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08-14-2006, 12:04 PM | #1 |
Waiting for my Little Girl Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: miami, florida
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| YT, i seriously need you... ok so in bimini there were two guys that were pretty hot along with lik 10 others ones and we all hung out for the week i was there. so i really like one of the guys there, ricardo, and the other one liked me, named martin. and now i figured out from a friend that ricardo likes me but he has a girlfriend which he isnt gonna break up with, but he likes me. so now im extreamly confused. now martin asked me if i liked ricardo (which i do) but i dont want to tell him over the internet (aim) and now martin told me he liked me but i told him sorry ur nice and cute and everything but i kind of like someone else. and he said let me take a wild guess and guess ricarodo. i was quiet and he said we still can be friends right. and i said yea and he said to what and i said to both and he was like ok, doesnt matter cause i have a girlfriend. and then he said he had to go. and now im really sad. 1, cause i let down a really nice guy, and 2 cause i really like this other guy. any advice YT? im really confused and sad right now
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08-14-2006, 12:12 PM | #2 | |
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08-14-2006, 12:12 PM | #3 |
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| My younger sister had this same problem a couple of weeks ago. 2 boys liked her and she didn't know which one to pick. I'm going to tell you just like I told her....you need to just be friends with BOTH of them. What's the point of dating them? |
08-14-2006, 12:21 PM | #4 |
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| Don't be more than friends with either of them. It isn't fair to Martin, 'cause you wouldn't like him as much as he likes you... and it's not fair to Ricardo's GIRLFRIEND, either. Just stay friends and it will be less hassle for all of you! |
08-14-2006, 12:50 PM | #5 |
Waiting for my Little Girl Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: miami, florida
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| ok well these guys are both my age and you dont know how i feel about ricardo. i've liked guys before but hes so different and i feel alot different around him. i guess thats true about liking me even though he has a girlfriend but i like him so much. i cant control it. the whole 2 hours on the way home all i could think about was him. and now hes still all i can think about. i dont know what to do.................. we talked, we laughed, and hes so incredibly nice. i dont know.......
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08-14-2006, 12:58 PM | #7 |
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| Trust me, the same thing happened to my sister a couple of weeks ago. If you are just friends with them, then they will ALWAYS be nice to you, ect. because they like the thrill of the chase. Once you are with them, they will treat you like crap. Just look at the boy who is screwing over his girlfriend. How would you like it if that was you? ALWAYS REMEMBER, IF HE WILL DO IT WITH YOU, HE WILL DO IT TO YOU! |
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08-15-2006, 03:20 AM | #9 |
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| Hi. I know it's really hard now and you really really want him. BELIEVE me I've so totally been there! I know that the advice everyone here has offered probably isn't what you wanted to hear but we've all learnt the hard way. I hope you can learn from these lovely ladies' experience and don't have to learn the hard way!
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08-15-2006, 08:53 AM | #10 |
Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: USA
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| I know it's hard, but there are reasons why everyone is warning you. Don't go for Ricardo for the respect of his girlfriend. She probably feels the same way that you do about him. How would you feel if you were in her shoes? You wouldn't like it. And, chances are, if he did that to her... if you & Ricardo were together, he would do the same thing and pursue another girl like he did to you. I don't think he shows good character. You're better off w/o him. |
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