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lovespandp · 05-09-2011, 08:06 PM

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Originally Posted by DvlshAngel985

I'm glad things are going better for the two of you. Sometimes it helps to put ourselves in their shoes. You must be proud that DH tries as hard as he does at work.

Here's an idea, take a nap but set your alarm for 12:30. That gives you time to get up, splash some water on your face, and heat up his plate. I'm a lazy butt and that's what I would do to at least get some sleep.

Ahh man do I have to!! Hehe J/K I cant really sleep when he is not home, plus Pnut barks at nothing and wakes me up, he cant really get in a good sleep with out Daddy! Im just going to hang out on YT or when I do get sleepy eyed Ill take Pnut and my laptop in my bed, after that Ill play games on my phone!

lovespandp · 05-09-2011, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

So glad you're already feeling better

. Your feelings are always valid, no matter what they are. The hubs may not always agree with your feelings

...but if he's willing to communicate, you've both already won the battle.

I reallllly suspect sleep deprivation. I don't know if you've ever read about the effects of sleep deprivation, but wow, it's bad. Your hubby's tolerance levels (of anything) would plummet, so he'd have very little room to deal w/ anything that's additionally stressful (even small things). I've experience sleep depriv firsthand...and it was a horrible phase for me. I felt like I was holding on by a thread.

Hang in there, it will get better!!!

Thanks. We are working as a team... Trying to get over this hill! Yes he has sleep deprivation for sure! I've never seen him so out of it. He got some good rest over the weekend so I know that helped him, and he is in a better mood bc I am helping him and understanding to him!! It is def not an easy thing to go thru, I hate being alone. I am so glad that I have Pnut to keep me company!! Yorkies are wonderful!

yorkieusa · 05-10-2011, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by lovespandp

Thanks. We are working as a team... Trying to get over this hill! Yes he has sleep deprivation for sure! I've never seen him so out of it. He got some good rest over the weekend so I know that helped him, and he is in a better mood bc I am helping him and understanding to him!! It is def not an easy thing to go thru, I hate being alone. I am so glad that I have Pnut to keep me company!! Yorkies are wonderful!

I'm so glad things are better. We just want to see you happy!

yorkietalkjilly · 05-10-2011, 05:13 PM

I'm so glad things are going a little better right now and hope you all can get through this bump a better team than ever. I am praying for you.

lovespandp · 05-10-2011, 05:59 PM

Awe thank you guys!! I think today is our last " late night" I woke up at 2 am when he got home ( he likes when he takes a shower that I sit on the toilet, and talk to him) so He was in the shower and I was sitting trying to stay awake LoL he then said babe go lay down you are falling alseep! haha so I went and layed in bed and waitied for him!!

lovespandp · 05-11-2011, 11:32 AM

Last night was wonnnnnnnderful! DH surprised me and came home at 10!! We had some quality time xoxo

Jinger · 05-11-2011, 11:52 AM

Yay! Happy for you both!

yorkieusa · 05-11-2011, 05:04 PM

I'm so happy to read that!

lovespandp · 05-11-2011, 05:06 PM

Thank you ladies!!

05-10-2011, 05:13 PM	#34
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	I'm so glad things are going a little better right now and hope you all can get through this bump a better team than ever. I am praying for you. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

05-10-2011, 05:59 PM	#35
lovespandp ♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca Posts: 10,026	Awe thank you guys!! I think today is our last " late night" I woke up at 2 am when he got home ( he likes when he takes a shower that I sit on the toilet, and talk to him) so He was in the shower and I was sitting trying to stay awake LoL he then said babe go lay down you are falling alseep! haha so I went and layed in bed and waitied for him!! __________________ "People with nothing to hide don't usually feel the need to say so."

05-11-2011, 11:32 AM	#36
lovespandp ♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca Posts: 10,026	Last night was wonnnnnnnderful! DH surprised me and came home at 10!! We had some quality time xoxo __________________ "People with nothing to hide don't usually feel the need to say so."

05-11-2011, 11:52 AM	#37
Jinger Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Dallas Posts: 2,213	Yay! Happy for you both! __________________ Jen and Zoe

05-11-2011, 05:04 PM	#38
yorkieusa Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 21,173	I'm so happy to read that! __________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel

05-11-2011, 05:06 PM	#39
lovespandp ♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca Posts: 10,026	Thank you ladies!! __________________ "People with nothing to hide don't usually feel the need to say so."