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Nancy1999 04-11-2010 07:26 AM

Seems like this post is just meant to stir the pot what good will it do? You say you have lost respect for so many people; did you respect them in the first place? If so, perhaps you were respecting them for the wrong reasons. Many of the people you are criticizing have given up their lives for dogs; they are the dog's advocates when others are only using dogs to pay their bills. To suggest she was made fun of because she was poor is so irresponsible, and makes me think you trying to mislead others into thinking Yorkietalk is filled with haters. This was not about her not having a job because of a disability, and you must certainly know this, this was about her thinking that since there were no other jobs she could do, she should raise dogs without studying the breed, or even dog ownership in general. Some of us are here for no other reason than our love of dogs; we are not making a living off our dogs in any way. Are we to excuse every abusive breeding situation because the breeder needs the money?

It's not the breeding for profit that bothers me as much as the fact that breeders take no time to learn about breeding and the care and training of dogs. A mentor should not JUST be someone who sold you your breeding pair, and you email occasionally. Studying breeding should go way beyond reading a few websites. The problem with learning all your information on your own is many people don't comprehend what they were reading, a good mentor would ensure that the person understood what was being said.

In the past, farmers who raised livestock studied the best way to do this, if their livelihood depended on something, they better know how to do it well. Dogs are different than livestock, for many reasons, but since breeders can sell them as puppies, they don't seem to care about their health as adults. Face it, there's a serious problem going on with Yorkies and other purebreds. Rescues are filling up and everyone hates kill shelters, but how many people can afford to take care of some of the sicker dogs, resulting from poor breeding? What happens when they can't afford the surgeries? They are turned over to rescues. Can you imagine if you saw this on a daily basis, how infuriated you would be? If you need to breed your dogs to make money, you probably shouldn't even own a yorkie. Many of the responsible breeders find part-time jobs to pay for their breeding! As for those of you who are saying I was taught not to think I'm any better than anyone else, isn't that exactly what you are doing when you are saying, "Shame on you"?

jrsygal37 04-11-2010 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by livingdustmops (Post 3079946)
There are some of us on YT that will place the welfare of the dogs above humans because someone has to be the voice for these animals, we have seen or see on a daily basis the abuse of animals. We have enough people that use them for their own welfare and it is very apparent with some people. If the majority of people on YT feels that no one should try to protect these dogs or animals in general then I have been sadly mistaken what this group is about.

For those of you who think the respectable breeders and the real rescue people were downgrading someone because they don't have $$$ and are in a wheelchair is just trying to put a spin on a story . I have a handicapped family member and I have family members who are poor - and I can darn well tell you they would be very upset to know people are trying to play the "poor is me card" and I can also tell you they love animals and would not use them to pay bills. So poor handicapped people don't have to play by the same rules..I don't think so and I am sure they would also be offended by this suggestion. In fact many of them fought for laws so they are treated as equals. IMO when people put a spin on these issues they are the ones who are prejudice against these people...they see them as different. Let me point out here, I am not against poor, handicapped people breeding if they can do it right (for the dogs) and can handle situations and have the resources ($$$) if something happens. If you are handicapped and cannot get into the whelping box to help mom then it is one more reason you should not be breeding. They also should be doing their homework/research before they start the process...just like anyone else. I would also add here for the ones being so judgmental have you worked with abused dogs, walk into a puppy mill, walked into a byb's home, been in the shelters, seen the fear in these animals eyes, seen animals that cower because of abuse and been there when the breeders are done with them and toss them away or even kill them ? Everyone on YT has to decide if they are going to help animals or hurt animals.

For those of you who are afraid to ask questions then I feel sorry for your pup. Everyday hundreds of questions come into YT and never have a problem so I wonder just what questions you are so afraid to ask. Hurting animals is never right in my book nor is using them for your own greed and frankly I am disgusted if members on YT feels this way.

We all know anyone can make $$$ off of the dogs by not doing right by the animals. The ones who don't make money are pouring the money back into their breeding programs by going to the shows, giving their dogs top medical & dental care, feeding them quality food, investing in educational programs and spending $$$ researching the dogs and their pedigree's and are not cutting corners with their breeding program. Again a spin put on the story.

