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genie · 05-05-2007, 04:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Baby Blessing

You are letting the love shine through you by not parting and rehoming Bentley, that is what having a pet is all about.....LOVE. You also are a caring person to realize the care and well being of four is enough. Bless you for the love you have for each of yours. He is adoreable and love the name you chose for him. Patti

Thank you so much.

genie · 05-05-2007, 06:02 AM

I am feeling better about this today. I just always wanted another yorkie like Hannah, but for some reason god sent me Bentley instead....

bruizersmummy · 05-05-2007, 06:59 AM

I think you are doing the right thing. The Breeder is someone I would stay away from as she is the one who kinda made up your mind about buying Bentley! She told you she would not be breeding for a while cause she wanted to travel! Sounds like she just wanted you to buy one of the pups she had at the time! But all and all, SHE LIED! So love you boy as you are now and pretend you never even knew the breeder had another litter!

pepe mint · 05-05-2007, 07:12 AM

yeah, he is quite a doll. i can see how you would love him so much

I dont think you will have regrets down the road. everything happens for a reason...just remember that. there is a reason you didn't get one of those yorkies and got this maltese instead. who knows why...but there is a reason. sounds like you really love him and he really loves you.

now...with that being said...I'll take him if you change your mind LOL

chattiesmom · 05-05-2007, 07:12 AM

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Originally Posted by genie

I am feeling better about this today. I just always wanted another yorkie like Hannah, but for some reason god sent me Bentley instead....

Genie, my heart weeps for you. I understand completely and entirely the sorrow and confusion. Loving Bentley has nothing to do with the heart break of losing out on Hannah's sister

There is a reason that it is Bentley with you drying your tears with puppy kisses....

sending hugs

camly · 05-05-2007, 07:14 AM

BENTLEY IS ADORABLE!!!!

i think in life there are always things we all want, just like how you really wanted another yorkie like hannah ... but even though a new puppy came from the same parents, she/he may not be like hannah. you love bentley and yes you amy always want another yorkie but you can go on without another one ... you coudln't go on without bentley right? its so wonderful how much you love all your animals!

Yorkiedaze · 05-05-2007, 07:54 AM

I only have two Yorkies, and could afford more but I would have think about how much more difficult it would be to take them places. Right now Zada and Azrael go everywhere with me, except to Dr. dentist, Wal-Mart and such. I put them in the bike basket and off we go, I take them for daily walks, weather permitting, they go to play-dates, travel with us and on and on. If I had more than two, it just wouldn't work very well and I would have to leave them home more often I suppose. Soooooo..........just think about things very carefully before considering a fifth dog. Bentley is a beautiful boy and your so lucky you have him. So very many people are still looking for a baby like him and some can't even afford even one dog. Count the blessings that you already have.

genie · 05-05-2007, 08:16 AM

Thanks to all of you, you have made me feel much better and helped me put things into perspective...Thanks...

stedmansmommy · 05-15-2007, 02:45 PM

Oh Genie, I am so sorry about this! I wish I would have known she told you this, because she e-mailed me on 4/15 and told me that she had new puppies born that were from Hannah's mom and dad. And I had been wondering why you decided on a Maltese because I knew that you had wanted another Yorkie from Lona. She did mention to me that she would no longer be breeding as she did want to do some traveling and also because she just couldn't compete with breeders who were only in it "for profit" - also she said that her puppies are not quite as small and everyone is after the "pocket sized" pups now

I can TOTALLY understand how upset you must have been though girl. Hannah is just gorgeous but Bentley is precious as well and as some of the others have said, everything happens for a reason

peanut · 05-15-2007, 03:22 PM

Genie, Bentley is a dollbaby, I think you will be happy with your decision in time...but when you move you can get more yorkies, I know you wanted one from Hannah's parents, but you never know she could have more litters, she said she wasn't going to have anymore then did, so she probably will....And if you get tried of Bentley send him down to me....

Jenn218 · 05-15-2007, 03:36 PM

I am sooo sorry that you are dealing w/ this.....I would say, go ahead and get another one....IF you have time of it, IF you can afford it, IF you are sure you really need it, etc.

Bently is a total cutie pie!! I would take him in a heartbeat, but he is already attached to you and your family and your other pets.....imagine what you all would go thru if he wasn't there!

Definitely keep him ---- that's a given for sure! Then, sit down and have a meeting and heart to heart w/ your family to decide if another Yorkie is right for you at this time!

Good luck!

Tiger's Mom · 05-15-2007, 03:44 PM

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Originally Posted by genie

This is Bentley, I think he is beautiful and he is sooo loving...he loves me..

oh I think Bently is adorable . . . .he looks like a cuddle bug

Sometimes you need to know when it is time to say NO to another dog . . . no matter how much you love having a big brood . . . 4 is plenty and you really are already lucky to have them all

I am envious

jacky · 05-15-2007, 06:53 PM

my friend has a maltese, im surprised at how clean his coat stays. sometimes i swear she bleaches him.. lol :P

genie · 05-15-2007, 07:55 PM

Thanks everyone....I feel alot better about everything. I do love Bentley and I think it was meant for me to have him. He is so happy here and he and Hannah love each other now (most of the time). He always has a smile on his face no matter what and I wonder if I had not got him if he would have been this happy. Here is some new pics.

genie · 05-15-2007, 07:56 PM

Thanks, I pm'd you.

