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Yesterday, 02:33 PM
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its covered so dont worry yourself!
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Was I the only one that rec'd this PM

Or did you send one to (Breny, Stephluvsangel6, Hunniebunnie, Brutus'Mama, I Love Bailey, Peanut, Chloeandj, Red98vett) everyone that asked a question? Why didn't you post this in the public area? Didn't want them to see just how deliberate you are?

I'm not sure I understand your anger towards me. I posted once asking what happened - which you side stepped it the entire thread! You were the one to post about your problem - you should have expected questions...

You weren't just crabby - you had to take time out to PM me. You singled me out... WHY? I don't recall ever having any talks with you and I usually don't respond to negative threads... I was trying to find out what happened and if you really needed some "help".

I wasn't born yesterday, I've met a plenty of people like you, and from experience - people who aren't willing to tell the whole story are hiding something!!!

I know you didn't start off asking for money - but you didn't refuse it either. You have a pattern Kristy - you need some help other than financial. I don't believe this is the first time you've been in trouble ($$) and it won't be the last until you seek help. In just one thread you say how Grandma has had to help, the people who are like parents to you have helped, your husband's Mom has helped, and now - some very nice YT'ers have helped. No steady jobs, no bank account.... see any patterns? I do.

Yes everyone does deserve a second chance - but I truly believe you've gone past that. You're angry & mean spirited! I read where you owe another YT member - she has repeatedly asked you about it and everytime I see your response - it is rude! An occasional forgetfulness, an unexpected emergency etc. --- all understandable. But when you are in the "wrong" rudeness does not fly in my book! And if you were truly changing your ways, why didn't you PM me back to apologize?

Please do not PM me again... I don't have time for this!

can you please keep these things in private

i too was a little weary about sending money. i too wanted some questions answered but the forum took off on its own. there are toooooo many scammers out there.. and it is sad to say.. we need to question one of our own. but we have to. this world in which we live in has become a world of computer scammers. it was just on our news about chat forums being the next big place for scammers. there is no protection. these people come into our lives and we become to love them as if they are family. these people are involved in 100's of chat forums and tell their "financial problems" on each chat and can make 100's of thousands of dollars in one day.

anyway.....you get my point. eventhough we don't think it would happen here, we still have to protect ourselves. i read the forum and these questions were all legit.

i don't thinks she needs to keep this private......her question went out to everyone on the thread.

Case-in-point...I'm a member of another site. Money was raised for someone's dog (for medical expenses). Money was sent to one key person who would collect all of the money and give it to the receiving person in one lump sum...the guy closed his account and took off with the money. This was a person that we'd known for a while and liked! NEVER would we have thought he would do something like this.

Now, I missed out on the reason for this thread so.....

OMG!!!!!!! :thumbdown :mad:

OMG that is terrible!!!

Thank You LisaTodd...

browniesmom622... I think that she owes people money or merchandise on here and I don't think it OK to start a "fundraiser" for someone who has done that to other members. Or does someone want to collect money to cover that too?

BTW there isn't there a bad seller forum? You report them, right?

Sorry --- jmo!

what I dont understand is, their is not suppose to be any Fund Raising aloud on YT, why was it aloud this time?

I have to agree with CJ, she did get herself into this situation and others had to bail her out. She would not give any reason to why she is in this situation. What is going to happen next month when her house payment is due? Are you all going to bail her out again? I dont see any reason wrong with helping people out, I agree we all should pay it forward, but everyone has a right to know why and where their money is going to.

I totally remember that Kimberley & had donated to that cause....that guy has to live with himself and I hope he can't sleep at night - imagine stealing a few hundred that was marked for a sick yorkie ??? :thumbdown what a freaking coward and loser that guy was. (This did NOT happen here on YT)

WOW that is disgusting! How could someone do that and live with themselves!

Well I'm a firm believe in what comes around goes around so......

i thought this myself.

I just returned from vacation and have no clue as to what 'fundraising post' you all referring to.

I do however, noticed a handful of YT members who are awaiting a refund or goods. This has been handled through PM for weeks now and I don't think this should be kept private anymore.

I myself, recommended her to a non-YT member (my best friend) and never received her goods. The order was placed on the 6th (I remember well because it's my birthday) and after numerous emails (which went unresponded) I decided to PM Kristy here. I did get in touch with her and a refund is being issued. This is after numerous of emails and nagging from my friend's part.

