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teri88 03-13-2006 09:44 AM
My heart is breaking for Deb (Bchgirl)
 
I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.

Lexi Rae 03-13-2006 10:14 AM
i feel the same way you do.. im so so sorry for i, i feel just terrible and i feel her pain.. i hope she is ok too...she is definitly in my thoughts and prayers.

LaLoca1 03-13-2006 10:25 AM
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Originally Posted by teri88
I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.


I do understand how you feel. The night that Trace died, me and her were talking on the same post about celebrities we don't like. The next day when I woke up and checked YT, I was in shock. I agree, I hope she does decide to get another baby eventually. But for now, I know she is devastated and can't imagine another yorkie except for Trace.

heather_lathrop 03-13-2006 10:36 AM
I am feeling the same. I have cried and cried on and off all last night and all day today. I feel so bda for her. It has me really worried about my babies trying to crawl up under the covers. I have caught them trying to do this before. My heart is broken for Deb right now. Her and Trace are in my prayers. God bless her and may little Trace rest in peace. I hope that we can all learn from this terrible loss, and make sure that we are careful when having are babies sleep in our beds.

rrosenberry 03-13-2006 10:42 AM
I know how all you feel, I have been talking with her a few times a day, I feel so bad and have cried everyday since knowing, She is doing a little better, she went to work, so I hope that helps to keep her mind occupied. :( I doubt it though.
She will be back on YT, I'm sure it's just to hard now. She checks in so I'm sure she'll be thankful, again for all your posts. You guys are the best, and so supportive. :thumbup:

hle_625 03-13-2006 11:20 AM
I know how all you guys feel bc I feel the same way! I have shed so many tears for her. I just wish that I lived closer to her so that I could give her a big YorkieTalk hug! I miss her so much and just hope that she decides to become active again! I miss you Deb! Big hugs to you!

Zeus' Mom 03-13-2006 11:27 AM
I know, I have been thinking about her everyday. I don't know her very well, but my heart breaks for any of us who lose our little ones.

Deb, if you read this, please know that I am thinking about you and praying that time can heal your heart. I am so very sorry for your loss. :girl_hug:

chloeTG 03-13-2006 11:51 AM
Deb you are in our thoughts and prayers, I can't imagine how much it hurts. You were nothing but the best mommy for Trace and your baby will be missed by all. If you need anything at all we're here for you. :(

I'm so saddened for Deb...I'm hoping that after a little bit when she feels up to bringing a new baby into her life that she'll know exactly where to come for support. I know how hard it can be to lose your precious furbaby and Trace will be truly missed.

Rest in Peace Sweet Angel! :fallen:

YorkieRose 03-13-2006 12:02 PM
Trace
 
One of the best things about getting to know so many Yorkies lovers is all the Yorkies to love..it is also one of the worst things..so many to lose.
So many wonderful companions have gone to Rainbow Bridge since I joined YT...they are all missed even though I never got to see them in person.

bchgirl 03-13-2006 12:06 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by teri88
I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.
Ya know with this post, it will be awfully hard for me.... sometime in the future... to post a smart aleck comment to you....not even when you provide the ammunition :rolleyes:

I haven't been back on this forum 'til right the second. I have received so many wonderful posts on the other thread and pm's too. If wishes could heal me....I'd be cured. I have shared everyone's comments with dh and dd. They are amazed so many people have written such nice nice things.

I am hanging in there and thinking of you all. Hugs of gratitude...it means more than you'll ever know.

I'll share something else with you. After we'd found him...the first person I wanted to call wasn't any of my real world friends or family....it was my cyber friend....rrosenberry ;)

Not bothering with spell check...we all know what it thinks :rolleyes:

teri88 03-13-2006 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted by bchgirl
Ya know with this post, it will be awfully hard for me.... sometime in the future... to post a smart aleck comment to you....not even when you provide the ammunition :rolleyes:

I haven't been back on this forum 'til right the second. I have received so many wonderful posts on the other thread and pm's too. If wishes could heal me....I'd be cured. I have shared everyone's comments with dh and dd. They are amazed so many people have written such nice nice things.

