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blueeyes_jd · 11-23-2008, 11:30 AM

so some of you may remember my thread about my brother in-law... hes been living with us since June... and has been dating this girl since then... anyways yesterday she died... she was only 29... she had never been married but my b.i.l. and her where talking about getting married....

it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO UNEXPECTED... on wed she had caused a 5 car pileup and was sent to the hospital where she had to have surgery and they had to put pins in her shoulder... then she was released on friday afternoon... so then yesterday (sat.) my bil kept trying to call her because they where planning on going to a movie that afternoon... and she never answered... so later last night his gfs sister (who she lives with) called him and said that they had been gone all day but when they got home to check on her... they found her laying passed out and foam at her mouth... and her body was cold... they called 911 and they took her to the hospital where they pronounced her dead... she did have a blood clot last month and on mon she had told me that where her blood clot was it hurt to the touch... and I told her that it wasnt normal and she needed to go see her doctor... so my hubby thinks she died of a blood clot... it makes me feel soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad... and its still not real for me... because we where just playing games monday night and I saw her tuesday night... last night when I got home my bil was in his room... but after about an hour he came up stairs and you could tell he had been crying... I told him I was sorry about his gf and that we are here if he just needed to talk or ANYTHING... and that we loved him... other then that I dont really know what to say or do... my heart aches ... I just couldnt imagine loosing my hubby... so it just makes me that much more thankful for him... and it makes me realize how life is too short...

TootiesMom · 11-23-2008, 12:08 PM

WOW, I am sorry to hear that tragic news... it really does show you that... you just never know... always live life to the fullest!
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duckie215 · 11-23-2008, 12:26 PM

How sad. I wish you all the best. Its so hard when experiences like that happen.

Mybabyboymax · 11-23-2008, 12:39 PM

Im so sorry for your loss, you guys will be in my prayers

kcook323 · 11-23-2008, 12:56 PM

Oh wow. How sad. ((((HUGS)))) with thoughts and prayers.

C101Yorkie · 11-23-2008, 01:01 PM

I'm so sorry.

Thoughts and prayers being sent your way.

MeganS · 11-23-2008, 01:03 PM

I am so sorry to hear that. All of her family and loved ones (especially your bil) will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Suzy · 11-23-2008, 01:12 PM

I am so sorry to hear your news. I will be thinking of you and your family.

blueeyes_jd · 11-23-2008, 04:01 PM

THANK YOU all for your kind words and prayers!!!

tmatherly · 11-23-2008, 04:10 PM

That's tragic. It is so unsettling when something like that happens to someone young and seemingly healthy. It sure makes you realize how short life is and what your priorities should be. Makes some of the things you thought was important yesterday so insignificant today. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Patti · 11-23-2008, 05:29 PM

How tragic. I will keep you all in my prayers

juliaw04 · 11-23-2008, 09:38 PM

I will be keeping all of you and her family in my prayers.

celstu1 · 11-24-2008, 06:47 AM

That is so sad!

Im so sorry for your family's loss, especially your BIL. It is so scary also how short life really can be.

blueeyes_jd · 11-24-2008, 08:10 PM

we should find out the cause of death today... I have to ask my bil so Im not sure if I want to...

thanks again to all of you for your prayers, good thoughts, and kind words!

chattiesmom · 11-24-2008, 09:40 PM

Jessica, I am just now reading your thread - I am so very sorry for this terrible tragedy in your family. Please let your brother-in-law know that he is my thoughts

and prayers

. If there is anything I can do, or if you would like to talk to someone, please don't hesitate to call me.

