villette, i don't find you controversal at all. i can't beleive that someone would call you that!! i, for one, just LOVE you, and your girls!!! i agree with melissa, i'd be waiting at the bookstore to buy one of those spy girl stories!! i really feel like i know you, just from being on different sites with you, and from what i can tell you are a sweet, kind, loving, FUNNY person! you have helped me and my family so much from first joining to losing bandit to getting tucker and everything in between, thank you so much, this site wouldn't be the same without you!

Controversy is NOT your game at all. The people who said that about you just want to make themselves seem less controversial by placing it on you. You say what you feel and so do I. Anyways, you don't need to worry yourself about what that .5% says about you because the rest of us, LOVE YOU AND THINK YOU AND YOUR GIRLS ARE THE BEST! Love ya V
P.S. FOR GODS SAKE FIX HER BOW...POOR THING. :p

I dont think your controversial and I didnt see the post where someone said you were. I think your just passionate about some subjects and there is nothing wrong with that.

Villette, I'm shocked that someone labeled you controversial! :eek: You've always tried to keep the peace and this is very surprising!!! You're one of the sweetest people that I know! Don't worry about what other people say. People WILL talk and there's nothing you can do about that. They'll get over it and move on!

People can label me whatever they want and you know what? I don't give a rat's ass! I know what I am and many others know how I am. Am I going to sit and stew over negativity? No and neither should you! You have lots of friends and people that care a great deal about you. I don't know everything that was said but put it behind ou and move on. And yes, you are laid back AND I GOT YOUR BACK!

As you said you have alot of posts! .. I've been reading and enjoying things you've written about a long time. I don't find you controverial at all. I actually find you amazing in you're response to everyone. ...you always seem to say the right thing!
Sometimes I zoom through and don't read closely enough what others have to say . I think anyone would admit the majority of things you comment back to people make them feel good. We would all miss you if you weren't around .

Thanks for the nice replys !! I wasn't leaving...but wanted everyone to hear from ME that I don't intentionally try to be outspoken. Our lives are stressful enough...we don't need it here.

I do think many of the topics on yorkietalk can really help educate people on things many aren't aware of - Mills...Pet Stores etc.... and I will probably always be outspoken on those topics - but there were a few cases lately I could have just stayed out of and THAT is the reason for this thread.

So....Thanks ! Chanel And Cheri & I are very lucky to be in the company of so many nice people. :) and we would SURE LOVE spellcheck here ..I think I edit most every post for spelling fixes.

Now that is hilarious!! You have to be one of the nicest people I've NEVER met and it pisses me off that you're in Texas and I can't have the pleasure of meeting! That makes my heart ache!

I know that there's some here that like to START the controversy but it's always you that end in in a dignified way.

Now about Cheri's hair! LOL!! I feel like posting a picture of Brutus right now and how he looks. Mr. needs a bath, hair in his face, chlorine smelling, tangled mess, beggin for everything stud that he he is. But they're still cute!

[QUOTE=Brutus'mama]Now that is hilarious!! You have to be one of the nicest people I've NEVER met and it pisses me off that you're in Texas and I can't have the pleasure of meeting! That makes my heart ache!

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i know what you mean!!! villette get yourself UP HERE NOW!!! other wise you're going to drive me to get on a plane and come FIND YOU!!! :p

Listen gal, I like you so much that if you were wrong I'd stick up for you. (and of
course you are not) What I like about your answers is you always look at the
thread from both points of view and you make sure that things you might say
will not hurt anyone. There are times when as much as I want to bite my
tongue, I let it out. Really we wouldn't be normal if we didn't. I usually do it
when I see someone new being roped in to a situation and I can see when you
do,it's for the benifit of the majority. You have done so many nice things for
people including me but this is NOT coming because of that. Don't let the "you
know whats get to you" What's the deal with you made alot of posts "What's
that got to do with the price of cheese????????????????????????????????" I'm
upset.

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Very well said

I think you are a beautiful person and you have always been nice to me starting back as far as when we belong to Yorkie Direct Forum. I have found comfort in your kind words and wisdom in the advice you have given me. In certain topics we ALL get wrap up in topics because we ALL want the best for our yorkies and that is not a crime. I have learn so much from you on these forums and if someone want to label you controverial because you believe in some thing and stand your ground firm about it then I want to be just like you when I grow up because you are a da*n good role model. Take what people say with a grain of salt. Pick and choose. Choose what is useful to you and let the rest go in one ear and out the other. YOU ROCK RED98VETT!!

I musta missed something somewhere...see what happens when you step away from the 'puter!!
Villette, I certainly am a fan. Anybody as fun loving and full of common sense as you are has nothing to worry about. I know I don't consider standing up for what you think is right is the same as being controversial.
There are hot button topics that are always going to be a factor, but the biggest reason I post here is to try to learn new things and help educate others if I can. You are always the best at having a sensible outlook and your humor is invaluable. Please don't get all tactful on us now! It'll be a snoozefest.

Okay, I have been so busy with law school that I just keep missing things........I'm going to have to start paying more attention to what's going on at YT!

Vilette, I have no idea how in the world someone could think you were controversial. :confused: Your posts are so positive, uplifting, not to mention some are just hilarious, that I specifically hunt out your posts on the threads just to read them because they make me smile!! :D :D I really missed your presence on YT when you were gone on vacation, though I must admit I really enjoyed all the stories when you came back. ;) I would just love to meet you (and go on vacation with you ;)).

Yes, I have noticed there are a few subjects you feel strongly about, but you never initiate the thread, you only post your response to it, you always keep it positive, and you never argue just for the sake of argument -- is that in any way controversial?? NO WAY!!!

Your such an awesome person with a truly wonderful spirit that is so bright and strong that it shines through to each of us via the internet. Anyone who has taken the time to read your posts can see and feel that! Love ya Girl!! :D :D

Villette,

You are not controversial. You are one of the most helpful and informative YT members. You say what you mean and mean what you say and for that I appreciate the wealth of information you so graciously share with all of us yorkie luvvers. I do not post a lot, and have tried to stay from all the negativity in the last few weeks, but I did want to tell you that I appreciate you. Thanks for all you do!

Villette,
I think you just have really awesome opinions you share with us. I dont think you are "controversial". I like that you share your wonderful knowledge with us here at YT:heart to