dont be embarrased... we are not going to juge you.

No one is here to judge you....we are here to help you. Don't be embarrased. Sh*t happens. No one is perfect and no one is here to judge you.

Yeah, she was 19 and she went 2 live with her bf and i dont really have that choice.

thanks

What is she doing now?? Today?? Still living with her boyfriend? Are you sure that your parents "made" her move out or did she voluntarily move out in order to live with her boyfriend? How long ago did this happen?

Yeah she's still with him and I'm sure that my parents made her leave.

Remember, that's just Alliec1's opinion, just like you have your opinion, so don't be so hard.

I'd also like to say that there is a 'plan' for her. But within these things that happen in our life, there are multiple ways to deal with them, and they are all part of the plan...

Jess sweetie, don't be embarrassed about this. We are all here to support you all the way. Stay strong girl!

Do you think your parents would really kick you out? I mean, where in the heck would you go? I am almost positive that they are legally obligated to let you live with them until you are 18.

I have no idea where I would go. Maybe they would let me stay idk

So, I guess the next question is....when are you gonna tell them?

this whole situation is just so hard 2 take in. 2day i was on the verge of lying 2 the father 2day and telling him that i got the abortion and just disappearing out of his life. but idk if that's the right thing to do because i guess he has the right to know.

what bothers me is that he's a rapper and his music has been taking him pretty far and his music is about to come out on the radio and i feel like having this kid will probably take his dream away. that's one reason i wanted to tell him i got an abortion. do u think that's wrong?

This thread has really touched my heart. I was never able to have children. I never got to feel that little life growing inside me. I still wish and sometimes cry that I wasn't able to go through the whole pregnancy experience.....but

Almost 16 years ago, a young lady who was in a situation similar to yours decided she would choose adoption. I thank her and the great Lord above that she did. My son will turn 16 next month. He is the light of my life. I know you can't see me, but my emotions and tears right now are so overwhelming. I love him more than my own life, he is everything to me.

I know it had to be hard for her, but I know if she could see my son, she would think he was a fine, compassionate, smart young man. I love her for what she was able to do so that I could become a mother. If it wasn't for her, I don't know where I'd be. I had always wanted children, at least 5 and when I found out I couldn't have any, I was crushed beyond belief.

Adoption is a very hard choice for someone so young. It is so hard to see what may be best "down the road." You have to choose what is best for you and your baby.

I'm sorry to go on an on, I just wanted you to know the other side of the adoption choice.

I will be praying for you and your baby.....and wishing you all the best in whatever you decide.

Janet, your story has touched me beyond words. I know how much your son means to you and I am so happy that his biological mother chose adoption.

That's another reason I don't want to get an abortion. So many people can't have kids, so who am I to just throw a life away?

Honestly, if I were you, I would talk to your parents, give them a few days to cool off, and then talk to them about how to handle the father situation. I don't think I could give you any good advice on how to handle the father. One one hand, it probably would be more convenient to just have the father out of your life. But on the other hand, do you think it would benefit your child to know who his/her father is? Those are just some things to consider. Whatever you decide to do regarding the father, I know it will be the right choice for you. I think you should talk to your parents first. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))