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Ladies? Seeing as tomorrow is valentines day just thought I ask here your opinion.. so there is this special lady ... that well so far she is everything I ever wanted :) she is a great friend but of course she is taken.. how ever as a friend we are doing valentines and during the discussion of valentines day one of her friends heard our conversation and wanted in... so I have two valentines .. I have planned to get my friend something she loves and it's a bit high on the budget... but I have no idea what to get her friend and I fear the other girl will notice her gift won't be "as good" (be cause it won't) so what's your opinion should I not care and do what I want? and what can I gift her friend? |
yes i would say you should do as you choose for you special frienda and the one who invited herself well a nice box of chocolates and a small plant or something...maybe. good luck. |
Surely, this other lady realizes you had plans for your "special" friend and would not expect anything as "nice" as what you give her friend. Does this make sense? lol Say, if you give your "special" friend roses and a nice gift, then give this other lady some beautiful carnations and a box of candy. Candy is always safe. Roses are for special people. Good luck! You know how women can be!:D Just saying.:) |
I think I'll need that good luck lol Thanks |
Ok...I really just needt to ask...ok, so you have this special friend, that as you say, so far is everything you ever wanted......but of course, she is taken:confused: Are you getting her the high dollar item in hopes to win her over? Does she know she is your everything girl? If she doesn't...an item like that may be the give away. I think other suggestions for the 2nd friend is very nice and will be accepted just fine. |
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I have not told her she is my everything girl just because I'm trying to respect her current relationship. She is hanging by a thread in that relationship but I don't want to be the cause of her break up... I'll let her find her own way out and meanwhile I'll treat her like she deserves as her friend as much as that friendzone sucks lol |
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I think you shouldnt be getting someone else's valentine a gift period. Sorry just my thoughts. |
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If this lady is "your everything" and so special to you then you can bet you bottom dollar she knows that already. I leaned that you can hide some things from a woman but emotions like this you have no chance of hiding from them, they will see right through it every time. Men wear their hearts on their sleeve (and other places) and women have superior intelligence to men when it comes to emotions you just can not hide it, she knows I bet. As far as a gift for each is concerned you only need a token for each but you say you want to go above that token mark but I suggest you do not do that for both. If one is extra special then OK treat her as extra special but surely both cant be of equal standing in your emotions. Don't make a big mistake and think they do not know how you feel, don't EVER underestimate a woman !!!!! |
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[QUOTE=bWY39;3824948]As man to man I think you are under estimating the power of a woman's mind and intelligence. If this lady is "your everything" and so special to you then you can bet you bottom dollar she knows that already. I leaned that you can hide some things from a woman but emotions like this you have no chance of hiding from them, they will see right through it every time. Men wear their hearts on their sleeve (and other places) and women have superior intelligence to men when it comes to emotions you just can not hide it, she knows I bet. As far as a gift for each is concerned you only need a token for each but you say you want to go above that token mark but I suggest you do not do that for both. If one is extra special then OK treat her as extra special but surely both cant be of equal standing in your emotions. Don't make a big mistake and think they do not know how you feel, don't EVER underestimate a woman !!!!![/QUOTE] Ain't that the truth! :D |
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She may not react to you or encourage you but I am prepared to bet she knows....MAN....SHE IS A WOMAN !!!!!! |
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Ok, now...for the other lady, she invited herself...so you don't have to get her anything. But, then again the sweet guy that you are....candy or flowers would be a very nice gift. |
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I think you have to be very careful about giving someone a valentine’s gift whose heart belongs to another. A little something that shows you know her heart is more meaningful than an expensive gift which would only influence a gold digger. |
I realize she is special in your eyes....but at this time she is also Someone Special to someone else !! You may be treading on a thin line.... when it comes to the other man. Women love the finer things in life and will most likely never refuse an expensive gift. But seeing as how she is taken she would be more appreciative of a special gift coming from the special guy in her life. And as much as you want that special guy to be you, its' not. I would suggest getting a slightly more lavish gift for your every thing women (letting her know you care) and a nice gift as a gestor in honor of V day for the other friend. Save your money for when it really counts !! When you are her one and only. . . she will appriciate it so much more. |
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.. This won't be the first gift I give her btw lol just the most valuable one. |
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Respect and friendship Anything material is only a symbol of something else. Giving an expensive gift can be taken in different ways by her or anyone else. You are certainly NOT in a position to offer her the gift of Love. |
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I meant valuable as in most expensive. |
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There is a saying that men can not do two things at the same time..... A man in love can not be rational at the same time. I am sure you would know that when I used the word "love" it was meant as the romantic type, but love is blind so there is no point in me harping on about it. I hope all goes well for you and nobody gets hurt in any way. I am unable to understand why it is so important to purchase an expensive gift. When my wife and I were walking down a street in town I asked her to stop and wait for me whilst I went into a florist and purchased a single rose. On returning I presented it to her and told her that I loved her dearly. She has never forgotten the first time I did it and will relate her story at every opportunity she gets. This was eleven years ago when we were both 59 and courting. We are both 70 years old now and I still do it and she still loves the gesture more than any gift I have ever purchased for her. Women are like that you know. |
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You're a sweetheart and an old softie Brian....that's such a lovely story...and it's relevant and touching in these funny old times. Joan's a very lucky lady...in fact, you both are lucky to have found one another :) x |
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I hope you have the ability to nurture that love, cultivate it and make it grow as love should grow. My final advice to you is this. Never allow material things to cloud the true meaning of love. Good Luck |
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