Thinking of Patti

[BabyGirl Rosie]

Patti, thinking of you and praying for strength for you.

[GeorgiesMomma]

Prayers for you and your family Patti during this difficult time.

[Micah my love]

Patti you are in my thoughts and prayers today..hugs to you and family

[Lil Sis]

Patti... You are in my heart and in my prayers

Shinja

[jp4m2]

I've thought of you often .....I'm so sorry for the pain and loss you have suffered.

[FlDebra]

Originally Posted by Patti

Thanks so much. The Memorial was very nice. The funeral director did a great job of making it a special day. The DVD she made and the whole set up was beautiful. We had so many friends, neighbors and family come. I am glad this day is come and gone. Now comes the hard part of going on without Ken. Your continued support and prayers have meant the world to me. I can never thank you enough. Hugs

Patti, I will keep you in my prayers as you adapt to the new life you have been given. I lost my Roy in 2008 and can tell you this is not an easy transition. Each person is different but I would be glad to be here for you if you ever need to talk. Sometimes it is easier to talk with someone you aren't close to. I found that true. I was trying to be strong for my family and didn't want to say everything that was on my mind. But I found it helpful to talk with another lady who had lost her husband to cancer as well. We shared so much and I was thankful to her for being there for me. I'd love to be able to pass along some of the kindness that was extended to me. I'll send you a PM with my phone number if you'd rather talk by phone. I found writing easier as I would often break down when trying to talk. Whichever is better for you!

I haven't been on YT for a long time, but felt like I wanted to get on the forum today. I have a feeling I am being led here for a purpose. Just as God put people in my life at times I really needed them, maybe I am being led to you to offer help. I am here, if you'd like to talk.... now or later. Whatever you need Patti. I am so sorry for your loss.

[yorkieusa]

Patti, I'm keeping you in my prayers. I know this is a very difficult time and the future will be difficult to navigate without the love of your life beside you.

[beachdog]

How are you doing Patti? Thinking of you.

[msyorktown]

I am thinking of you Patti, and will pray for you as you transition to the new life you are now facing....my heart aches for you. Please take care of yourself Patti.
Jacqui

[yorkietalkjilly]

I pray for you always & hope you are getting lots of support & help. I imagine things are really rough now. My sister told me that after the shock of losing her husband & funeral & after the family had gone home & she was done dealing with all of the many things that have to be done, then she got pretty low. Don't hesitate to reach out & engage when you face those times.

[Patti]

Thanks. I thought I was doing ok until after the Memorial. Now I have many periods a day of just breaking down. I appreciate all the concern and prayers, it means so much.
Debra thank you so much I will take you up on your kind offer.

[silverjoy]

Thoughts and many prayers for you Patti during this very difficult time.

[yorkietalkjilly]

Originally Posted by Patti

Thanks. I thought I was doing ok until after the Memorial. Now I have many periods a day of just breaking down. I appreciate all the concern and prayers, it means so much.
Debra thank you so much I will take you up on your kind offer.

It's small consolation, but it is completely normal. And you know at those low times Who bore our grief & to pray for help & guidance & then, if you can, reach out to someone to talk or someone to cry with, get busy cleaning closets, walking dogs or anything you can manage. Even posting on YorkieTalk. Oh, I am sorry for repeating. I know you have heard all these things so much - sorry. We all want to help so much & I find myself saying things over & over hoping maybe something can help.

It must be good to know so many people are pulling for you & praying for your well-being all the time & checking back here to see how you are. So stay strong but cry when you need to & keep your eyes on the Lord. Hug those Yorkie babies!

[AbbysMom08]

Patti,

Continuing to keep you in my prayers.

[Maximo]

Patti, you remain in my thoughts and prayers. Having watched my father deal with grief after my mother passed, I know how hard this time must be for you. Things are never the same again, but there will be light again. You have an entire community here wishing you well.