesnt like my friend so thats why he gets like that

Remember your friends will always be there for you no matter what.

[red98vett]

Originally Posted by SWEETPEA

the guy im seeing dumped me last night over a jealous rage. im so pist off cause i really care for him. all i did was go out with my best friend for coffee and he flipped on me

Girl - there's some serious insecurity issues going on there if that's all you did.....when men are that jealous over our friends it only gets worse...take it from someone who's been there. I LOVE my ex husband but that's why he's an ex.

[Shadow]

I agree with V no matter if he likes your friend you do and he needs to get a handle on his emotions. Good luck!

[SWEETPEA]

Originally Posted by red98vett

Girl - there's some serious insecurity issues going on there if that's all you did.....when men are that jealous over our friends it only gets worse...take it from someone who's been there. I LOVE my ex husband but that's why he's an ex.

lol v youre too funny. but you are probably right. men i guess im better off alone

[psugorilladdr]

Originally Posted by SWEETPEA

the guy im seeing dumped me last night over a jealous rage. im so pist off cause i really care for him. all i did was go out with my best friend for coffee and he flipped on me

I've been with a guy like this. I don't understand the whole thing, but I know I kept going back to him and it eventually got to the point that I wasn't going to spend time with anyone else, not even my family. So my family said, it's him or us... and I chose FAMILY and FRIENDS over a dumb boy.

Needless to say that was a year after high school. My 2nd year in college I met this fabulous guy (and I wasn't even looking!), we've been together almost 3 years... and we'll be getting married in a year or so. So don't worry about it, when you least expect it you'll find someone, and it will be perfect!

So, I hate to say it, but momma was right. And yes, I did tell her that, and yes she laughed and said, "I told ya didn't I...."

[SWEETPEA]

yep i know about mothers are always right. but the funny thing about this she really likes this one

[psugorilladdr]

Originally Posted by SWEETPEA

yep i know about mothers are always right. but the funny thing about this she really likes this one

That is funny. I hated having to admit that to her, and I always thought she knew nothing

[camly]

oky hun ... take it from me whos STILL in a jealous relatinoship .... in the beginning he used to get jealous over the silliest thing .. ie a myspace comment on my page or me giving a guy friend a hug. things got so bad that we'd fight all the time and make a scene in front of ppl. i mean i love this guy a lot and i am just in too deep now but i know if he asked me to marry him i'd say no ... but its to the point where i've changed myself a lot to cater to his insecurities (bad idea) meaning that i rarely talk to guys without feeling like 'oh s*%^ is he around, b/c he'll take this the wrong way and we're going to get into a fight.' and i am a lot less outgoing than what i used to be. but i also know that when times are good, its amazing i can't believe how good life could be but just as extreme the good times are, so are the bad and its like WWII. there's no inbetween with these guys. and he may get a little better but he won't change, you will see yourself change more than you will him...and the way he's jealous with you, you will begin to get jealous with him ... b/c he's expecting a certain type of behavior of you he should do the same right? maybe you never know you know? ... so take it from someone who's still experiencing this .. be careful, be strong, and really think the kind of relationship you have if it is worth all that ... and hey if you are ever needing anyone to talk to about this i am here for you

[SWEETPEA]

Originally Posted by camly

oky hun ... take it from me whos STILL in a jealous relatinoship .... in the beginning he used to get jealous over the silliest thing .. ie a myspace comment on my page or me giving a guy friend a hug. things got so bad that we'd fight all the time and make a scene in front of ppl. i mean i love this guy a lot and i am just in too deep now but i know if he asked me to marry him i'd say no ... but its to the point where i've changed myself a lot to cater to his insecurities (bad idea) meaning that i rarely talk to guys without feeling like 'oh s*%^ is he around, b/c he'll take this the wrong way and we're going to get into a fight.' and i am a lot less outgoing than what i used to be. but i also know that when times are good, its amazing i can't believe how good life could be but just as extreme the good times are, so are the bad and its like WWII. there's no inbetween with these guys. and he may get a little better but he won't change, you will see yourself change more than you will him...and the way he's jealous with you, you will begin to get jealous with him ... b/c he's expecting a certain type of behavior of you he should do the same right? maybe you never know you know? ... so take it from someone who's still experiencing this .. be careful, be strong, and really think the kind of relationship you have if it is worth all that ... and hey if you are ever needing anyone to talk to about this i am here for you

thanks alot since im single again now i have time to think if this is really worth fighting for or i should just forget about him.

[SWEETPEA]

thanks alot guys very good advises you guys are awesome thats why i really love yt

[red98vett]

Originally Posted by SWEETPEA

thanks alot since im single again now i have time to think if this is really worth fighting for or i should just forget about him.

I know you're hurting but had to say this....don't bother fighting for him....soon it will be fighting WITH him ...again and again and again unless he gets over his insecurities and lets you be your own woman. Having coffee with a friend is so non threatening - but it shows how his mind is working.

has he always been this way or is it new ?

[SWEETPEA]

Originally Posted by red98vett

I know you're hurting but had to say this....don't bother fighting for him....soon it will be fighting WITH him ...again and again and again unless he gets over his insecurities and lets you be your own woman. Having coffee with a friend is so non threatening - but it shows how his mind is working.

has he always been this way or is it new ?

hes never been like this. but let me tell you about my friend shes done things to be in the past but shes been there for me to. shes kind of slutie but he knows im nothing like that so he really doesnt want me around her