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Yesterday, 02:33 PM
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its covered so dont worry yourself!
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Was I the only one that rec'd this PM

Or did you send one to (Breny, Stephluvsangel6, Hunniebunnie, Brutus'Mama, I Love Bailey, Peanut, Chloeandj, Red98vett) everyone that asked a question? Why didn't you post this in the public area? Didn't want them to see just how deliberate you are?

I'm not sure I understand your anger towards me. I posted once asking what happened - which you side stepped it the entire thread! You were the one to post about your problem - you should have expected questions...

You weren't just crabby - you had to take time out to PM me. You singled me out... WHY? I don't recall ever having any talks with you and I usually don't respond to negative threads... I was trying to find out what happened and if you really needed some "help".

I wasn't born yesterday, I've met a plenty of people like you, and from experience - people who aren't willing to tell the whole story are hiding something!!!

I know you didn't start off asking for money - but you didn't refuse it either. You have a pattern Kristy - you need some help other than financial. I don't believe this is the first time you've been in trouble ($$) and it won't be the last until you seek help. In just one thread you say how Grandma has had to help, the people who are like parents to you have helped, your husband's Mom has helped, and now - some very nice YT'ers have helped. No steady jobs, no bank account.... see any patterns? I do.

Yes everyone does deserve a second chance - but I truly believe you've gone past that. You're angry & mean spirited! I read where you owe another YT member - she has repeatedly asked you about it and everytime I see your response - it is rude! An occasional forgetfulness, an unexpected emergency etc. --- all understandable. But when you are in the "wrong" rudeness does not fly in my book! And if you were truly changing your ways, why didn't you PM me back to apologize?

Please do not PM me again... I don't have time for this!

can you please keep these things in private

i too was a little weary about sending money. i too wanted some questions answered but the forum took off on its own. there are toooooo many scammers out there.. and it is sad to say.. we need to question one of our own. but we have to. this world in which we live in has become a world of computer scammers. it was just on our news about chat forums being the next big place for scammers. there is no protection. these people come into our lives and we become to love them as if they are family. these people are involved in 100's of chat forums and tell their "financial problems" on each chat and can make 100's of thousands of dollars in one day.

anyway.....you get my point. eventhough we don't think it would happen here, we still have to protect ourselves. i read the forum and these questions were all legit.

i don't thinks she needs to keep this private......her question went out to everyone on the thread.

Case-in-point...I'm a member of another site. Money was raised for someone's dog (for medical expenses). Money was sent to one key person who would collect all of the money and give it to the receiving person in one lump sum...the guy closed his account and took off with the money. This was a person that we'd known for a while and liked! NEVER would we have thought he would do something like this.

Now, I missed out on the reason for this thread so.....

OMG!!!!!!! :thumbdown :mad:

OMG that is terrible!!!

Thank You LisaTodd...

browniesmom622... I think that she owes people money or merchandise on here and I don't think it OK to start a "fundraiser" for someone who has done that to other members. Or does someone want to collect money to cover that too?

BTW there isn't there a bad seller forum? You report them, right?

Sorry --- jmo!

what I dont understand is, their is not suppose to be any Fund Raising aloud on YT, why was it aloud this time?

I have to agree with CJ, she did get herself into this situation and others had to bail her out. She would not give any reason to why she is in this situation. What is going to happen next month when her house payment is due? Are you all going to bail her out again? I dont see any reason wrong with helping people out, I agree we all should pay it forward, but everyone has a right to know why and where their money is going to.

I totally remember that Kimberley & had donated to that cause....that guy has to live with himself and I hope he can't sleep at night - imagine stealing a few hundred that was marked for a sick yorkie ??? :thumbdown what a freaking coward and loser that guy was. (This did NOT happen here on YT)

WOW that is disgusting! How could someone do that and live with themselves!

Well I'm a firm believe in what comes around goes around so......

i thought this myself.

I just returned from vacation and have no clue as to what 'fundraising post' you all referring to.

I do however, noticed a handful of YT members who are awaiting a refund or goods. This has been handled through PM for weeks now and I don't think this should be kept private anymore.

I myself, recommended her to a non-YT member (my best friend) and never received her goods. The order was placed on the 6th (I remember well because it's my birthday) and after numerous emails (which went unresponded) I decided to PM Kristy here. I did get in touch with her and a refund is being issued. This is after numerous of emails and nagging from my friend's part.

I have no idea why the order went unfulfilled or mailed out (along with many others here). I had opened my big mouth in a thread a few weeks ago and got almost chewed out for 'daring' mentioning that if you cannot handle the business then do not do it.

I have no idea what financial problems Kristy you are enduring but let me tell you........I am have great ones too. Having said that, the LAST thing I'd do is scam others or prostitute. I hope this is not your case. If there is a will, there is a way. I am sorry you are having difficulties and pray for the better.

Good luck

Jess

I'd hate to see people leary of everything and never want to help out :( .... but I think this thread was started because of the way things were handled.

I know I spoke with her privately and did say jumping on people won\'t help anything....There is no reason to get rude with people ....especially when we\'re all trying to help...and to give Kristi the benefit of the doubt.... I think she felt bad about how she handled the questions...

but ....this is a good time to learn from mistakes. Maybe with the help she got yesterday, the orders pending & or refunds can be straightened out & apologies to those people can be made ???

Well now....I will respond...take it or leave it...
 

I am extremely dissappointed in what is continuing to happen with this issue.....

I read her dilemma yesterday. I felt that by buying items we could help.....You could help if you want. If you did not want to, so be it.....

I know that I tend to be "forgiving" probably more than most......maybe because I have been there......maybe because I see death everyday...maybe because I am sincere and giving,....maybe because it makes ME feel better.....I did not buy to make Kristy feel better......I bought because it made ME feel good....call me selfish.....well, whatever.....it makes me feel good for me to help..........plain and simple...

If there have been issues with shipping, or WHATEVER......then that is NOT my business. That is between the TWO people involved.....I know nothing about that......

I did what I did because I wanted to.

And it is not up to me to dictate how someone reponds, or how I think they should respond.....that is on their shoulders....

What was something meant to be so selfless....has turned into something more.....

Maybe it is time to let it rest...

The way I looked at it......I blow $40 eating out with my family.......I will just cook at home this week......I know that the decision that I made was in the best interest of me.....