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05-19-2006, 03:30 AM | #46 |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
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| Oh wow... It's a darn good thing I don't have to talk to the screen to get it to type for me, as this lump in my throat right now would make it truly impossible. Debbie and Teri, how did I get so lucky as to find friends like you? I am truly blessed. Deb, I will share with you, and I thank you for telling me that it's OK to do that. Teri, I appreciate your approach to this, and I agree, my course of action right now is to back off from Jen, and turn to her husband to see how things will progress from his side. I saw Jen last night at my grandson's preschool graduation, and she did hug me hello, but then refused to meet my eyes for the rest of the evening. It was OK, I wasn't feeling too friendly to her either. You would not believe some of the things she said to me yesterday. She was really out to hurt me as much as I "hurt" her for insisting that she needs help. It was awful. You guys will really appreciate this... she said that she doesn't want my quest to get her help to become "ANOTHER ONE of your WIERD OBSESSIONS". lolol She was talking about YT!!!! lolololol HA! And you know what?? That hurt my feelings! Among other things... it was a really bad day. My sister had to have a chest xray as they are trying to see if there is cancer anywhere else prior to surgery. She tried to get the results, and her OBGYN knows what the results are, but said he wanted the oncologist to talk with her about it, so that scared the stuffing out of her. The oncologist wasn't to be in until today, and she has an appointment with him later today. Oh man, if this is more than just cervical, that will be way bad... I will let you know. Wosie is almost back to her silly little self. She is wagging her tail enthusiastically again, and she has a lot more pep and vigor than she did yesterday. So she is truly on the mend. I cannot get over how bruised her poor little tummy is. I feel so bad she had to endure so much pain. But it's for the best. Hugs to all of you who are following my tales of woe. I really really appreciate all of your love and support, and will continue to need it at least for the next week or so. Thank you so much, and I love you all!!! HUGS!!!
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05-19-2006, 05:45 AM | #47 | |
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Hugs to you, Remember if she wants to talk call me.
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05-19-2006, 06:33 AM | #48 |
My Little Biker Dude Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Alabama
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| Glad, we are praying that your sister gets good news from her oncologist today regarding the Chest X-ray...positive thoughts honey, positive thoughts. Here is a big ole hug for you! That'll have to do til I see you in person!!!
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05-19-2006, 10:13 AM | #49 |
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| Thank you, ladies! Susan, I will tell my sister when I talk with her today that you are available to her if need be. Thanks again, sweetheart, for being so caring and giving! And Debbie, I just love you.
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05-21-2006, 01:49 AM | #50 |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
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| Update! My sister called me, and her chest xray was perfectly clear. YEE HAW!! Now we just need to get through the surgery on Tuesday, and we will know how she needs to proceed. I am hoping that she will not need to proceed and that the surgery will get it all, the lymph nodes will all be clear, and she will just need to recover from surgery and will be cancer free. Chemo sucks. AND I seem to have reconciled with my daughter!! I thought for sure that this would go on for a long time and the hurt would just keep on coming. But I found this beautiful poem yesterday while searching for info on how to heal a family rift, and I emailed it to her. My message said; "Jen, you are one of my best friends. Let's not have that stop now." She called me right after she got the email, and we had a lovely conversation. Of course we talked about other things, and not the reason for our fight, but we talked normally, and happily, and at the end of the conversation she said, "Bye, I love you". It just made my heart melt... I will keep on insisting that she needs help, but I won't be forceful, and I will also work through her husband. Someday she will be better. Here is the poem. It's a beautiful link, so pretty, so you should check that out too. http://www.stinalisa.com/TimeLove.html Over the years we experience hurt By those whom we love the most We allow it to grow and tear at our hearts Until it lingers as an ever-present ghost. Harsh words that are said during a family rift Cause confusion to hinder our way We justify our anger while defending our pride With our feelings of deceit and betray. The years go by; we go on with our lives Without resolving the distant breach "It does not matter," we say to ourselves As we keep them beyond our reach. If we only knew that Time and Love Are the only things we have in this world And the Time spent apart; the Love that we lost Is more valuable than the harsh words hurled. But it's never to late to make that first move To heal the wounds that maim our heart One telephone call or a letter by mail Is the beginning of a brand new start. ~ StinaLisa ~ ©Copyright 2000
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05-21-2006, 05:06 AM | #51 |
My Little Biker Dude Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Alabama
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| I am so glad that her chest X-ray was clear! I have had her on my heart for days! This is just great news!!! And I am also thrilled that you and your daughter and speaking again. Just take it slow with her. Sometimes the hardest part is admitting you have a problem. Maybe the normalcy she sees in the rest of you will tip her off that something is wrong and she will reach out for help. Denial can be an ugly thing and usually results in her getting angry with the one trying to help as you have found out! I am sorry you hurt for her and I know it breaks your heart to see her like this, but she will come around! You just watch!!! Just take the "kill her with kindness" approach...be her friend. That is what she needs the most right now. Oh what a happy day for you!!! Did ya do your "Happy Dance"???
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05-21-2006, 06:34 AM | #52 |
Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: new york
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| AWesome Glad , When my mom had it surgery was all she needed no chemo .I hope that will be her case also .and by the way ...Great job with your daughter ...your love is amazing ...
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05-21-2006, 11:28 AM | #53 | |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
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| So is yours, honey!! Quote:
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05-21-2006, 12:55 PM | #54 |
Learn Yorkie CPR! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey
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| I'm so Glad that you had that chat with your daughter. You must be a very caring mom!
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05-21-2006, 12:59 PM | #55 |
Rosi & Poli's Mom Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Washington State
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| Prayers and hugs coming your way, hope things look up for you soon
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05-21-2006, 01:17 PM | #56 | |
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05-21-2006, 01:22 PM | #57 |
Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina
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| Thanks, lovely people! Just got off the phone with my sis. She sounds pretty down today. She read me the biopsy report and she has invasive adenocarcinoma of the cervix. She was feeling pretty bad, and said she has pain and swelling in her abdomen that she did not have before, but she was resigned to deal with it and wasn't going to call the doctor! I convinced her to give her doc a call TODAY!!!! She said she didn't want to!!! I asked her why, and she said because she's afraid to hear that it's gotten worse this past week, and she thinks it has. OMG OMG OMG.... Tuesday can't come soon enough!!!!!!!!! I want ALL THIS CRAP OUT OF HER!!!!!!!!!!!!
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05-21-2006, 01:51 PM | #58 |
Waiting for my Little Girl Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: miami, florida
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| did you feel if Glad? hang in there, it will get better soon! we are here for you if you need anything, have a couple more hugs! xoxoxo we love you glad! xoxoxoxo -your yt family
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05-21-2006, 02:23 PM | #59 | |
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05-21-2006, 02:35 PM | #60 |
Donating YT 30K Club Member | Hopefully the surgery will take cae of it. Prayers and hugs still coming your way!!
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