I need your help with something...

[Gracie2006]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

yes yes yes!!!! let him pay by all means.... you can cook him dinner once in a while,but thats it.. once you put your hand in your pockets thats it.
he sounds like a great catch. does he have a brother??? lol
it feels so good when a man takes care of his woman. ive been putting my hands in my pockets for 20 years and i finally stopped a few months ago.
i learned my lesson. let the man be the man. i think once in a while you could pay for something, but dont go overboard .. you can even buy him something letting him know you appreciate it. something small . thats it
good luckk, you lucky girl

I don't think he has a brother. I think they broke the mold when they made him!

[Ashley V]

I'd just let him pay. He's a big boy and knows his finances, but I definitely see why you are concerned. If you feel really bad and want to do more than just cook him dinner every now and then, tell him you want to do _____ and prepay for it without telling him. When you go to whatever it is, and he goes to pay, then kind of flirtingly be like "Gotchya" and explain that you are treating him this time. I wouldn't make a huge deal out of it - actually, just appreciate it, because in today's society not many men are very chivalrous.