wha happened??i missed it????

We can't really say out of respect for the West Coast people who haven't watched yet....

You can watch the replay on abc.com but I don't think it will be loaded until tomorrow...make sure you watch the finale AND the after the rose show...

You will not be happy!!!

I am angry and disgusted - Arggggghhhhhhhhhhh......!!!
So bad at ABC right now!!! Barf!!!!!!!!

I don't even watch the show and I'm angry about what happened tonight!! :mad:

Sooooo.....are we going to have a third round? DeAnna maybe???? Right about now, I'm thinking he's a bit flakey to say the least. Now that the show is pretty much over, I'll have to keep my eyes peeled when I'm in Kirkland to see who he show up with. Boy oh boy does he ever cry alot!!!!

I didn't watch the show but I did watch the "After the final Rose " show. :eek: What the *&#$! ....I wont say anything because I'm sure others may have not watched yet but....damn ! He seems like a bit of a Ba$tard.

I've only watched some of the last few episodes but in my opinion, he's a total jerk. All that bawling would have turned me off no matter how cute he is but I can't wait for round 2 tonight.

Thanks everyone for waiting to post til the west coasters watched it! You guys are great! Once again, the SHOW producers made it a let down. I actually was wanting to hunt Jason down until I saw him on Jimmy Kimmel tonight. They gave him a hard time and he had ONE very valid point.....he said that he, the girls, producers, etc...all signed contracts in the beginning before the show ever started, PROMISING to do everything on air. He also said that before Melissa walked out on the final rose show, they discussed and BOTH knew full well that they were broken up. That said, the show had em. He HAD to do it (for the most part, on TV) So the sting lessened for me a little. I was so proud of Melissa and how she stood up for herself, was angry, yet understanding when talking in the limo and very "real" about the whole thing. I do think he proposed and meant it. I do also think Melissa was right...she wanted to be proposed to only ONCE in her life and Jason stole that from her. Good for her to give him hell for that! I also dont believe for a SECOND that Molly and Jason hadnt talked. She was too happy and acting willing to take him back and not at all surprised at the situation. Then so ready to kiss him....WHATEVER!! She knew before last night. I dont think they saw each other but you could tell they had spoken....I have just rambled way too much about this show. I hope viewers next season drop ratings in massive amounts!! Thats the only way to send the message to the producers to actually try to find a Trista/Ryan match again. They are too into the drama.....from Brad's indecision, to DeAnna's crap, and now Jason......3 strikes n your out in my ballpark!! Its not reality tv anymore....its edited n clipped n cut and we just aren't getting the real thing anymore. they pick and choose to form characters now and its too bad because good people like Jason are now laughing stocks!! (Cant say he doesnt deserve it!!) :p

Yorkiefan49.. I agree with most everything you've said. When Wife Swap first came on, I was so into it for about 2 years until I read where it was staged and that did it for me. With Molly I wondered why she kept looking at the other guy when Jason was telling her that he wanted her back plus she kept giggling. Just because they sign contracts does not mean that they don't talk. Just as you said reality tv is not reality any longer. After all, it's all about ratings.

I believe this was the plan of the show from the beginning and I believe he signed into it. What a Jerk!!

No one can make you to something like that on air and a real man would refuse and let them sue him if need be but it was a plan from day one in my opinion. ABC has stooped to a new low with that show.

I think it's seriously so pathetic the way Jason handled that. I don't care if it had to be done on tv or not contractually... it was just cruel and I felt the little emotion he showed for Melissa during the break up was totally fake and contrived.

If he can so easily say he loves someone, promises to marry them, then go back on that within a matter of 6 weeks -- he's got serious problems. I felt like the whole "I have to follow my heart" was a lame excuse, like oh well I can't be blamed for this because I HAVE to follow my heart.

I don't know how Molly could accept a guy back that is so undecided and confused. I thought Molly acted really classless also by being so giddy and kissing him minutes after what he did to Melissa. There is just a code between women that you don't act that way. Even if she was thrilled (which I think is pathetic) she could have used more tact. I thought that made her look really bad and kind of reinforced why I never cared for her during the season.

I don't know if I believe Melissa knew. I'm sure she knew they had issues, but she could have thought that at the final rose Jason and her would talk about how they were going to work on it. It's really up in the air at this point if she did know since Jason could just be saying that to save face. Unless Melissa confirms that I take it with a grain of salt as I don't believe a word Jason says at this point.

I think Melissa handled herself with grace and class and I felt so sad for her in the limo when she said there must be something wrong with her :(. Poor girl -- there's nothing wrong w/her, there's something wrong w/Jason.

I knew this was coming from reading spoiler blogs, but it was so awful to watch and I can definitely say I will not be watching the Bachelor anymore. I haven't watched since the Andrew Firestone season and only watched this time because of Jason's "good guy" story.

The whole thing is SO pathetic!! Jason WAS the guy we all wanted to see have a happy ending...and he has made himself look like a total ASS! So he choose one woman, proposed and in a matter of 6 weeks...changes his mind....what kind of message does that give to his son?
Either Molly is a terrible actress or she is just an idiot...to fall into his arms so quickly after jilting another women merely minutes before...come on....
There is another follow up show tonight folks......don't tell me....he changed his mind and now want Deanna?? Wouldnt surprise me!
I will watch tonight and then I am done with the Bachelor show....I think they have gone too far and they have turned the show into a joke.

:thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

ok! so what can happen tonight. Maybe he comes out of the closet:D or maybe he gets stoned or tar and feathered by the rest of the women. I've had it with this show and I want Boston Legal back

Yep, I thought that from the beginning. (girly guy) I won't even watch tonight.