I have no idea why the order went unfulfilled or mailed out (along with many others here). I had opened my big mouth in a thread a few weeks ago and got almost chewed out for 'daring' mentioning that if you cannot handle the business then do not do it.

I have no idea what financial problems Kristy you are enduring but let me tell you........I am have great ones too. Having said that, the LAST thing I'd do is scam others or prostitute. I hope this is not your case. If there is a will, there is a way. I am sorry you are having difficulties and pray for the better.

Good luck

Jess

I'd hate to see people leary of everything and never want to help out :( .... but I think this thread was started because of the way things were handled.

I know I spoke with her privately and did say jumping on people won\'t help anything....There is no reason to get rude with people ....especially when we\'re all trying to help...and to give Kristi the benefit of the doubt.... I think she felt bad about how she handled the questions...

but ....this is a good time to learn from mistakes. Maybe with the help she got yesterday, the orders pending & or refunds can be straightened out & apologies to those people can be made ???

Well now....I will respond...take it or leave it...
 

I am extremely dissappointed in what is continuing to happen with this issue.....

I read her dilemma yesterday. I felt that by buying items we could help.....You could help if you want. If you did not want to, so be it.....

I know that I tend to be "forgiving" probably more than most......maybe because I have been there......maybe because I see death everyday...maybe because I am sincere and giving,....maybe because it makes ME feel better.....I did not buy to make Kristy feel better......I bought because it made ME feel good....call me selfish.....well, whatever.....it makes me feel good for me to help..........plain and simple...

If there have been issues with shipping, or WHATEVER......then that is NOT my business. That is between the TWO people involved.....I know nothing about that......

I did what I did because I wanted to.

And it is not up to me to dictate how someone reponds, or how I think they should respond.....that is on their shoulders....

What was something meant to be so selfless....has turned into something more.....

Maybe it is time to let it rest...

The way I looked at it......I blow $40 eating out with my family.......I will just cook at home this week......I know that the decision that I made was in the best interest of me.....

i believe the thread was deleted or closed

it was closed at MY request. i didnt go on here yesterday for handouts or rip ppl off. I amnot a scammer.... I came on here to ask for guidenace and prayers. ppl helped and thats great but if i new it would cause this much turmoil than i would have refused it all. I would rather lose my house than have ppl think bad of me or my intent and think of me just as a scammer. I have taled to the ppl that never got thier order and all is straghtened out. I posted another thread also stating that any orders that havbe NOT been recieved that I havent talked to please let me know. I must have overlooked two. My problem is i dont have a "filing" sytem.. thats a big problem which thats being fixed. if any has questions let me know! again, any questions would be gladly accepted. I really would rather not put all of it on the open forum however. :(

I found it.........YT members have hearts of Gold. I would have donated too if I could have.

they were awesome

im sorry i spoke im just gonna shut up today since im just getting jumped at today
ive got better things to do

I read the thread yesterday, all of it. Then I went to the for sale threads and saw how people were not receiving products they paid for with their hard earned money. I have seen alot of excuses as to why and find it rather hard to swallow. If there was a problem with shipping, I could understand, maybe. But not with all of the non-received products.

I sent a package to my daughter 1 week before Christmas and she received it in 2 days. I emailed her the tracking number so she and I could both track it.

You can only do so much for someone and then you have to stop, especially when it is evident that they seem to continue with this sort of behavior/pattern. At some point they have to start helping themselves.

I think that admin should set up a policy that if people are having problems receiving their products, and it is a pattern, then the person doing the selling loses the right to post any For Sale items. JMO

I am sure that most of us have been in dire situations, but we work it out for ourselves. We do not take advantage of the kindness of others.

Very well said! I think it might be hard for Admin to monitor the for sale threads. But maybe there should be a place for people to post their concerns?

ok lets all just forget about it already,, jeez let it go already....
the new year is right around the corner.. lets just all be nice, love thy
neighbor... whatever!!!!!! let it be !!!!!! ... i just want to say , i helped
the girl out because i wanted to thats all... for what ever reason she had.
and it made me feel better cause i was able to help ... if i couldnt do it ,
i wouldnt....

just wanted to say..im not selling on here anymore..notice the signature.. im fullfilling these last orders and thats it.

