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04-25-2008, 02:16 PM | #1 |
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| Do these things ALWAYS happen before a wedding??? I'm hoping I'm normal and what I'm experiencing is normal or at least I'll be comforted knowing other people had similar things happen right before their wedding. It's coming up June 7 -Have nightly nightmares about things going wrong -Argue with fiance over guest lists -Stressing that something/someone will be forgotten -Worry nothing will happen on time -Get annoyed with fiance for NO reason at all -Stress about small meaningless things -Wish we had done a destination wedding Please tell me this is normal behavior..lol
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04-25-2008, 02:20 PM | #2 |
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| This is normal behavior for a lot of women, but remember, on the day of your wedding, you just have to let go and let the day happen. On that day, do not worry about if things are happening on time or if this or that is going right; otherwise, you won't enjoy yourself. Just take a few deep breaths!! Everything will be okay Keep in mind what's really important, the marriage
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04-25-2008, 02:26 PM | #3 | |
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04-25-2008, 02:32 PM | #4 |
I love yorkie kisses Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Oklahoma
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| I think so. My DD had a little break down when she was getting dressed for the wedding. Just chill and let things go. Gary Smally says its the things that go wrong, that years later you sit around and laugh at. (while you are going through them its hard to laugh though). |
04-25-2008, 02:45 PM | #5 | |
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The day of my wedding I spent the morning at a spa, relaxing, having my nail done and a massage... Then I had my hair done, and the wedding was just a few hours away. There were a few problems in the meantime, but I didn't know about them until after the wedding was over. Everything went as planned, but if I had know about the problems before, I would have freaked out! So, just stay away from all the preparations and relax! | |
04-25-2008, 03:30 PM | #6 |
My little furbutts Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Baytown, TX
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| hey, I am with you 100%!!!! As soon as I got engaged I started having the nightmares....hehe. Everyone keeps telling me that you just need to relax and enjoy everything...yeah right it just stresses me out more when I start thinging about crap I need to do. Good Luck with everything and I am sure you are going to have a great wedding and if you forget something, don't worry about it. People probably wont even realize!
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04-26-2008, 04:16 AM | #7 |
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| What you are experiencing is definitely NORMAL! Just make sure to have EVERYTHING completed by at least 2 weeks prior to your wedding. That way you'll have plenty of time to relax beforehand. I wish I had done that when I was married!!!!!!
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04-26-2008, 04:35 AM | #8 |
Living My Yorkie Dream Donating Member | Everything on your list sounds completely normal for the bride-to-be.....and anyone else helping to prepare for a wedding. My daughter is getting married in August......she & her fiance are stationed in Alaska so we're talking long-distance planning here! How's that for stress? Luckily we're keeping the wedding kind of small & that helps. But I've had a few calls/emails where she has sounded as stressed as you sound. I've told her and I'll tell you....."It's okay,try to relax & enjoy the excitement of planning YOUR day; everything will be fine in the end. Good luck to you & congratulations.
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04-26-2008, 06:39 AM | #9 |
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| Very normal. Not to worry. Enjoy the planning and the wedding. It will all be over way toooooo fast.
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04-26-2008, 07:41 AM | #10 |
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| This is very normal! I got so stressed with my wedding I would get blisters from the stress. Yuck! So you don't want to have blisters for your wedding. LOL Hubby and I argued even on the way to the reherasal. We fought more in the 2 months before the wedding than we do now in almost 3 years of marriage.
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04-26-2008, 07:49 AM | #11 |
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| Yep - you are normal! I don't know of any wedding large or small where at one point during all the planning one or the other of the bride and groom would say ... Why didn't we just elope
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04-28-2008, 03:29 PM | #12 |
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| HAHA All of your responses made me smile and laugh. We are definitely enjoying all the plannng and I'm really anal so everything has been done for like 2 months...lol..but I can't sleep at night. i'm having nightmares about stuff going wrong, and in general not sleeping well. Just not being able to shut my brain off So my friend said I should write down all the stuff in my head before sleeping and then reading a few chapters before hitting the sack.
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04-28-2008, 03:35 PM | #13 |
Blessed by Otis & Ollie Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Plainfield, Indiana
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| About 3 weeks before my wedding I decided I didn't care one bit about any part of it. People asked me questions and I just said, i don't care, you make the decision. I was maxxed out on decision making. I just wanted it overwith. It had become a pain instead of a joy, and I was VERY cranky. Congratulations early!! It gets better.
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04-29-2008, 07:24 AM | #14 | |
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Do you want to come over to my house and finish all of my stuff?!!! hehe. Good idea on writing everything down.
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04-29-2008, 07:48 AM | #15 |
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| HAHA I may just have to to keep my mind off of stuff. Hey but it worked. I was most worried about the wedding schedule and that's what my nightmare has been around. So I made a schedule last night before going to bed, and I slept like a baby
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