I cant believe this!

[mnewco]

Indiah...I am so sorry that this person is attacking you at 5 in the morning!!!

There is nothing wrong with asking your friends to vote for a person's dog. I thought we were all friends and would help each other out. I vote for everyone that asks and I see the post. I guess I want them to win as much as me. I enter for the fun of it just to see how many people think Niyah is cute.

I am glad to see you are staying. I left a photography forum one time because someone was so rude to me that you would not believe but I came back and I was the bigger person because I did not allow this person to run me off.

[Krystee]

Originally Posted by mnewco

Indiah...I am so sorry that this person is attacking you at 5 in the morning!!!

There is nothing wrong with asking your friends to vote for a person's dog. I thought we were all friends and would help each other out. I vote for everyone that asks and I see the post. I guess I want them to win as much as me. I enter for the fun of it just to see how many people think Niyah is cute.

I am glad to see you are staying. I left a photography forum one time because someone was so rude to me that you would not believe but I came back and I was the bigger person because I did not allow this person to run me off.

Yeah, that's what I entered too. The picture you put of here on there is SUPER cute! I love it!

[erickajm]

As long as it is open to the public no one should have a problem... sounds childish to me.

[EXOTICYORKIES]

Thanxs everyone for making me feel better and letting me know that i did the right thing i have learned alot from others non selfish ways ,why i am only here on yt because another breeder as we call them mentors was not selfish and taught me what it is that i know today i have a lot of skills some just came natural but then others were learned. Were would we be in this world if people felt the need to be selfish and not help each other ?i just know when i do something good from the heart i feel wonderful and even if i won which the chances are slim i could have known that i wasnt selfish and told all my friends about it and gave them the same chance.i just hope this silly mess has taught the person after reading other peoples replies that what she did just wasnt right and i guess i am just shocked because since i been on this site from my very first time actually being on i had several people say welcome and if you need any helpjust let us know so i automatically thought oh this is nice everyone is friendly i felt like finally i had people i could share my passion with but i still do so i am officially done with the negative i am going to end this and read me some good old forums and look at some cute yorkie baby photos and check out some yorkie videos after all why waste time on something like this when there is so much yorkie stuff 2 do lol

[FlDebra]

Originally Posted by EXOTICYORKIES

You know what this is sad i thought this forum was about yorkielove ,i have had a member up at 5 am this morning harassing me about a post that i told everyone about the contest because i am not a selfish individual ,while i may not win the contest i felt as though why not invite my yt friends /members to get a shot at it also and this member has the nerve to post these rude comments about she dont want me to pm her anymore when she initiated this .i am going to be a bigger person and still continue to be cordial on this forum because frankly i like yt and i am not going to let anything negative drive me away ,i have found great wonderful homes for my babies have met great people onthis site and has learned from those who are not selfish and that we are here because we wll have one thing in common yorkieluv!so i am going to end this post on anote to say if i made 1 person upset by trying to help my yt members win thecontest because i am not selfish 2 bad because this is how i recieve my blessings by sharing and i will continue to be blessed and maybe if you open up your heart and not have these selfish tendecies you will be blessed too so goodluck again to all the yt members who did not know about this contest and now do because i shared peace and yorkie loveeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!
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EXOTICYORKIES WHEN YOU CARE ENOUGH TO BUY THE BEST

This is absolutely crazy! I did not harrass you at all -- my post is there on the Official Voting Request Thread. All I did was post that if anyone else wanted to start a thread asking for votes they should put it in the thread that ADMIN asked them to.

Here is my post: http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/2736691-post1425.html -- It was not addressed to you, it was not harassing at all. You then started PM'ing me!
4:44 am you Pm'd me and asked how to erase your thread.

4:54 am I answered your question and told you, you would have to contact Admin to make any changes or move your thread.

5:15 You then Pm'd me again, and wrote: "i think you should post it to everyone who post in the wrong place because everyone is not going to go to this post so wont you inform the others so they will know also right "

5:25 I again answered your PM and asked, "Why do you think I should I do all that posting? Since you started it, maybe you would like to post to everyone..." I also told you that "I did not initiate these PMs but would like to end them." I did not see that I should post to each person who had already asked for votes in the General forum to ask they move their threads.

5:34 am, You did not like that and wrote me yet another PM saying, "i did not start anything somone posted before me thats how i found out about it so im just saying you shoudl start athread and inform everyone where they should post i just said you should tell them whats wrong with that i dont think they will take offense you said ten people are on it..." and demanded, "just start a new post and tell them so they will know "
At which time I had just about had it with all of the early morning pm's and you writing to tell me what to do. So, I wrote, "Look -- I don't know why you have decided to tell me what to do, but knock it off. I have been up all night, am tired and have emphatically told you I do not want to post to each of them.

I also asked you to end the PM's. This is my second request!" That is where finally, you stopped the PM's and I got some peace.

Now who was harrassing? Who was telling who what to do? Who initiated to PM's and who continued them after being asked to stop them?