Kristy please clear some of your PMs.

Kristy, I would just like to THANK YOU for being so prompt and working with me when I ordered a birthday cake and treats from you. I had an excellent experience with you, as I have all other YT\'ers and I would not hesitate to do business with you in the future. I am sorry to hear that option is not available any longer.

XOXO-
Amy

me tooooooo

Solicitations for donations is not allowed here at YorkieTalk. It is impossible for the YorkieTalk team to monitor each and every post on YorkieTalk, thus we rely on members to report problematic posts. Some posts that violate YorkieTalk rules may get through from time to time.

If we do receive numerous reports of a seller not shipping goods that have been paid for, we will take action, including suspending or banning accounts. There are many reputable, fashionable, and reliable storeowners on YorkieTalk. We do not specifically endorse any stores nor do we have any ownership in any online stores that advertise here. We recommend payment by credit card for any orders that you make for your own protection, in case there is a problem.

Thank you for your feedback.

Thank You admin. I believe i have reponded to ppl that have not received their items yet THE TWO PPL.. and we worked it out!...if there are anymore you need to PM ME. all orders will go out this coming week. I also want to state that nobody ahs taken me up on my offer on hearing the answers to your questions so for that i would appreciate not bad mouthing me or acting like i cant read. I hope you all go back to the first thread and see that i am NOT asking for money, donations, nothing. ppl went on their own and bought stuff from my site. Thats their deal. Thank You to the friends for standing by me.

I\'m taking a 10 minute break from work to throw in my two cents on this subject and then I\'m done. Since I\'m only giving it 10 minutes. I\'ll apologize in advance for the straight forward bluntness. I don\'t have time to make it sound better with sugar-coating.

Kristy, I\'m sorry but your posts following the questions posed to you about this entire situtation makes it seem like you\'re grateful for the help you\'ve received, but also rude and spiteful torwards any questions or skepticism.

YT members are very giving. I have often seen that first hand. Even to people who are not asking for financial help. You may not have started posting your troubles, expecting a handout. But historical patterns of giving on YT must have given you some idea that you\'ll get some help even if you don\'t ask for it outright and directly. It is the loving nature of the many YT members. They are always there to help out another in the event of an emergency.

But having a crisis once in a blue moon, is an "emergency". Having a crisis every few months turns it into a problem, a pattern of neglect or irresponsibility. You have exhausted your network of personal family and friends able to help bail you out of situtations. You\'ve come onto YT more than once and more than once YT members have helped you out financially. To me, it\'s starting to sound like a pattern, not a one time "emergency". I\'m sorry if patterns results in skepticism on my part, but it does.

And really, you should get your priorities straight. That means rent before christmas presents, a steady job before what to do for nye or hubby\'s bday. Your energies right now should be put towards finding yourself a steady paying J-O-B. As I said in my post, 2 full time jobs paying minimum wage would cover your housepayments, insurance, taxes, food for the kids, and then some. Instead of spending time on YT, figuring out what to do for your husband\'s birthday, your priorities should be on finding employment with a steady income so that you can meet your financial obligations. You\'re an adult and a mother. You should start acting like one rather than a teenager who spitefully responds with a "FINE! be that way!" and attitude to match.

My parents were blue collar workers who raised 3 children with 2 full time jobs and 3 part time jobs between the both of them. I never knew a human being can work that much. I didn\'t know what day my parents birthdays were until I was nearly in jr high because they never celebrated it. They prioritized dinner on the table over a cake for themselves. I later found out they gave each other a card for their birthdays and the birthday person got to sleep in on their birthday weekend while the other took the kids out solo. That was their gift to each other. I\'m not saying that\'s how you should prioritize. But I\'m just illustrating how some people, like my parents have. And I love them for their sacrifices and self reliance.

I\'m all for "Paying It Forward" but I don\'t want to wind up like "Matchstick Men" either. Personally, I work hard for my money. I give to causes to make myself feel good about making a postive impact on society, but I prefer to give to individuals who are truly victims of unforseen circumstances and not victims of their own irresponsibility.

Okay, so it took a little more than 10 mins. Admin is free to edit or delete my 2 cents as it is deemed appropriate. I just wanted to voice this opinion for myself, even if no one else cares for it.