just broke up with my boyfriend

[Lexi Rae]

thank you gina for your compliments, at least you give them to me.,he dont.
i will be ok... just gotta really get rid of him ... he is not gonna take no for an answer

[mustangbee]

Originally Posted by Claire

My mom was a "frog" story. She stayed married to my dad for 30 years and was misrible! They divorced and she dated alot. There was this guy that she kept running into, he asked her out 8 times and she said no everytime. She finally came home one day and told my sister and I about him. We convinced her to go on just one date with him, just try. We even set up a plan to call her 1 hour into the date with an emergency just in case it was not going well... she has been with him for 6 years now and they are getting married. He was definatly her prince! She said that she knew he was "the one" 5 minutes into their first date! He treats her like gold and he treats my sister and I like we are his own kids! He takes her out to dinner twice a week, showers her with gifts (even still after 6 years!) and is a true gentleman! He does things for her that my dad would never do and the BIG thing, he listens to her, values her opinions and he loves her with all of his heart!
See, princes really do exsist!!!

And that's the way it should be!
I'm so happy for your family! My Husband was my Prince too.
I knew he was the one, and he still is. I love going on dates!!!
If your not happy with your life, it's up to you to make it happy.
My Grandmother said that, and I think it's true. Being happy is the
most important thing in life. It keeps you healthy, wealthy & wise
(another thing my Grandmother said)

[mustangbee]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

thank you gina for your compliments, at least you give them to me.,he dont.
i will be ok... just gotta really get rid of him ... he is not gonna take no for an answer

Hang in there Gina!
Just set him straight, you gave it a chance, it didn't work,
It's time to make you happy.
End of story.
I'm sure he will get the idea.

[LIL MIS' MAGIC]

Hang in there..when I dumped my last bf he tired everything to get me back, including pretty much stalking me!!! But I had no feeling towards him anymore and couldn't get that through to him, so I finally just had to be mean and quit talking to him at all...it was hard, because I didn't want to hurt him, but I wanted to be happy and still talking to him wasn't making me happy!!!

[Lexi Rae]

well, he just called and caught me by surprise, he couldnt wait for me to call him tonite,, i just told him that its not working out and he says how much he likes me and his feeling are so deep for me.. i feel like a heel right now..
he is like almost crying.... i just told him that its to comfortable too soon and our dating stopped.... no romance.... he say gina you have no idea how i feel for you... oh man , i feel so so bad.... then he says, i will call you later and i wanted to say, no i will call you and dont do it, but he hung up so fast. so now he will call me later and beg alittle more.... i cant take this... i am sso stressed out,,, about a year ago i was in a bad way and i feel as if its coming back and im scared now... my heart is breaking.. i wish i didnt give a s---.

[txshopper73]

Gina, don't be sad! You're a BEAUTIFUL woman and any man would be lucky to have you. You deserve better and I'm glad that you recognized that. The right one will come along. Hang in there and know that we love ya!!!!!

[txshopper73]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

well, he just called and caught me by surprise, he couldnt wait for me to call him tonite,, i just told him that its not working out and he says how much he likes me and his feeling are so deep for me.. i feel like a heel right now..
he is like almost crying.... i just told him that its to comfortable too soon and our dating stopped.... no romance.... he say gina you have no idea how i feel for you... oh man , i feel so so bad.... then he says, i will call you later and i wanted to say, no i will call you and dont do it, but he hung up so fast. so now he will call me later and beg alittle more.... i cant take this... i am sso stressed out,,, about a year ago i was in a bad way and i feel as if its coming back and im scared now... my heart is breaking.. i wish i didnt give a s---.

So, call your phone company and get your number changed and unlisted...I think that if he's smart enough, he'll get the hint.

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by txshopper73

So, call your phone company and get your number changed and unlisted...I think that if he's smart enough, he'll get the hint.

damn....you are mean arent ya?
LOLOLOL

[txshopper73]

Originally Posted by ytsirk27

damn....you are mean arent ya?
LOLOLOL

hehehe! Been there, done that...just trying to help a sista out!

[ytsirk27]

Originally Posted by txshopper73

hehehe! Been there, done that...just trying to help a sista out!

[JCarlson2004]

Awww Gina sweetie, don't worry -- it will all work out in the end. I'll PM you.

[bchgirl]

Gina, ya feel bad cause no one (I hope) likes to make someone else feel bad. It's that mother installed guilt Feeling guilty doesn't mean you DO like/love him, you just feel guilty. You're not attracted to him....period. Nothing he says or does will change that....that's the way it is....there really is no need for more conversations, and don't feel bad because you don't want a relationship. Personally, I wouldn't be answering emails, text messages, or the phone for him to throw more guilt my way. He can't morph into someone else....you weren't attracted then, you aren't now, and all the whining in the world isn't going to change it.