so some of you may remember my thread about my brother in-law... hes been living with us since June... and has been dating this girl since then... anyways yesterday she died... she was only 29... she had never been married but my b.i.l. and her where talking about getting married....
it was SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO UNEXPECTED... on wed she had caused a 5 car pileup and was sent to the hospital where she had to have surgery and they had to put pins in her shoulder... then she was released on friday afternoon... so then yesterday (sat.) my bil kept trying to call her because they where planning on going to a movie that afternoon... and she never answered... so later last night his gfs sister (who she lives with) called him and said that they had been gone all day but when they got home to check on her... they found her laying passed out and foam at her mouth... and her body was cold... they called 911 and they took her to the hospital where they pronounced her dead... she did have a blood clot last month and on mon she had told me that where her blood clot was it hurt to the touch... and I told her that it wasnt normal and she needed to go see her doctor... so my hubby thinks she died of a blood clot... it makes me feel soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad... and its still not real for me... because we where just playing games monday night and I saw her tuesday night... last night when I got home my bil was in his room... but after about an hour he came up stairs and you could tell he had been crying... I told him I was sorry about his gf and that we are here if he just needed to talk or ANYTHING... and that we loved him... other then that I dont really know what to say or do... my heart aches ... I just couldnt imagine loosing my hubby... so it just makes me that much more thankful for him... and it makes me realize how life is too short...