I will never understand how someone could know a dog killed puppies, gets into death fights with another dog , was an abused dog, dogs beaten by a cane where the dogs were still in pain the next day is okay and that we are the bad people for trying to protect the animals. But then again some people think it is okay to kill a puppy with a hammer.

If some of you think I enjoy confrontation, you are wrong, but I will speak up for the dogs.

:thumbup: And, I will be right behind you. Speaking up for the dogs or any innocent animal without a voice. Elaine

jrsygal37 04-11-2010 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom (Post 3079881)
I agree w/ Mardelin - that's where I'm coming from as well.

I think this thread is presumptive. It infers too much about the original thread that wasn't there, in my opinion. This person, disabled or fully abled, was breeding an abused dog, was not providing a safe environment for these dogs, and was adding more dogs to the mix. THAT was really the issue. Dogs were fighting, puppies died.

When a few people made comments saying she should not be using these dogs to make money, those comments, imo, were *not* about her disability - those comments were about the fact that she was *not* breeding safely.

For the record, maryeverrett1, I am not blind - but I do find it very ironic and rather insensitive that you would make that kind of comment in this thread.

:thumbup: Elaine

JeanieK 04-11-2010 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Reese1 (Post 3079895)
Jeanie,
Again I'm not condoning attacks on anyone with a disability or for being poor, but I don't honestly see how you can separate out your quote above.
I don't think you can say whether posters did right by that individual without the connection of her doing right by the dog. It goes hand in hand because it's what ignited the passion and responses.
I'm not going to lose sight of what disturbed me about that situation to begin with because I think it's serious.

Some of the comments made to her had absolutely NOTHING to do with her original question or her beliefs on raising dogs or the dogs welfare. They were made directly about her disability.

Mardelin 04-11-2010 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by chic-n-ltl (Post 3079954)
Okay....I bred my yorkie on March 22nd....litter due around May 22nd, this morning when I took her out to potty...(pee) she came in with a long, thin, yellowish string hanging from her that I had to wipe off. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?

Very normal....discharge....if it isn't oderous and or green, not to worry. But, if you want to err on the side of caution, have her vet checked ASAP.

While we can attempt to answer your questions, in an educated manner, based on our experience/knowledge. We aren't there, up front and personal....so it is better to quell your nerves by seeking vet input.

JeanieK 04-11-2010 07:30 AM

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Originally Posted by chic-n-ltl (Post 3079903)
I'm new to YT, and I didn't read the post, but, I have read a few of these comments. I came on here this morning to ask a question.....now, I'm not sure I should ask anything on here!!:confused:

You can PM me personaklly, if I cannot answer the question, i will direct you to a safe person to consult with.

jrsygal37 04-11-2010 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Mardelin (Post 3079876)
Let me add in defense of Wylie's Mom/Moderator. She's on the side of the dogs too, and could very well be the reason she allowed the thread to be played out.

I have no doubt about the care Ann has for animals. She always has the best interest of the animal at heart. I've never seen her any other way. Elaine

Twinkie2Cute 04-11-2010 07:35 AM

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Originally Posted by chic-n-ltl (Post 3079954)
Okay....I bred my yorkie on March 22nd....litter due around May 22nd, this morning when I took her out to potty...(pee) she came in with a long, thin, yellowish string hanging from her that I had to wipe off. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?

Hello chic-n-ltl!

You will get a better response if you post in this section...

Breeder Talk - YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community

There are many knowledgeable members that would be willing to answer your question. Have a great day!:)

JeanieK 04-11-2010 07:35 AM

OK I have to take a break here and go to bathe my dogs. I'm disabled so it takes me longer than it would the rest of you, but trust me. No dogs will be drowned or injured in the process. :p

megansmomma 04-11-2010 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by chic-n-ltl (Post 3079954)
Okay....I bred my yorkie on March 22nd....litter due around May 22nd, this morning when I took her out to potty...(pee) she came in with a long, thin, yellowish string hanging from her that I had to wipe off. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?

You need to ask this question in the breeding forum.

