Anybody up?

[lastellaequi]

Originally Posted by Mybabyboymax

awww Im up

anything you want to talk about?

Well it's just that my friends from HS moved away a few years ago and since then I haven't been able to make any "good" girl friends. Every time I get close to someone something always happens, or else if I'm trying to be friends with someone they're too busy & can never hang out. It's just hard cause I'm always with my guy friends & they're great don't get me wrong, but sometimes you need a girl friend to talk to/hang out with. A lot of girls up by where I live only want to talk about getting their nails done and clothes, I mean those things are fun, but there's more to life. I guess I'm just lonely

[Mybabyboymax]

Originally Posted by odies_mama

i have this HUGE ball under my skin, literally looks like someone shoved a marble under there and its as hard as a rock! also i have cellulitis going up my arm which is an infection under the skin. so from my armpit to almost my elbow is very swollen and tender. and because of the ball/knot i cant put my arm down =/

going to the doctor's on tuesday so hopefully this thing will be gone soon! its been here for over a week almost 2 now

so why cant you sleep?

hopefully they will lance it and you will feel soooooo much better!

[Mybabyboymax]

Originally Posted by lastellaequi

Well it's just that my friends from HS moved away a few years ago and since then I haven't been able to make any "good" girl friends. Every time I get close to someone something always happens, or else if I'm trying to be friends with someone they're too busy & can never hang out. It's just hard cause I'm always with my guy friends & they're great don't get me wrong, but sometimes you need a girl friend to talk to/hang out with. A lot of girls up by where I live only want to talk about getting their nails done and clothes, I mean those things are fun, but there's more to life. I guess I'm just lonely

aww im sorry you are feeling lonely. I find that making friends and having relationships are hard as well. Im sure that you will meet new people in no time

[Thorsmomma]

Originally Posted by Mybabyboymax

hopefully they will lance it and you will feel soooooo much better!

Lance it is stabbing it with a needle? Eww! But you know what, it will probably be nasty, but feel so good to have the pressure off...kinda like when you pop a zit it really hurts until it bursts and the gooeys blast out! sorry if that was TMI.!!! I wish you luck. Just don't look at what they are doing, that will help.

[odies_mama]

Originally Posted by lastellaequi

Well it's just that my friends from HS moved away a few years ago and since then I haven't been able to make any "good" girl friends. Every time I get close to someone something always happens, or else if I'm trying to be friends with someone they're too busy & can never hang out. It's just hard cause I'm always with my guy friends & they're great don't get me wrong, but sometimes you need a girl friend to talk to/hang out with. A lot of girls up by where I live only want to talk about getting their nails done and clothes, I mean those things are fun, but there's more to life. I guess I'm just lonely

i know where you're coming from. i have been like that my entire life! i was always friends with the guys not the girls. but now i have a bestfriend and its funny because we first met because she was dating my ex who is bestfriends with my fiance lol, wait its gets better! and at first, well for the first 3 years, we hated each other! but then it was just like BAM! we loved each other. now her and my friend/ex are married (i was her maid of honor) and just had my "niece" 2 months ago =D

its funny how things work out but we are from a very small town so i guess it was bound to happen lol

[lastellaequi]

Originally Posted by Mybabyboymax

aww im sorry you are feeling lonely. I find that making friends and having relationships are hard as well. Im sure that you will meet new people in no time

I hope so thanks

[Thorsmomma]

Originally Posted by lastellaequi

Well it's just that my friends from HS moved away a few years ago and since then I haven't been able to make any "good" girl friends. Every time I get close to someone something always happens, or else if I'm trying to be friends with someone they're too busy & can never hang out. It's just hard cause I'm always with my guy friends & they're great don't get me wrong, but sometimes you need a girl friend to talk to/hang out with. A lot of girls up by where I live only want to talk about getting their nails done and clothes, I mean those things are fun, but there's more to life. I guess I'm just lonely

I know how that is!! Maybe you could volunteer somewhere to find other girls that are interested in some of the same things you are interested in. Hang in there. You will find a good girlfriend in time, and you def. don't want to force a fake friendship. For now at least you've got your guy buddies!