"Maybe he comes out of the closet"

:p LOL...that would not surprise me!! I want Boston Legal back too!:D

Really though....what a shame what they have done to this show...:mad:

all i know is that i cried my dam eyes out last night when i saw jason crying.
i was a complete mess. dont know what to think anymore

Chris Harrison's Bachelor Blog
 

This is what Chris Harrison posted about last nights show. I haven't read all the way through it yet (wanted to get it on here for you all) but it sheds some light on what happened and he says he will write another post after tonights show.


http://popwatch.ew.com/popwatch/2009...ment-150359825

The link didn't work...:confused:

Hmmmm? I'll try it again, sorry.


Copied and pasted again, hope it works this time.....
Chris Harrison blogs 'The Bachelor': The finale and 'After the Final Rose' | PopWatch Blog | EW.com

Jason is a Jerk!!! Whether she knew or not,, I think Melissa handled it well...He is a crybaby and I wouldn't be surprised to read that he & Molly don't last either.
Just found out there's an "After the Final Rose" part 2 tonight. I wonder what's next! He changes his mind and wants DeAnna back!!!:p

Wow I was NOT expecting that last night. That was crazy!!!!!Ok first of all this guy is really not that cute, his nose is all crooked and he's a sissy la la. He's always crying. He's like Neve Campbells character on Party of Five, she cried like every episode..lol..Anyway that was a real jerk thing to do to Melissa and both girls seem nice but I can't believe how quickly Molly took him back. :confused: Little self respect goes along way. And am I the only one who thinks it's wrong to be introducing two ladies to this little boy???? Who may grow up with a warped image of what a relationship is because daddy brought home 2 girls, dated one for a while, then dumped her and dated the other??? I just don't think it's appropriate to get kids involved unless you are 500% sure they are the right person. That little boy must have been so confused to see his father holding hands and kissing two girls in two days :eek: Irresponsible parent and boyfriend, the two go hand in hand :rolleyes:

The first name I thought to describe him was DIRTBAG!!

If you knew it wasn't working out you should have said something in private. Not waited till you were on national television to do something like that. And the fact that he had to wax on about no regrets and his emotion journey while tearing up every 5 seconds, gag. He is a classless dirtbag and hopefully Molly will see that and dump his butt.

She handled it beautifully with one exception. He would NEVER have gotten that ring back. He broke it off therefore she shouldn't have to give it back. I would have auctioned it off for charity on Ebay.

Do you remember what he said to Molly.

"I just broke up with Milissa, would you like to go out for coffee or something" Real classy guy.:(

I'm done with it!
I'm never watching that show again. I think is is all loosly scripted and everyone knew what was going to happen EVERY week.

I was very sad for mellisa ! But then again, She deserves better IMO ;) He knew he wanted molly ! That was by far one for there ratings , I dont think him and molly will last.

:thumbup: My sentiments exactly! I can't believe Jason turned out to be such jerk! I don't care what Jason said on Jimmy Kimmel, I don't think Mellisa knew that their relationship was over. She seems like a really good person and I hope she will find someone deserving of her.

I actually don't think it was set up. Yes the show may get good ratings for one night, but the producers know that happy endings (even for a few months) are what keep people tuning in. Since they weren't going to get the happy ending, I think they figured that they might as well cash in for one night, but I think they would have preferred the happy ending.

Where is "After the Final Rose" part 2 tonight.???..its not showing up anywhere on my preview guide. I figured tonight he would dump Mollie and say that he and DeAnna hooked up...Big cry baby jerk!

In the NY/NJ area it's on ch 7 abc at 10pm.

Part 2 is 9:30 central time

Oh, I was dying last night - in part because major computer problems & this is the first time I have been able to log on in 25 hrs :rolleyes:

I thought I knew the big thing that was going to happen on the show :rolleyes: -I thought he would choose Melissa - but the big "surprise" would be that he would have her parents flown to New Zealand to meet him & actually have the parents there for the proposal :rolleyes: -- boy I couldn't have been more wrong :eek:

I am so mad that I wasted weeks, & weeks watching this show :mad: But, in reality if they choose Stephanie for the next Bachelorette - I will watch, because I love her. But now the thought of what they could do to her, makes me hope she isn't the Bachelorette ever.

Jason is a putz - here I thought he was so wonderful. I really never liked any of the girls for him. Always thought DeAnna was the best choice for him til she screwed that up. But of the final 2, I only ever saw him with Melissa.

I don't believe everything Jason said on Jimmy Kimmel last night. I don't think it was totally clear to Melissa that it was all over until they were taping the After the Final Rose - which must have been shortly before Valentine's Day - if it was 6 week after the holidays. Melissa did a great job handling herself - love that she called him a bastard :p

I think when Melissa & Jason were talking about the fact that she had regrets - I think part of that was they must have slept together & she regrets that. I think there was a lot behind those words.

I don't think Molly knew what was going on - because when Jason 1st was talking to her, she couldn't even look at him, and instead kept looking at Chris. It is so hard to know in a taped situation how much time went by before they kissed & she said yes. Which all I could think is she really this stupid???!!!!

What did Jason say after he & Molly kissed? I thought he said holy crap - but I'm not sure

I never cared for Molly much before. But after last night. I decided she is too good, too classy for Jason. I can't see their relationship lasting.

The biggest thing is that the concept of the show is really not conducive to finding love - even though it is its premise. I feel like a fool for watching something that is so contrived whether it staged or not.

But yes, I'll be watching part 2 tonight just to see :rolleyes: -- hope Molly dumps Jason :p