I am hanging in there and thinking of you all. Hugs of gratitude...it means more than you'll ever know.

Not bothering with spell check...we all know what it thinks :rolleyes:
Well, if you can't bring yourself to be a smart alleck, just ask Mike, he seems to enjoy it so much! It's not the same here without you. We do love ya, girl! And I want you to know I thought of you this morning as I was driving in to work, eating my McDonalds breakfast and talking on the cell phone!

KimMee's Mom 03-13-2006 12:13 PM
Hey Deb,

just know I am thinking about you- God Bless You

rrosenberry 03-13-2006 12:14 PM
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Originally Posted by bchgirl

I'll share something else with you. After we'd found him...the first person I wanted to call wasn't any of my real world friends or family....it was my cyber friend....rrosenberry ;)

:
Ah, now why ya wanna go and say that and make me start crying all over again. :(

See ya taught me how to edit, just the part I wanted to. :D

Brutus'mama 03-13-2006 12:21 PM
Deb it's so good to hear from you. I have been thinking about you and hoping you were okay. :(

teri88 03-13-2006 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by rrosenberry
Ah, now why ya wanna go and say that and make me start crying all over again. :(

See ya taught me how to edit, just the part I wanted to. :D
Can you teach me? I've tried that a hundred times and I still get the same thing. Look, this is a true Deb thread, off topic as usual!

Zeus' Mom 03-13-2006 12:24 PM
Deb, so nice to hear from you and to see that you are getting your sense of humor back!! We all miss you! Hang in there! :)

Princessyorkies 03-13-2006 12:27 PM
Glad your back. It will take time to heal your heart but it will happen in time...
God Bless..

rrosenberry 03-13-2006 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by teri88
Can you teach me? I've tried that a hundred times and I still get the same thing. Look, this is a true Deb thread, off topic as usual!
I think you did it,, on the one you posted after debs quote.. you just do the quote thing like normall and hi-light and delete the things you don't want in it.. but leave the (QUOTE) things before and after.

yep.. off topic again. :rolleyes:

bchgirl 03-13-2006 12:43 PM
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Originally Posted by teri88
Well, if you can't bring yourself to be a smart alleck, just ask Mike, he seems to enjoy it so much! It's not the same here without you. We do love ya, girl! And I want you to know I thought of you this morning as I was driving in to work, eating my McDonalds breakfast and talking on the cell phone!
At least you weren't shifting the biscuit/cell phone with the mascara brush ;)

bchgirl 03-13-2006 12:46 PM
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Originally Posted by teri88
Look, this is a true Deb thread, off topic as usual!
You still need some lessons...hasn't gotten any interesting gone south replies.

mustangbee 03-13-2006 12:47 PM
It's been a very sad weekend. I feel so sad, I don't even stay on long. Deb is such a fun gal, she makes everyone laugh. I just wish there was something we could do for her. I know the pain she's in, we have been there, and really there's nothing that can be done. I just hope she knows how much we really do care about her. My heart hurts when we have sad news on here, but I'm very happy to be part of YT, We are not a bunch of Yorkie loving nuts, We are a internet family, who cares for eachother. :hug:

Patti 03-13-2006 12:52 PM
I'm so glad you checked in. I know how painful it must be.

Claire 03-13-2006 12:54 PM
Deb,
Glad that you are back.

:cheer: "Like, girlfriend, I like totaly missed you"
:cold smil "un-huh, yeah, what she said"
:dogsm6: "I've been looking all over for you"
:notworthy "Need scarcastic comment, need scarcastic comment"
:woof: "La-De-Da-La-De-De"

(This is my attempt to try and be funny, it's not working I know, but I am all drugged up on cold medication and the snot has invaded my brain, bare with me!)