11-23-2008, 11:30 AM	#1
blueeyes_jd YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 1,451	Very unexpected.... so some of you may remember my thread about my brother in-law... hes been living with us since June... and has been dating this girl since then... anyways yesterday she died... she was only 29... she had never been married but my b.i.l. and her where talking about getting married.... it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO UNEXPECTED... on wed she had caused a 5 car pileup and was sent to the hospital where she had to have surgery and they had to put pins in her shoulder... then she was released on friday afternoon... so then yesterday (sat.) my bil kept trying to call her because they where planning on going to a movie that afternoon... and she never answered... so later last night his gfs sister (who she lives with) called him and said that they had been gone all day but when they got home to check on her... they found her laying passed out and foam at her mouth... and her body was cold... they called 911 and they took her to the hospital where they pronounced her dead... she did have a blood clot last month and on mon she had told me that where her blood clot was it hurt to the touch... and I told her that it wasnt normal and she needed to go see her doctor... so my hubby thinks she died of a blood clot... it makes me feel soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad... and its still not real for me... because we where just playing games monday night and I saw her tuesday night... last night when I got home my bil was in his room... but after about an hour he came up stairs and you could tell he had been crying... I told him I was sorry about his gf and that we are here if he just needed to talk or ANYTHING... and that we loved him... other then that I dont really know what to say or do... my heart aches ... I just couldnt imagine loosing my hubby... so it just makes me that much more thankful for him... and it makes me realize how life is too short... __________________ Jessica, Gracie's mommy PROUD MEMBER OF THE SPOILED ROTTEN CLUB! and now YTTA

11-23-2008, 12:08 PM	#2
TootiesMom and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana Posts: 4,109	WOW, I am sorry to hear that tragic news... it really does show you that... you just never know... always live life to the fullest! d __________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP)

11-23-2008, 12:26 PM	#3
duckie215 YT Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Schweinfurt, Bayern, Germany Posts: 432	How sad. I wish you all the best. Its so hard when experiences like that happen. __________________ I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love. --Mother Teresa

11-23-2008, 12:39 PM	#4
Mybabyboymax Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 1,859	Im so sorry for your loss, you guys will be in my prayers __________________ Its SummerTime!

11-23-2008, 12:56 PM	#5
kcook323 YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Northeast, AL USA Posts: 254	Oh wow. How sad. ((((HUGS)))) with thoughts and prayers. __________________ Kendra, mommy to... Maximus & lil' Miss Diva Chloe

11-23-2008, 01:01 PM	#6
C101Yorkie ♥Sapphire♥ Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: PA, USA Posts: 4,069	I'm so sorry. Thoughts and prayers being sent your way. __________________ Courtney Sapphire

11-23-2008, 01:03 PM	#7
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	I am so sorry to hear that. All of her family and loved ones (especially your bil) will be in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All

11-23-2008, 01:12 PM	#8
Suzy 2 Pups=Double Trouble! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Iowa Posts: 6,581	I am so sorry to hear your news. I will be thinking of you and your family. __________________ Suzy Emma & Milli What's better than loving a yorkie? Loving two yorkies! Milli 's Remi!

11-23-2008, 04:01 PM	#9
blueeyes_jd YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 1,451	THANK YOU all for your kind words and prayers!!! __________________ Jessica, Gracie's mommy PROUD MEMBER OF THE SPOILED ROTTEN CLUB! and now YTTA

11-23-2008, 04:10 PM	#10
tmatherly Razorback Yorkie Lover Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Bentonville, AR Posts: 2,056	That's tragic. It is so unsettling when something like that happens to someone young and seemingly healthy. It sure makes you realize how short life is and what your priorities should be. Makes some of the things you thought was important yesterday so insignificant today. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. __________________ Tiffany Pippa, Scout, and Ranger's Mom http://www.dogster.com/?198523 http://www.dogster.com/?198525

11-23-2008, 05:29 PM	#11
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	How tragic. I will keep you all in my prayers __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

11-23-2008, 09:38 PM	#12
juliaw04 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Midland, TX Posts: 2,166	I will be keeping all of you and her family in my prayers. __________________ ~ Julie, mommy to A.J and KaCee~

11-24-2008, 06:47 AM	#13
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	That is so sad! Im so sorry for your family's loss, especially your BIL. It is so scary also how short life really can be. __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

11-24-2008, 08:10 PM	#14
blueeyes_jd YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Utah Posts: 1,451	we should find out the cause of death today... I have to ask my bil so Im not sure if I want to... thanks again to all of you for your prayers, good thoughts, and kind words! __________________ Jessica, Gracie's mommy PROUD MEMBER OF THE SPOILED ROTTEN CLUB! and now YTTA

11-24-2008, 09:40 PM	#15
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Jessica, I am just now reading your thread - I am so very sorry for this terrible tragedy in your family. Please let your brother-in-law know that he is my thoughts and prayers . If there is anything I can do, or if you would like to talk to someone, please don't hesitate to call me. __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com