Please no more mention of my personal life
 

I have made a grave mistake.... I took for granted that this was a safe place where I could talk and share with my friends..... I was wrong. This is a public fourm where ANYONE can come and read out thoughts and posts!

My stepson, being the mature and very intellegent young man that he is, has got Googling down to a science and had learned things about both me and his father that we were not ready to tell him. Nor did we want him learning over the computer while sitting at home in his room along with nobody to talk to about it all as he read, he learned about the recent issues we have been expearincing!:eek: Thats alot for a child of 14 to take in all at once!

I am sure that this means that his mother has learned this information as well, and if you know which info to which I am refering, you can only imagian what this means for an already strained situation.

Long story short, after a conversation with my stepson last night, he made it pretty clear that he does not want to be a part of our family and that I should just focus on my own kids and forget about him.... Which is not something I can do... I can't forget my husband has a child. So I have decided to leave my husband so he can be free to raise his son and focuse on him... and I can start over... I can't spend my life as that square peg in a city full of nothing but round holes! Life will be very turbulant for me for a while so don't expect to see a who lot of me on here startiing in a couple weeks.... It should take me that long to clear things up here and be out.

If you have QUESTIONS, or RESOPNSES of a PERSONAL NATURE, please PM or Email me at PURESAFEBOSTCARE@AOL.COM I would love to keep you all as friends... I just can't do it where they can read every word of it......

Lisa, The ex-wife, thinks so poorly of me already.... I don't want to fuel that fire, not that it will matter much longer, but I'd like to end this with my head held high if I can. I still think I have been a good person over the years. And I will continue to be... i'm not the monster that I've been made out to be.... Hell guys, had I wanted to steal someones husband.... I would have done my research!!!!! I would have picked a richer man without kids and less emotional baggage.... oh... And maybe older too! ha! Then I would fit the monster mold! But I did not search this situation out... it found me.... Anyway.... hold your tongues... as hard as that is for us YT Guys and Gals!!!!

So wish me well, be generic, but nothing personal please!!!!

Thank you all so much!!!!!

Kathryn
Kathryn

All the best to you :hug:

I'm bumping so everyone will read this!!!

Kathryn, I just wanted to wish you well in your decisions. And to also let you know that Gizmo is doing really well here...

kathryn, hold our tongue huh? OK ,OK. I wish you and your daughter the best. Your personal email is wrong, atleast I think it is.

Happy thoughts honey. I tried to email you but it bounced back. I sent you a PM.

I think her email is PURESAFEBODYCARE

Nothing but well wishes... You will be missed!

I am so sorry about everything you are going through. I do know that you said that you recently moved and lots of your friends are on YT. Is it possible for you to just create a new, annonymous account? YT is a great support group and we will miss not hearing from you. If not, is it possible for you to move back to where all of your friends were?
I wish you and your aunt the best. Please try not to worry too much about what other people think of you. It's not your fault you were sick and medicated when you were typing a lot of that stuff up. I can tell you've gotten much better. I understand what you mean about privacy though. I got mad at my sister when she looked on here and found stuff out. When it rains, it pours, so things can only get better from here. Please try to be optomistic about the future. We'll always be thinking of you here at YT.
PS- Is it possible for any of the YT administrators to wipe out all of the threads and posts under her account If she wants to?

Best wishes to you! Take good care.

I wish you the best in everything you do!:)

I really hated to read this. You are being put to the test left and right- it just doesn't seem fair. If you decide to start a new anonymous account, please PM me your username. There is nothing worse than having your privacy violated! Stay strong girl! Sending you hugs! :big_hug:

Ah, gee! I'm really going to miss you around here. Think lots of you!:)

Kathryn - you're a good person - I hope things work out and that people in your life stand by you - I know I'll miss you alot - you're always cheerful and have been someone I've gotten really fond of - ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND Don't lose touch please !!

i hope everything gets better for you asap ! good luck!

