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topknot · 03-31-2007, 03:10 AM

My best recommendation is that you should talk to your mom or someone you trust that is there - someone that is responsible fpr you. Sounds like a lot is going on. I am sure if you sit them down and explain they will understand and know you better and about the situation and give you great advice.
Also 11 - 14 is way too young to date, let alone going too far. Sounds like the guy only wanted one thing and probably doesn't respect you. So dump him and just enjoy being a kid. Believe me - you have a whole life time to be a grown up and it is more fun just being a kid. Groups with friends are cool, but single date and running off only leads to Big Trouble! Once you have a kid - you have to do everything for them - not much time you "you" anymore.
T.

yougetthesmiles · 03-31-2007, 05:31 AM

Most definitely!!! My daughter will be 17 in July, and we just started to let her date when she turned 16.
I think you will be asking for trouble if you do IMO

blondflava · 03-31-2007, 02:00 PM

wow, I think it's way too young. Kids are not kids as long as they were when I was growing up but I'm from Europe, they USED to be a little slower with dating and all... But still, 11 is too early. At 15, I'd let my kid go have ice-cream or see a movie with another kid (date). But be dropped off and picked up and all.

Morkie4 · 03-31-2007, 02:02 PM

Way Too Young!!!! Jmo:d

xtine · 03-31-2007, 02:05 PM

I grew up very early..

I started dating when I was 13, My parents were very lenient with me. I never snuck out or anything like that to date, they let me do as I pleased.

I'm now married with the man I started dating when I was 14.. we have 1 baby girl together and we are both LVN's..

I think it really depends on how your raised. My parents thought as long as i'm honest and careful with my choices they support me.

My cousins both were not allowed to date till they were 18

, needless to say both of them ran away at the age of 16 and decided to get pregnant, one of them now has 2 kids, different fathers, but the children are both healthy. the other one also has 2 kids different fathers, but is marrying the father of her 2nd child. they have even said it themselves, they are rebels and all they wanted to do was rebel against their parents' rules. if they were allowed to date, they said things probaby would have been different.

Im not condoning you to date if your 11-13 years of age. My parents just got lucky with me that i've got a good head on my shoulders and I picked the right man

I say best advice is to talk to your parents about it, parents know best right?

Booboo'smommy · 03-31-2007, 02:24 PM

way too young...I think you should take it slowly. Try and enjoy your youth first.

03-31-2007, 02:00 PM	#18
blondflava Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Kearny, NJ Posts: 1,183	wow, I think it's way too young. Kids are not kids as long as they were when I was growing up but I'm from Europe, they USED to be a little slower with dating and all... But still, 11 is too early. At 15, I'd let my kid go have ice-cream or see a movie with another kid (date). But be dropped off and picked up and all. __________________ Izabela ... and Pepper Rest in peace, Kora, you're always in my

03-31-2007, 02:02 PM	#19
Morkie4 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 4,549	Way Too Young!!!! Jmo:d __________________ CAROL ~ Krissie ~ Toby ~ Brandy ~ Buffy Proud member of Maltesetalk and Yorkietalk

03-31-2007, 02:24 PM	#21
Booboo'smommy LUV my 3 Furrs & Alex Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Worcester-UK Posts: 4,621 Blog Entries: 1	way too young...I think you should take it slowly. Try and enjoy your youth first. __________________ Mommy 's AlexBoo-BooPheoebeand Snowy WE YT

03-31-2007, 03:10 AM	#16
topknot Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: GA Posts: 3,787	My best recommendation is that you should talk to your mom or someone you trust that is there - someone that is responsible fpr you. Sounds like a lot is going on. I am sure if you sit them down and explain they will understand and know you better and about the situation and give you great advice. Also 11 - 14 is way too young to date, let alone going too far. Sounds like the guy only wanted one thing and probably doesn't respect you. So dump him and just enjoy being a kid. Believe me - you have a whole life time to be a grown up and it is more fun just being a kid. Groups with friends are cool, but single date and running off only leads to Big Trouble! Once you have a kid - you have to do everything for them - not much time you "you" anymore. T.

03-31-2007, 05:31 AM	#17
yougetthesmiles BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,295 Blog Entries: 3	Most definitely!!! My daughter will be 17 in July, and we just started to let her date when she turned 16. I think you will be asking for trouble if you do IMO

03-31-2007, 02:05 PM	#20
xtine Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: CA Posts: 1,406	I grew up very early.. I started dating when I was 13, My parents were very lenient with me. I never snuck out or anything like that to date, they let me do as I pleased. I'm now married with the man I started dating when I was 14.. we have 1 baby girl together and we are both LVN's.. I think it really depends on how your raised. My parents thought as long as i'm honest and careful with my choices they support me. My cousins both were not allowed to date till they were 18 , needless to say both of them ran away at the age of 16 and decided to get pregnant, one of them now has 2 kids, different fathers, but the children are both healthy. the other one also has 2 kids different fathers, but is marrying the father of her 2nd child. they have even said it themselves, they are rebels and all they wanted to do was rebel against their parents' rules. if they were allowed to date, they said things probaby would have been different. Im not condoning you to date if your 11-13 years of age. My parents just got lucky with me that i've got a good head on my shoulders and I picked the right man I say best advice is to talk to your parents about it, parents know best right?