Breeder Talk - YorkieTalk.com Forums - Yorkshire Terrier Community

JeanieK 04-11-2010 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Reese1 (Post 3079933)
Honestly, I just went back and re-read through a lot of the posts and I really think most of the fighting at the end was not between the original poster and others, but between someone there defending her and other posters.
I honestly didn't see posts that were just attacking her for being disabled. One post that was said about her getting a job, I honestly think came without knowledge of her being disabled, but in response to the fact she is breeding to pay bills.Most of the posts I read that had anything at all to do with her being disabled were again directed to another poster defending her practices and were stating that the fact she is disabled doesn't warrant or justify her breeding practices.
I don't see where anyone was making fun of her for being disabled, calling her names for being disabled. Maybe, I missed them somewhere, but I didn't see that.

OH NO she knew.

kjcmsw 04-11-2010 07:40 AM

I think...and we all know what I think is just what I think, to be taken or left --- when someone asks a question...even if the question is phrased in such a way that it appears the one asking isn't highly educated - in Yorkie matters, et al...that those that choose to respond should simply answer the question(s) and try to keep personal opinions on the back burner because their personal opinions are just that, whether those opinions have some basis in fact or not, just answer the question if you know the answer, if not, why respond at all?...unless of course the poster specifies they are not looking for an answer to a specific question and are seeking to hear personal opinions on a matter.
It seems to me that for those that have a deep seated need to express their opinions should post those opinions as new threads in the discussion part and then those that have the same opinions could have a back and forth discussion with them, thus keeping the attacks in check. Throwing in your opinion and not answering the question posted does nothing to reinforce one's professional and educated status on a subject. Also anything beyond the answer unless it is to state a particular stat (absolutely proven as fact) related directly to the question is simply fodder for fools and addresses only the responder's need to keep reinforcing their own beliefs, which presents itself as questionable as to its reliability and basis in fact. Therefore when going beyond just answering the question the responder should also provide a direct reference to their quoted stat if they want your addition to be taken seriously. Think of it as a peer-reviewed paper.
~KC

Nancy1999 04-11-2010 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by JeanieK (Post 3079778)
I do not ask a lot of times either, I go to those who I know will not call me "STUPID" for asking as question.

This thread was my "rant". The things said in that thread were unnecessary. There were many peole who gave good advice and answered her question. Others started right out belittling her for being poor.

The funny thing is, when I first joined and mentioned breeding everyone pointed out to me that there is no money to be made breeding dogs.
Now everyone is accusing people of breeding for the money. Well we all know that if you do make any profit it is small one, and the next litter you might lose money.

Addressing the disabled issue. Not all disabled people are house bound or confined to a bed. they can do things but it is difficult for them and takes them a lot longer and they need to rest more frequently. And that is what makes one unemployable. It's not that they can't do anything it's that no one will hire them because they are not efficient and they need too many breaks.

But to tell a disable person to get off their ass and get a job is way out of line.


This is a example of how you misunderstood everyone. When they said there is no money in breeding dogs, they usually add, if it's done properly. Some people don't add the "if it's done properly" because it's assumed that people realize there is big money in raising dogs, it's a multimillion dollar industry, and that you've done your homework. So for you to take this statement and think it meant no one can turn a profit from dog breeding is an example of poor comprehension. There is very little money to be made if your object is to improve the breed. Money should be the last reason for breeding. Of course, there are people who will figure out a way to make money breeding, and one of these ways is to breed trendy dogs. So people who do this, would be thought to be breeding for money, whether they actually ever make money is another thing.

red98vett 04-11-2010 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by chic-n-ltl (Post 3079954)
Okay....I bred my yorkie on March 22nd....litter due around May 22nd, this morning when I took her out to potty...(pee) she came in with a long, thin, yellowish string hanging from her that I had to wipe off. Is this normal, or should I be concerned?

hmmm - that IS a good question and I think someone mentioned the breeder section is great for advise from breeders who've been there - I've read tons of stuff I never knew and if you're in the process of having puppies - that's where you want to post :)

Don't worry about double posting it - you'll get answers....to me it doesn't sound like something to worry about but again - I'm no breeder and what you need to know is something only a breeder can answer -

(see that wasn't so hard was it ? ) :) good luck with your upcoming litter...:)

TinyMiss 04-11-2010 07:52 AM

oohh wow.... I'm new here so maybe I shouldn't have opened this forum (hahaha) ... I mean I do agree with you but I have never seen a thread like that before and to hear that it happens a lot and people are afraid to post question makes me not want to post questions myself which is the reason why I even registered... hopefully I get the good answers... if anything I can always delete someone's replies right?


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