Dear Kathryn, Please know my prayers are for you and praying that all will be fine. I haven't been able to be on YT much lately but recently a bit more and I just wanted to say, PLEASE THINK ON THIS MORE. It is important to build ones marriage on love and commitment, one day the kids are grown and on their own, sometimes counceling really can help for the whole family. There are many good posts on this thread here in this forum, thought I would copy and paste it
Secrets for a Long-Lasting Marriage
For my husband and myself it took three for our marriage to be successful and happy, the Lord leading us, then ourselves. I truely pray for things to be well for you. Over the many years now I have been loosing my husband to Parkinsons disease, it is so heart wretching, I honestly don't know what I would do if it was not for my trusting in the Lord and leaning on him constantly. He gives me the strength to endure these trying times. There is nothing more greater than being loved and loving someone and spending our life time with them. God be with you and lead you in all your decisions. Please know this is typed to you with all sincerity.
Sending a big hug to you.
Patti

Just posting to you wish you well and all the best of luck for the future! you are great person Kathryn! everyone can see that! lotsa puppy kisses from UK :)

Kathryn, I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this. Only you know what is best for your situation. God bless you and best of luck to you and your future. Don't forget about us!

:ghug: :friendsh: :big_hug: :goodluck: :hands:

Kathryn,
I am here for you and have been praying for you! Email or call whenever you want or need to.

Kathryn,

Just wanted to add my hugs and prayers that everyone else has already offered up. As Kimberly said, only you know what's best for you in this situation and the "trial" you are going through. Know that there are a lot of us here praying for you. I certainly understand your having to leave here for a bit but don't be a total stranger. Until you can get back here on a regular basis, know that you will be missed by a lot of us!

Ouch! I am so sorry that this has happened! I hope and pray that all works out for the best! If you need anything....remember, you have a big family here! You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Dear Kathryn,

You can rise above whatever holds you back. Just believe.
Each challenge we face makes the next one easier.

I'm sorry all this is happening to you You're young and strong
and times will get better, have faith. You have my IM name so don't
hesistate to check in there. I'll be thinking of you. hugs, prays & :love:

Kathryn, I am so sorry...........you will be on my prayer list.

Oh NO Kathryn !!!! We all are going to miss you here terribly!!! I hope thet you'll change your mind, about leaving YT and also about leaving your husband. Trobles comes and go, but great person to share your live with ,happens once in a lifetime.
I know that You are in trouble right now, BC of your posts, but Your family should understand that, It's your little DIARY ( public tho...LOL), and anything that is included in here should be understanded...
Just like You said over, and over again...That You don't have any friends where you live....We are your family!!! So You should explain this to them, and I hope that this will make it easier, for them to understand.
Please DON'T leave US!!!

look honey
 

Being sick is not a crime. If it were cancer that would be ok hold your head high if certain people dont understand they can put there opinions where the sun dont shine because thats how much it matters.God bless you and keep you safe on your new journey girl.

Kathryn.

Sometimes when things happen that seem like an accident, they are really meant to be to give us a nudge in the right direction.

Good luck and be happy.

May the Lord give you strenth, wisdom and courage, to do what you have to do.

I am so sorry, Kathryn. You will be missed. I pray that things will get better for you and your family.

I am praying for you and your family. You seem to be a strong lady! Hold your head high. You have nothing to be ashamed of. Well wishes to you. You will be missed here.:animal-pa

Best of Luck to you... our prayers will be with you through this trying time.
d

You guys are the best friends a gal could ever have!!!! Those of you I know in person, those I know over the phone, those I have driven across the state to meet andthose who soon will be flying across the country to meet me. I really do love you all!!!! I am NOT going to leave YT!!! How could I leave after reading the last tewnty something posts??? You guys rock! I spoke to a church member this morning who scolded me up and down for filling out divorce papers..... She said that I was out of my mind! That how could I give up on my marriage??? One day out children would be grown and gone... then what?? then what would we Have??? I don't know how I am going to get through all of this... but I need to do it behind closed doors.... So expect alot of "YORKIE" chat from me!!!!

I need to keep my personal life in the PM's and Emails where prying eyes can't see it... I will always answer an honsetly asked question... but I hate the thought that people are out there reading snipits of my life without the benefit of the full story to make sense of it for them......

(Erik, if you are reading this, I love you and am so very sorry you have found so much to read about me... At any time you can alway come to me and talk.. I'l always answer you fully and honestly, you know this.)

(Lisa, if your reading this.... I'm amazed that you even care to check into my life... but please know that I mean no harm... I'm dealing with alot lately... and I'm finding it harder and harder to hold it together.. as a woman, I would think you would understand to some degree... )


Anyway.... My email address was wrong.... its PureSafeBodyCare@aol.com or BeyondSopiledCEO@aol.com (my new business name!!!) maybe I'll use it eventually! lol

So thanks again everyone.. and keep on topic! Yorkies! I'm going to try to keep my personal BS outta here!!!!

Kathryn