I am not a nice person

[Yorkie3]

I'd type him out a letter explaining why you're so upset with him IN DETAIL. Save a copy in your computer and then every time he does something stupid in these last three days...print out another copy and hand it to him. Be sure to hand him another on his way out the door.

[ellie81]

ahhh I'm sorry you're having such a hard time... but it will soon be over

[blueeyes_jd]

Originally Posted by AngelWorks

If your anything like me------I expect people who live under the same roof with me to pitch in and do their share.

When they don't, I become exactly how you are now.

And you're right, it feels so horrible.

Originally Posted by Graleyne

You know, that is exactly it. I was always taught that if you have to live with someone, and you can't afford to pay them rent, you do anything and everything to help them out to pay for your stay. My two oldest and I had to move in with my grandmother after my divorce and I had NO MONEY, and no job, and two small kids. My grandmother didn't have to lift a finger while I was there. I made sure I was up before she was and in bed after her. I asked permission to use her telephone when I NEEDED to and I was on and off as quickly as possible. I never asked to watch television. If I did sit down and watch with her it was what she wanted to watch. I didn't want to put her out anymore than I already was.

So I just don't understand waltzing into someone's else and doing what he does. It makes me crazy.

I do feel horrible. I posted that first post from my laptop while I was crying in the bathroom.

IM the SAME WAY!!! and with my brother in-law its REALLY REALLY HARD!!! I finally called my hubby today and said "soon its going to come down to him or me!!!" and he said "and thats not going to be good" WHAT I WANTED him to say was..."well if it does come down to that it will be HIM!!!" then I told him that... then he said "well what are your biggest problems with him..???" I said... "that he touches MY STUFF, that he doesnt help around the house are clean up his s!@$%, and that he needs to get his priorities straighten out...( he claims that he doesnt have ANY money... he cant pay his mortgage or buy his kids clothes.. yet he can go on a date and blow $50.00 here $50.00 there...) and that IF he really didnt have the money then he needs to STOP spending it on her and use it for his kids and then since he cant help pay for food that he should be cleaning A LOT more..." I DOUBT that is going to happen!!! so I FEEL YOU!!! but you only have until FRIDAY!!!!