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Originally Posted by stedmansmommy

Oh Genie, I am so sorry about this! I wish I would have known she told you this, because she e-mailed me on 4/15 and told me that she had new puppies born that were from Hannah's mom and dad. And I had been wondering why you decided on a Maltese because I knew that you had wanted another Yorkie from Lona. She did mention to me that she would no longer be breeding as she did want to do some traveling and also because she just couldn't compete with breeders who were only in it "for profit" - also she said that her puppies are not quite as small and everyone is after the "pocket sized" pups now

I can TOTALLY understand how upset you must have been though girl. Hannah is just gorgeous but Bentley is precious as well and as some of the others have said, everything happens for a reason

05-05-2007, 06:59 AM	#18
bruizersmummy YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Michigan Posts: 662	I think you are doing the right thing. The Breeder is someone I would stay away from as she is the one who kinda made up your mind about buying Bentley! She told you she would not be breeding for a while cause she wanted to travel! Sounds like she just wanted you to buy one of the pups she had at the time! But all and all, SHE LIED! So love you boy as you are now and pretend you never even knew the breeder had another litter! __________________ Jenni and (thanks to YT) Essie!!!! Essie's on Myspace. Add us! myspace.com/brenden_allison

05-05-2007, 07:12 AM	#19
pepe mint YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Franklin, TN Posts: 11,145	yeah, he is quite a doll. i can see how you would love him so much I dont think you will have regrets down the road. everything happens for a reason...just remember that. there is a reason you didn't get one of those yorkies and got this maltese instead. who knows why...but there is a reason. sounds like you really love him and he really loves you. now...with that being said...I'll take him if you change your mind LOL __________________ Anyone who does not know what soap tastes like has never washed a dog

05-05-2007, 07:14 AM	#21
camly Mommy to Kikko-man Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: California/taiwan Posts: 1,562	BENTLEY IS ADORABLE!!!! i think in life there are always things we all want, just like how you really wanted another yorkie like hannah ... but even though a new puppy came from the same parents, she/he may not be like hannah. you love bentley and yes you amy always want another yorkie but you can go on without another one ... you coudln't go on without bentley right? its so wonderful how much you love all your animals! __________________ Camly Kikko

05-15-2007, 02:45 PM	#24
stedmansmommy I Love My Lil' Punkin's Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Stedman and Tatum's World :) Posts: 15,331 Blog Entries: 5	Oh Genie, I am so sorry about this! I wish I would have known she told you this, because she e-mailed me on 4/15 and told me that she had new puppies born that were from Hannah's mom and dad. And I had been wondering why you decided on a Maltese because I knew that you had wanted another Yorkie from Lona. She did mention to me that she would no longer be breeding as she did want to do some traveling and also because she just couldn't compete with breeders who were only in it "for profit" - also she said that her puppies are not quite as small and everyone is after the "pocket sized" pups now I can TOTALLY understand how upset you must have been though girl. Hannah is just gorgeous but Bentley is precious as well and as some of the others have said, everything happens for a reason __________________ Mommy Loves Stedman and Tatum! They have us wrapped around their little paws!

05-15-2007, 03:22 PM	#25
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	Genie, Bentley is a dollbaby, I think you will be happy with your decision in time...but when you move you can get more yorkies, I know you wanted one from Hannah's parents, but you never know she could have more litters, she said she wasn't going to have anymore then did, so she probably will....And if you get tried of Bentley send him down to me.... __________________ KIM

05-05-2007, 06:02 AM	#17
genie Loves Hannah & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: washington Posts: 1,752	I am feeling better about this today. I just always wanted another yorkie like Hannah, but for some reason god sent me Bentley instead....

05-05-2007, 07:54 AM	#22
Yorkiedaze My hairy-legged girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: lompoc, ca. Posts: 12,228	I only have two Yorkies, and could afford more but I would have think about how much more difficult it would be to take them places. Right now Zada and Azrael go everywhere with me, except to Dr. dentist, Wal-Mart and such. I put them in the bike basket and off we go, I take them for daily walks, weather permitting, they go to play-dates, travel with us and on and on. If I had more than two, it just wouldn't work very well and I would have to leave them home more often I suppose. Soooooo..........just think about things very carefully before considering a fifth dog. Bentley is a beautiful boy and your so lucky you have him. So very many people are still looking for a baby like him and some can't even afford even one dog. Count the blessings that you already have.

05-05-2007, 08:16 AM	#23
genie Loves Hannah & Gracie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: washington Posts: 1,752	Thanks to all of you, you have made me feel much better and helped me put things into perspective...Thanks...

05-15-2007, 03:36 PM	#26
Jenn218 Mojo, LilyGrace & Me Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: cuddling with my babies<3 Posts: 17,329	I am sooo sorry that you are dealing w/ this.....I would say, go ahead and get another one....IF you have time of it, IF you can afford it, IF you are sure you really need it, etc. Bently is a total cutie pie!! I would take him in a heartbeat, but he is already attached to you and your family and your other pets.....imagine what you all would go thru if he wasn't there! Definitely keep him ---- that's a given for sure! Then, sit down and have a meeting and heart to heart w/ your family to decide if another Yorkie is right for you at this time! Good luck! __________________ Hi I'm Jenn Mom to..... Mojo,LilyGrace & DD Kate RIP Mojo FOREVER in our hearts!

05-15-2007, 06:53 PM	#28
jacky YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Miami Posts: 308	my friend has a maltese, im surprised at how clean his coat stays. sometimes i swear she bleaches him.. lol :P __________________ Still looking for my perfect puppy My myspace <3