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01-08-2010, 10:41 AM | #16 |
Twilight lovin' Yakker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Las Vegas, NV
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| First, remember that YOU broke up with HIM. He's a man, of course he has needs (just like you do) and he will fufill them with you or someone else. You can't blame him for sleeping with someone else if you two were not together. If you truely feel unhappy then just end it. But, check yourself as well. If he is truely a good guy and never cheated on you when you were together, and you really have no TRUE reason for wanting to leave every other week other than you just feel like it, then maybe YOU'RE the one who shouldn't be in a relationship right now? Either way, a trial separation won't hurt either of you, and if it's meant to be, you'll find your way back to each other. Good luck!
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01-08-2010, 10:58 AM | #17 |
YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: here :)
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| First , I have to agree with some others...YOU broke up with him , so you really can't get angry if he was seeing other girls. But aside from that the relationship itself sounds toxic , I would put it behind you and move on.
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01-08-2010, 01:03 PM | #18 |
LoveMy2 Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: East Tennessee
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| My sister was in a similar relationship. Her relationship went on and off for almost 5 years!! They too lost a baby. Eventually she DID marry him. It lasted about 6 weeks and ended in annulment . She later told me she married him for all the wrong reasons. She was afraid to start over, afraid of being alone, felt that she had put so much time into thier relatioship it was expected of them to marry, they had had some wonderful times, and she thought it would get better once they were husband and wife. It didn't and won't. If anything, their relationship got worse. She was in love with the idea of how things used to be between them, if that makes sense. Everyone's situation is different. However, you seem to know the right thing to do. Follow your heart. When one door shuts, another one will open! Prayers for you that your steps are guided to follow the path that has been laid for you to follow. The right thing to do may not always be easy, but what is waiting for you will be worth it. |
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