GRRRRRR... I just need to vent... so my hubby and I have lived in my inlaws house until they get back from Africa... so last month my hubbies brother moved in with us...:rolleyes: hey I dont mind him living here... but I expected him to be an adult and clean up after himself...:rolleyes: boy was I WRONG!!! ok he is 30 years old after all... he leaves half full drinks all around the house, he was doing laundry... well our CLEAN clothes where in the dryer... and there was a laundry basket right there... and where did he put our clothes??? ON THE FLOOR!!! :mad: then... he makes more money then my hubby and yet WE are the ones that buy the food and Im the one who cooks the food... and either my hubby or I are the ones that CLEAN UP!!!:eek: Im soooooooooooooooo sick of it... I KEEP telling hubby HE NEEDS to talk to him... but he wont... GRRRRRRRRRRRR I dont know what to do... but I CANT keep living like this!!! if it doesnt get better Im going to become a B$^@&!!! and I dont want to... :( thanks for letting me vent!!! |
leave it...just his stuff...leave it there. Hubby will eventually see. Don't buy food for him, don't cook for him. Be nice about it..oh, you want to have dinner with us? Okay, tomorrow, why don't you make the salad? Or buy a cake? |
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Sorry, But 30 is a bit too old to be acting this way, he was probably raised with someone picking up after him all the time.. My hubby is the same way... My hubby and I are both 34, But I'm a neat/clean freak and he's a pig, literally... But I'll tell you,his mother is to blame for him being this way, she did everything for him til we got together 10 yrs ago... Now its me that took over... |
Honestly I would tell him if I wanted to be responsible for another human being I would have children by now. I would tell him I am fine with you being here for a bit but your not a guest. Your family and as such I expect that you do the courteous thing of tidying up after yourself and pitching in. There wouldn't be too much of that mess at my house. I can't take that nonsense. I have children and I don't care to let them do that nonsense so I won't let a grown man do it. A couple years back hubby's brother came to visit....I told him those same words because he was doing just what your BIL was doing. |
I hate people like that! They seem to think that the cleaning fairy is going to come and make their mess magically disappear. I wish I could make him magically disappear for you, but you're welcome to vent any time! :D |
The more you run after him the more he will do it, if your hubby wont tell him then you should, i know i would but then im a lot older than you all!:) |
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How about talking to the parents? Let his mother know that he is very messy in HER home. Ask her advice about it. |
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I am very sorry for this situation. It doesn't sound like there is a easy solution..... but sweetheart, vent away :) . I guarantee that it will ease your mind and help with your agitation. LOLl this fella doesn't sound like very good husband material, but I'd suggest to trying to find him a woman to straighten him out. :D:D:D |
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Oh boy do I feel your pain! I have a DUG (darn unwanted guest) here doing the same thing. At least yours WORKS. Mine doesn't even do that and expects me to buy his cigarettes and if I refuse he acts like a childish brat and bites everyones head off. I don't have any advice. Just wanted to offer you a hug and tell you I understand. |
ohhh i know exactly what you mean!! for a while my boyfriend and i had his little brother stay with us! and was that a mistake!! he was always loud drinking and would always pee on the toilet seat and say just wipe it off!! haha!! bad manners that boy had!! the list just went on and on with him!! so go ahead and vent!! we are hear to listen and share as well!! hugs! |
THANK YOU ALL of you for letting me vent and making me feel better... to all of you who are in the SAME situation as me... IM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SORRY!!! lol HUGS to you guys!!!! I just keep thinking ... his parents are going to be home in a year...:rolleyes: hopefully it will go A LOT FASTER then it seems...:rolleyes: |
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