[FlDebra]

Originally Posted by EXOTICYORKIES

Thanxs everyone for making me feel better and letting me know that i did the right thing i have learned alot from others non selfish ways ,why i am only here on yt because another breeder as we call them mentors was not selfish and taught me what it is that i know today i have a lot of skills some just came natural but then others were learned. Were would we be in this world if people felt the need to be selfish and not help each other ?i just know when i do something good from the heart i feel wonderful and even if i won which the chances are slim i could have known that i wasnt selfish and told all my friends about it and gave them the same chance.i just hope this silly mess has taught the person after reading other peoples replies that what she did just wasnt right and i guess i am just shocked because since i been on this site from my very first time actually being on i had several people say welcome and if you need any helpjust let us know so i automatically thought oh this is nice everyone is friendly i felt like finally i had people i could share my passion with but i still do so i am officially done with the negative i am going to end this and read me some good old forums and look at some cute yorkie baby photos and check out some yorkie videos after all why waste time on something like this when there is so much yorkie stuff 2 do lol

Ah, you feel better now that you have completely misled people? Just to make it clear -- I have not entered the contest. I have only voted positively for YT pups that are entered. I do not know what the selfish and unselfish high and mighty talk is about. I did not want to take orders from you at 5 am. I told you I was tired, and had been up all night. You wanted me to tell other people what to do. I did not think that was right and did not want to do it. Evidently you got mad about that.

I am getting tired of people starting a post and making it sound like "oh woes is me, someone was mean to me" just so they can quickly drum up sympathy, when they are the ones that are being ridiculous in the first place. You cannot expect to order people to do your bidding and then make a thread like this when they won't do as you say. If you wanted each person contacted, then maybe you should have done it, not tell me to do it.

If you are going to accuse someone of harrassing you, then let's see it? Lies are not going to make friends and influence people. Just because I want you to stop PM'ing me at 5 am when I don't want to do as you demand, does not make it harrassment!

[FlDebra]

Originally Posted by erickajm

As long as it is open to the public no one should have a problem... sounds childish to me.

What sound childish? She said she was harrassed, but what was the harrassment? Just that I did not want to do what she wanted me to do at 5 am? Her starting this thread is the childish part. People should wait to get the facts before jumping on a bandwagon.

I really did not think it would be right for me to contact each person who had started a Vote Request thread in the general forum and ask them to move it as she was telling me to do. That is not my place. She wanted me to do it. Then she wanted me to make another thread, I did not want to do that either. If I had done as she asked, I would have 10 other people aggravated at me for telling them what to do. I was not going to do that to them! I figured the one post that was in her thread before it was moved by Admin was enough. It was just to let those who were GOING to start a thread know where to put their post.

This is beyond silly. It is assinine.

[FlDebra]

Originally Posted by mnewco

Indiah...I am so sorry that this person is attacking you at 5 in the morning!!!

There is nothing wrong with asking your friends to vote for a person's dog. I thought we were all friends and would help each other out. I vote for everyone that asks and I see the post. I guess I want them to win as much as me. I enter for the fun of it just to see how many people think Niyah is cute.

I am glad to see you are staying. I left a photography forum one time because someone was so rude to me that you would not believe but I came back and I was the bigger person because I did not allow this person to run me off.

Melissa -- please just do me a favor. Read through my posts and the quotes. I don't know what else is going on here but at no time did I attack her and at no time did I say there was anything wrong with asking friends to vote for a person's dog. I voted for several YT pups myself. I just did not want to do what she was demanding of me. It had nothing to do with the votes. I just was unwilling to do as she told me and evidently that did not set well with her.

[EXOTICYORKIES]

Look ms debra i am going to say this i did not even give your name i just simply wanted to vent on yt becasuse i felt that i was right i did not want any sympathy at all ok i just felt that after all the help people were giving me when i first tried to sign up for this freaking contest i was so happy so many people were willing to help so i said to them why dont you sign up and after i thought about it i said well this is a good post to write so everyone can have a chance you wrote me rudely stating this is not for you to be psting this contest and you asked me to inform everyone so i said you informed them since you were so concerned so dont try to flip this ok it is childish and stupid and i cant believe i am taking the time to address your ignorant comments i dont need friends i just dont think out of 57,000 people it didnt bother nobody but you why ? Now wont you ask yourself why you ever even wrote me i did not ask you for any advice you wer up at 5 am obviously disturbed by my post to everyone, you know what im done you can say what you want i know you are feeling bad first its denial then you accept that you have a problem and then you will deal with it so guess what you are on your way to recovery good luck you made the first step debra by admitting to everyone that it was you who i was talking about the whole time

[EXOTICYORKIES]

Lets be done with this ok we both have better things to do with our times and we are adults so lets act like it if it will stop this back and forth i will say you are right and i am wrong ok thanks because this seems like drama and i try to live a drama free life and i am not here for enemies ok so lets just continue with you keep off my page and i will keep off yours thankyou so much

[mnewco]

Originally Posted by Krystee

Yeah, that's what I entered too. The picture you put of here on there is SUPER cute! I love it!

Thank you so much Krystee.

[mnewco]

Originally Posted by FlDebra

Melissa -- please just do me a favor. Read through my posts and the quotes. I don't know what else is going on here but at no time did I attack her and at no time did I say there was anything wrong with asking friends to vote for a person's dog. I voted for several YT pups myself. I just did not want to do what she was demanding of me. It had nothing to do with the votes. I just was unwilling to do as she told me and evidently that did not set well with her.

Debra...I am not going to get involved in this mess but I read Indiah's thread and not once did she say who even PM'd her. We would not have known had you not spoke up and as far as what you call 'demanding' was not 'demanding' to me. It sounded like a question, a favor. That's all.

Indiah meant no harm or else she would have brought up your name. Right?

[erickajm]

Nevermind... I'm confused.