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Do you realize that if you do get involved in this this, you will no longer be involved in this child's day care. That woman will not let you anywhere near her. If you stay out of it, your husband can report it to the authorities and you can give this child peaceful days at least. |
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That woman is evil. Please see if you can do something to save this little child. The rejection that she feels from this stepmonster will scar her the rest of her life. :mad: :( |
My heart just breaks for this little girl. This woman probably hates this little girl because this girl is a constant reminder that her husband had a life before her. How anyone can take their anger and hate out on a child is beyond me. You provide day care for her? If so, then it is your duty to protect her. |
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Another thing, get in contact with her school and talk to the counselor about the situation. Maybe they can get her into some counseling sessions. Don't know what the laws are where you are at but here, we don't have to have consent for counseling sessions. This little girl needs help and she may open up if given the chance. I could not imagine...even from a child's standpoint...living a life where there was no love. They are so vulnerable and needy at this age. Rejection is the last thing she needs and her dad needs a kick in the ass for not seeing or doing anything about it! :mad: |
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THe best that you can do here is go to her school and tlak to the administrator directly about your concerns, and maybe see if she can guide you in the right direction, maybe they have recieveed similar complaints from this child and they will stand behind you with documentation and support if you (maybe collectively... WITH the school) go to the authorities. This isnt just a case of she is mean. this coould lead to several things: neglect, psychological abuse (and this can be damaging to a child and the effects can last a LIFETIME), and possibly maybe evenutually physical abuse. |
That would be hard, but i would stay out of the cheating situation however i would confront the Dad on the situation with his little girl. That is so sad i dont understanf how people can be like that. |
Not to sound cruel or uncaring, but as long as your husband's friend's cheating is not affecting your home life, like having your husband cover for him type of thing, I say you have done all you can do. :) Hopefully he will divorce the woman he married for the sake of his daughter's happiness and not be selfish in his own needs. Good luck! :thumbup: |
What a sad situation. :( 1. I wouldn't tell the wife that he's cheating. She probably already knows and chooses not to acknowledge it. 2. Just a question.....isn't there some kind of 'code of Ethics' that the husband is breaking in the Military?? 3. Since your hubby is good friends with the man, couldn't he talk to him 'friend to friend' about concerns for his daughter? Maybe mention things you all have seen yourselves and also tell him things his daughter has said. As a friend, I would encourage him to talk to his daughter privately to find out whats going on with the stepmom, & ask his daughter how she's feeling & how he can help make things better for her. I would not have the 'talk' with the dad in an accusatory manner. That would just put him on the defensive and make him unwilling to listen. Just my .2 cents. :) I really hope things work out for the girls sake. |
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