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PANAMA69 · 05-23-2010, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by jmdt

Why not have 20 kids if the state is going to pay for them??? People like this should not have kids because they have no sense!! It's a shame

So true, is a shame

in a country like this that they give you free birth-control, I just don't understand, maybe they are happy with their mediocre life but why bring kids into that situation

jjflash · 05-23-2010, 11:17 PM

Mzybe she didn't have a choice. There are still many religions who do not believe in preventing conception by any means. Ask the millions of Roman Catholic women who had to have child after child no matter if they could feed them or not, or if another pregnancy was going to kill them or not. We think this was so long ago but it still exists today in our "modern" culture. Let us not be so quick to condem one of our sisters when we don't know the true story. Just becuae she is with child does not mean she is happy, even if she seems so. It is not our place to judge anothers path in life.
That's my 2 cents worth, sorry if I have offended anyone. I just felt a witch burning happening and wanted to get people thinking.

PANAMA69 · 05-23-2010, 11:27 PM

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Originally Posted by jjflash

Mzybe she didn't have a choice. There are still many religions who do not believe in preventing conception by any means. Ask the millions of Roman Catholic women who had to have child after child no matter if they could feed them or not, or if another pregnancy was going to kill them or not. We think this was so long ago but it still exists today in our "modern" culture. Let us not be so quick to condem one of our sisters when we don't know the true story. Just becuae she is with child does not mean she is happy, even if she seems so. It is not our place to judge anothers path in life.
That's my 2 cents worth, sorry if I have offended anyone. I just felt a witch burning happening and wanted to get people thinking.

Now that you said that, this is true, I just to be catholic and some only allowed the calendar to prevent pregnancy, so the days that you are fertile you avoid intercourse, but there are womans out there that are, so fertile that with seen their hubby's underwear can get pregnant

but still hard to see so many children suffering, we sponsor a child from Africa and let me tell you, those pictures are just heart broken

PANAMA69 · 05-23-2010, 11:53 PM

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Originally Posted by maryeverett1

Serious yikes on that...what I don't get is why people have kids to just to have them! Just like i dont understand getting a dog and THEN realizing you dont have enough money to take care of regular day to day needs (let alone emergencies!) Raising them (kids and dogs) right takes a lot of love and a lot of money and that should have occurred to her since she has 4 already. I am not trying to be mean or judgmental but this is one I just don't get especially with all the details you listed. Let's just pray that they have what they need for not only the baby they are already pregnant with but the other 4 kids in their home now...

maryeverett1, or maybe a religion thing like jjflash said, but I be darn if, I'm going to open my legs knowing , that my kid is going to come to this world para pasar paramo sorry the close I can't translate, be to bring a child to have a hard life, not fair to the child they didn't ask for it

shamrocks · 05-24-2010, 01:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jjflash

Mzybe she didn't have a choice. There are still many religions who do not believe in preventing conception by any means. Ask the millions of Roman Catholic women who had to have child after child no matter if they could feed them or not, or if another pregnancy was going to kill them or not. We think this was so long ago but it still exists today in our "modern" culture. Let us not be so quick to condem one of our sisters when we don't know the true story. Just becuae she is with child does not mean she is happy, even if she seems so. It is not our place to judge anothers path in life.
That's my 2 cents worth, sorry if I have offended anyone. I just felt a witch burning happening and wanted to get people thinking.

I agree, I try not to judge others ( I dont always succeed) . I do not know this womans life and I also agree that it is not my place to judge, Hey you never know the baby that she is expecting might be the one that finds a cure for cancer.

celstu1 · 05-24-2010, 11:22 AM

Gotta love that... woohoo

Gennies · 05-25-2010, 04:09 PM

Could she be depressed over the lack of income so she needs the attention of being pregnant? Just a thought like someone said it's like octo-mom.

I love, love, love babies, but 2 was enough for me...and when they become drivers boy does the wallet take a hit! I just wonder how they are going to make it.

mojo · 05-25-2010, 04:24 PM

Maybe it's like yorkies, can't stop at one or two or ??? They are addictive

Hopefully that doesn't offend anyone, I am teasing.

Princes mom · 06-09-2010, 07:35 PM

I just found out that my co-worker will be 47...tomorrow. 47 with a new-born.

mojo · 06-09-2010, 07:45 PM

Sounds too exhausting for me...........

mojo · 06-09-2010, 07:51 PM

Sounds too exhausting for me...........

capt_noonie · 06-09-2010, 08:54 PM

Wow, i guess that last egg got used!

misslissa · 06-09-2010, 09:23 PM

I gotta say at 21 working a full time job at 10 bucks an hour paying and paying no rent the two kids i raise is two too many.
i took my brother and sister in when my grandma had her second heart attack. kodi is 10 and Marsha is 16 and yes, a driver. but those kids bleed me dry just on necessities (not that i dont love them and i would do anything for them but still)
the only assistance we get is there school fees paid (like workbooks and lab fees school trips and the like)
i really do not see how a person can bring another life into a world like this and working part time wow
sorry just blows me away

mojo · 06-09-2010, 09:48 PM

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Originally Posted by misslissa

I gotta say at 21 working a full time job at 10 bucks an hour paying and paying no rent the two kids i raise is two too many.
i took my brother and sister in when my grandma had her second heart attack. kodi is 10 and Marsha is 16 and yes, a driver. but those kids bleed me dry just on necessities (not that i dont love them and i would do anything for them but still)
the only assistance we get is there school fees paid (like workbooks and lab fees school trips and the like)
i really do not see how a person can bring another life into a world like this and working part time wow
sorry just blows me away

That is very commendable of you

I am a single mom of a 16 year old and I know what you mean!

