Husbands Suck!!!!

[ashleere]

I am sorry you are going through this....Did you marry him or his mom? He is supposed to stand up for YOU. I hate it when men dont treat their wives right. We have been together 25 yrs and married 18. I think I have a one in a million. I wish you did too. We are here for you. Keep your chin up and kick his sorry a$$ back to his mama.

My DH is the best, i get a brand new kitchen for Christmas. He cleans up after the furbutt, does laundry and cooks, and this is aftrer running his mechanic business all day (no employees). He just went to Colorado for 10 days hunting and called me like 4 times. He's the best dad too.

[adorame]

I am so sorry that you are going through this with your husband. I hope that it is workable to get him back on track to being a good caring hubby for you. I am married to a great guy, so thankfully I have never been in your situation. Mine treats me like a Queen I know that if he ever acted in a manner that was not nice, I would have a nice long talk with him about his lack of caring and jerkiness Best of luck to you! Oh and his mother needs to back off, my mother in law started off not liking me, I was too "Stuck up" and according to her we would not of dated long enough to even consider getting married. HA HA we have been together for 18 years and married for 16! My husband alway's takes my side if she starts crap, wich thankfully stopped about 6 years ago, we get along great now.

[Lucia]

Originally Posted by adorame

I am so sorry that you are going through this with your husband. I hope that it is workable to get him back on track to being a good caring hubby for you. I am married to a great guy, so thankfully I have never been in your situation. Mine treats me like a Queen* I know that if he ever acted in a manner that was not nice, I would have a nice long talk with him about his lack of caring and jerkiness Best of luck to you! Oh and his mother needs to back off, my mother in law started off not liking me, I was too "Stuck up" and according to her we would not of dated long enough to even consider getting married. HA HA we have been together for 18 years and married for 16! My husband alway's takes my side if she starts crap, wich thankfully stopped about 6 years ago, we get along great now.

I'm one of the lucky ones too....and like adorame, my husband takes my side in arguments against his family - they all hate me! (except his mum and one brother) for no reason at all! They all said we got together too young (17), and it wouldnt last...well we've been together 10years altogether (married for 5) and have two little girls. I sincerely hope everything works out for you..no one should have to put up with that sort of treatment from anyone - let alone the man who's supposed to love you! xxx

[xxmxaxrxyxx]

i am sorry you are going through this! Men could be selfish bastard sometimes...or all the time depending on who they are... Good luck!

[phfgkl]

Originally Posted by ashleere

I am sorry you are going through this....Did you marry him or his mom? He is supposed to stand up for YOU. I hate it when men dont treat their wives right. We have been together 25 yrs and married 18. I think I have a one in a million. I wish you did too. We are here for you. Keep your chin up and kick his sorry a$$ back to his mama.

My DH is the best, i get a brand new kitchen for Christmas. He cleans up after the furbutt, does laundry and cooks, and this is aftrer running his mechanic business all day (no employees). He just went to Colorado for 10 days hunting and called me like 4 times. He's the best dad too.

I think our hubbys must be long lost brothers..

[Tammyh]

What is it with family members (mothers in particular) interfering in their childrens marriages? I just don't get it. My desire for my 3 boys is to have happy secure marriages that last a lifetime. My middle son is married and has a 2-1/2 yr old daughter and I would be heartbroken if he and his wife were to ever split up. I stay out of my kids relationships, it's none of my business. My granddaughter deserves a family where mommy and daddy are together, happy and in-love. I can't imagine wanting to stir up trouble in any of my son's relationships

I wish you luck in your marriage, stand strong and fight for what's right. Maybe when your husband sees how hurt you were by his actions he'll come around and change his ways. You deserve love and respect and you should except nothing less.

[charmed239]

Again. thank you for all your kind words....Im glad to see that you all dont think im just being a whiny bitch...lol.....it is very very nice to have you guys as friends..