[Mybabyboymax]

Originally Posted by Thorsmomma

Lance it is stabbing it with a needle? Eww! But you know what, it will probably be nasty, but feel so good to have the pressure off...kinda like when you pop a zit it really hurts until it bursts and the gooeys blast out! sorry if that was TMI.!!! I wish you luck. Just don't look at what they are doing, that will help.

actually its cutting a slit into it, but they numb the area so you wont feel anything.and your right once it is drained it feels so much better!

[MeganS]

Hannah - LOL that was really gross. But you have a point.

I hope your arm gets better!

lastellaequi - I'm sorry. More hugs!

Guyssss...I think my house is haunted. I don't know what kind of "ghost" it is. I think its a good one...but I dunno! I just don't like it. During the day, it doesn't bother me, but at night it gives me the creeps.

[odies_mama]

im willing to trade pain of lancing it for relief!! its weird, like ok, i have the same tattoo on each wrist and yea it hurt a bit but i sat there and got both wrists done without even thinking about it...but i am just soo nervous about what they may do to me in that small room on tuesday. i think im mainly scared that they will stab it and nothing comes out and so they have to keep squeezing and squeezing it

[Thorsmomma]

Originally Posted by odies_mama

i know where you're coming from. i have been like that my entire life! i was always friends with the guys not the girls. but now i have a bestfriend and its funny because we first met because she was dating my ex who is bestfriends with my fiance lol, wait its gets better! and at first, well for the first 3 years, we hated each other! but then it was just like BAM! we loved each other. now her and my friend/ex are married (i was her maid of honor) and just had my "niece" 2 months ago =D

its funny how things work out but we are from a very small town so i guess it was bound to happen lol

wow. twisted, but sweet how that worked out! I think girls can be catty so right away there can be some hate going on...until one thing or another makes ya put your guard down, I hope that makes sense...

[Thorsmomma]

Originally Posted by MeganS

Hannah - LOL that was really gross. But you have a point.

I hope your arm gets better!

lastellaequi - I'm sorry. More hugs!

Guyssss...I think my house is haunted. I don't know what kind of "ghost" it is. I think its a good one...but I dunno! I just don't like it. During the day, it doesn't bother me, but at night it gives me the creeps.

OMG Megan DONT creep me out! My BF is on night shift tonight!! Why are you having those feelings? Get a blanket. I hide under the blanket when I get scared! (I'm 23)

[odies_mama]

Originally Posted by MeganS

Hannah - LOL that was really gross. But you have a point.

I hope your arm gets better!

lastellaequi - I'm sorry. More hugs!

Guyssss...I think my house is haunted. I don't know what kind of "ghost" it is. I think its a good one...but I dunno! I just don't like it. During the day, it doesn't bother me, but at night it gives me the creeps.

oh i feeel ya!! the house we used to live in was haunted BIG TIME, this man used to come out of the wall. but of course our parents thought we were just be silly kids until we had a babysitter say the same thing and she never came back!

the thing that gets me, is when im dead alseep (haha no pun intended) and then out of nowhere odie starts growling like he wants to kill someone, so when i turn the light on and hes starring at the wall....eeek just gives me chills thinking about it lol

[Mybabyboymax]

Originally Posted by MeganS

Hannah - LOL that was really gross. But you have a point.

I hope your arm gets better!

lastellaequi - I'm sorry. More hugs!

Guyssss...I think my house is haunted. I don't know what kind of "ghost" it is. I think its a good one...but I dunno! I just don't like it. During the day, it doesn't bother me, but at night it gives me the creeps.

oh no megan! why do you think that?

[lastellaequi]

Thanks everyone, you guys are so nice I'm gonna try to get some shut eye before it gets any later. Have a great night and thanks again for the support