Princes mom · 06-10-2010, 07:52 AM

She told me yesterday that the doctor at her clinic said everything seems to be going fine...she had the ultra-sound picture with her and was so happy.
At 47, I would think that having a child with special needs might come to mine. I assume the government will only pay so much, if this were the case. I was thinking about her mother and father-in-law because she said that they eat dinner with them almost every night to save money and her in-laws take care of her other four children after school. I guess if you take care of four, what's one more. It seems very selfish and careless to me. The funny thing is that she thought she was going through menopause when she was infact pregnant!
Ok, she'll be about 52 when her baby starts school...kindergarten.

05-24-2010, 11:22 AM	#21
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	Gotta love that... woohoo __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

05-25-2010, 04:09 PM	#22
Gennies Donating YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Virginia Posts: 2,865	Could she be depressed over the lack of income so she needs the attention of being pregnant? Just a thought like someone said it's like octo-mom. I love, love, love babies, but 2 was enough for me...and when they become drivers boy does the wallet take a hit! I just wonder how they are going to make it. __________________ Gennie, mommy to my two loves: Bambi & Bijou

05-25-2010, 04:24 PM	#23
mojo Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Here, there Posts: 2,693	Maybe it's like yorkies, can't stop at one or two or ??? They are addictive Hopefully that doesn't offend anyone, I am teasing. __________________ Bella (I miss you) Sachi Emmy

06-09-2010, 07:35 PM	#24
Princes mom YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,566	I just found out that my co-worker will be 47...tomorrow. 47 with a new-born. __________________ Prince, rest in peace. We miss you and love you so much.

06-09-2010, 07:45 PM	#25
mojo Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Here, there Posts: 2,693	Sounds too exhausting for me........... __________________ Bella (I miss you) Sachi Emmy

05-23-2010, 11:17 PM	#17
jjflash Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 62	Mzybe she didn't have a choice. There are still many religions who do not believe in preventing conception by any means. Ask the millions of Roman Catholic women who had to have child after child no matter if they could feed them or not, or if another pregnancy was going to kill them or not. We think this was so long ago but it still exists today in our "modern" culture. Let us not be so quick to condem one of our sisters when we don't know the true story. Just becuae she is with child does not mean she is happy, even if she seems so. It is not our place to judge anothers path in life. That's my 2 cents worth, sorry if I have offended anyone. I just felt a witch burning happening and wanted to get people thinking.

06-09-2010, 07:51 PM	#26
mojo Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Here, there Posts: 2,693	Sounds too exhausting for me........... __________________ Bella (I miss you) Sachi Emmy

06-09-2010, 08:54 PM	#27
capt_noonie www.yorkierescue.com Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Las Vegas & Orange County Posts: 17,408	Wow, i guess that last egg got used! __________________ The T.U.B. Pack! Toto, Uni, & Bindi RIP Lord Scrappington Montgomery McLimpybottom aka El Lenguo the Handicapped Ninja 10-12-12

06-09-2010, 09:23 PM	#28
misslissa YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: canton ohio us Posts: 1,574	I gotta say at 21 working a full time job at 10 bucks an hour paying and paying no rent the two kids i raise is two too many. i took my brother and sister in when my grandma had her second heart attack. kodi is 10 and Marsha is 16 and yes, a driver. but those kids bleed me dry just on necessities (not that i dont love them and i would do anything for them but still) the only assistance we get is there school fees paid (like workbooks and lab fees school trips and the like) i really do not see how a person can bring another life into a world like this and working part time wow sorry just blows me away __________________ Don't say I love you unless you mean it, but if you do say it a lot. People forget.

06-10-2010, 07:52 AM	#30
Princes mom YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,566	She told me yesterday that the doctor at her clinic said everything seems to be going fine...she had the ultra-sound picture with her and was so happy. At 47, I would think that having a child with special needs might come to mine. I assume the government will only pay so much, if this were the case. I was thinking about her mother and father-in-law because she said that they eat dinner with them almost every night to save money and her in-laws take care of her other four children after school. I guess if you take care of four, what's one more. It seems very selfish and careless to me. The funny thing is that she thought she was going through menopause when she was infact pregnant! Ok, she'll be about 52 when her baby starts school...kindergarten. __________________ Prince, rest in peace. We miss you and love you so much.