-Claire

bchgirl 03-13-2006 12:55 PM
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Originally Posted by Zeus' Mom
Deb, so nice to hear from you and to see that you are getting your sense of humor back!! We all miss you! Hang in there! :)
Farrah, it never left....I still think of quips....even in an email offering condolences....I have probably replied in a manner that has people think....oh, she's ok, she's the same ol' Deb ;)

H's nephew has a new baby yorkie....he got a yorkie cause of you know who. I saw him for the first time yesterday.....Mike thought it might upset me. No, there is nothing sweeter than baby puppies. He is awfully, awfully cute. Hubby held puppy's face close to his nose....cause he's a closet puppy breathe lover. We are discussing getting another....it may perhaps be sooner than later. Come to find out...we really, really need one of these guys in our lives.

bchgirl 03-13-2006 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Claire
Deb,
Glad that you are back.

:cheer: "Like, girlfriend, I like totaly missed you"
:cold smil "un-huh, yeah, what she said"
:dogsm6: "I've been looking all over for you"
:notworthy "Need scarcastic comment, need scarcastic comment"
:woof: "La-De-Da-La-De-De"

(This is my attempt to try and be funny, it's not working I know, but I am all drugged up on cold medication and the snot has invaded my brain, bare with me!)

-Claire
I can see I am definitely needed here......

Claire 03-13-2006 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by bchgirl
I can see I am definitely needed here......
HEY, WHAT'S THAT SUPOST TO MEAN!!!!

hle_625 03-13-2006 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by bchgirl
Farrah, it never left....I still think of quips....even in an email offering condolences....I have probably replied in a manner that has people think....oh, she's ok, she's the same ol' Deb ;)

H's nephew has a new baby yorkie....he got a yorkie cause of you know who. I saw him for the first time yesterday.....Mike thought it might upset me. No, there is nothing sweeter than baby puppies. He is awfully, awfully cute. Hubby held puppy's face close to his nose....cause he's a closet puppy breathe lover. We are discussing getting another....it may perhaps be sooner than later. Come to find out...we really, really need one of these guys in our lives.
I think that it would be so great for you to get a little puppy! Trace would love that I am sure!

You would be so proud of me Deb, I also drove to work today....while putting on my makeup! I was running late :rolleyes:

rrosenberry 03-13-2006 01:01 PM
I think the reason we/I can't stop thinking about Deb,and Trace, is we all put ourselves in her position, knowing how we all love our Yorkies the way we do,. Hence the numerous members and nonstop posts here..
But as much as we don't want to think that someday we will be in her postion, we will as hard as that will be. So I know everytime I look at Bailey, I think twice about the fact that one day I won't be able to, and it kills me to think about that, but it is the reality. I even told her, all weekend I just held Bailey tighter, a little longer, everytime I woke up I would feel for him and pet him.

So I think that is why it has been on our minds non stop since Sat. It is just how we are,, yorkie lovers. They are our children.
I guess that is how I feel. That's it.. no more sad posts,, I promise. :(

Claire 03-13-2006 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Claire
HEY, WHAT'S THAT SUPOST TO MEAN!!!!
Deb, I really am sorry about Trace... and yes, you are needed here cuz I just don't cut it when it comes to funny and quick witted!
When I read your post I too stopped, got up and went to give Gracie a huge hug. I even woke my daughter up so that I could hug her too.
They are so small but they take up a HUGE part of your life.
You have one more angel now, up in heaven, watching out for you. When you close your eyes and feel a soft breeze upon your cheek, that's Trace giving you a kiss...
-Claire

Zeus' Mom 03-13-2006 01:08 PM
Quote:
Originally Posted by bchgirl
Farrah, it never left....I still think of quips....even in an email offering condolences....I have probably replied in a manner that has people think....oh, she's ok, she's the same ol' Deb ;)

H's nephew has a new baby yorkie....he got a yorkie cause of you know who. I saw him for the first time yesterday.....Mike thought it might upset me. No, there is nothing sweeter than baby puppies. He is awfully, awfully cute. Hubby held puppy's face close to his nose....cause he's a closet puppy breathe lover. We are discussing getting another....it may perhaps be sooner than later. Come to find out...we really, really need one of these guys in our lives.
Deb, I think that is wonderful!! We all really enjoy your quips around here!! Keep em coming! :p


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