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heatherjean8737 03-12-2008 04:56 AM
So sorry that you are dealing with this. If there is anything we can do, just let us know.

chloeandj 03-12-2008 07:53 AM
How are you doing today? ((hugs))

Shadow 03-12-2008 07:59 AM
I have been in your shoes and it's not fun at all. I hope this can be worked out. *hugs*

Sookie 03-12-2008 08:05 AM
Hope everything is ok.

saphire 03-12-2008 09:34 AM
My heart aches for you. We are here.

Hugs,
Sheilagh

mizzwanned 03-12-2008 10:12 AM
I'm so sorry you're upset. I hope it's not too bad:(

mommiemary 03-12-2008 10:17 AM
i'm so sorry!

Tammyh 03-12-2008 10:28 AM
I just came across your post. I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I'm hoping today's a better day and it's not as bad as you thought. You're in my prayers.

KathyinCali 03-12-2008 10:29 AM
I hope you are doing better today? You sounded so upset I'm concerned :(

LuvmyYorkies2 03-12-2008 10:39 AM
Aww..the poor thing hasn't even been on...hope all is okay? Remember, stay strong & people are here for you if you want to just vent, scream or whatever. Big hugs to you!

Buddy-licious 03-12-2008 10:55 AM
I have really been thinking about you today!!!! I hope things are better!! :big_hug: :big_hug: :big_hug:

BobbyYorkie 03-12-2008 11:04 AM
so sorry to hear that you are so upset. I hope you are doing ok today. I have been a computer tech for over 12 years. PM me if you have any questions you need answered.

tjdmom 03-12-2008 12:56 PM
So sorry to hear you are so upset. You know, I'm not sure what this is all about but at work some of the people were having "fun" taking pics of people and changing them or doctoring them in some way. I was upset by it as some of them were obsene. I'm not uptight or anything, I just wouldn't want pictures passed around of me that way and didn't think it was right. Anyways..... I hope it's just a misunderstanding like that....:(

kyancer 03-12-2008 01:04 PM
I'm new here, but I hate to see anyone so upset! I will be thinking about you and hope that things get worked out for the best.

Rae Rae 03-12-2008 01:09 PM
I hope things get better for you!

Jody Renfroe 03-12-2008 01:09 PM
:( Hope things are better for you today! I've thought about you all day.

cariblonde 03-13-2008 03:55 AM
~update~
 
First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe.......

Yorkie Luv of 3 03-13-2008 04:00 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by cariblonde (Post 1845565)
First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe.......
God Love Ya!! I'm so sorry,,,, Bless Your Heart!! i Really feel for ya,,,
but, This Too Shall Pass,,, Breath in , ,Breath out,,
Karma is a good thing,, he'll get his!
:ghug:

Suzy 03-13-2008 04:02 AM
Oh no. My heart goes out to you-I wish I could give you a great big hug and lend you a shoulder for awhile. I am so sorry to hear this news, and my heart breaks for you. Could the two of you try counseling to get things out in the open and try and work things out? Sometimes time apart helps us sort things through in our heads-it's all so new, scary, and upsetting right now, and understandably so. Please let me know if there's anything I can do for you anytime.

abbie's mom 03-13-2008 04:04 AM
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Originally Posted by cariblonde (Post 1845565)
the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, <snip I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!!
I thought this might be what you found, and probably so did everyone else, who read your first post. I can't believe he left them on the pc, either! Let me say I am so sorry for the pain and emptiness you feel. Though I have not had this particular experience, I do know life can throw us some pretty hard curves, sometimes.

A big hug, and prayers for peace...

ellie81 03-13-2008 04:08 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by cariblonde (Post 1845565)
First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe.......
I'm so sorry you had to find those things. I just hope he didn't do that on purpose... I'll pray for you, I know this must be sooo hard! just hang in there, ok? We're here for you...

saphire 03-13-2008 04:19 AM
I hope that whatever you do it turns out for the best. I am so sorry you are going through this. We are all here for you. I hope your heart heals.

Hugs,
Sheilagh

Mybabyboymax 03-13-2008 04:21 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by cariblonde (Post 1845565)
First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe.......
I am so sorry you have been betrayed and hurt by him. I know nothing I say can take the pain your feeling away but please remember that everything happens for a reason, 99% of the time we dont know why right away but trust that god put this is your way for a reason. Now you can ask him for the help you need to get through this hard time. if you ever need to talk I am (as well as many other YT members) are only a PM away :]

tjdmom 03-13-2008 04:23 AM
oh I'm so sorry. It makes me really angry with your husband, but I'm sure not half as angry as you must feel. I can only say that we are all here for you, take a deep breathe and do whatever it is you need to do. Again, so sorry....:(

Patti 03-13-2008 04:28 AM
My heart goes out to you. Maybe after the shock wears off you can see if the marriage is worth trying to save. It will be very difficult to get past the betrayal but sometimes it works out. Praying for you

lilfoot 03-13-2008 04:34 AM
I think we Yter's need to go on a road trip and rally to kick someones A##!!!!

So sorry you are going through this..this is probably the worst kind of hurt to go through....I will keep you in my prayers

celstu1 03-13-2008 04:35 AM
Did you find the pics before or after the divorce proceedings have started? I mean did they spur the divorce or was it already underway?

Im so sorry you had to see that ... he is very selfish to be so careless. Its already hard enough to go through a divorce, never mind having to see that also :( My heart goes out to you! Hang in there girl! Remember your new awesome car and how GREAT you are doing! (((HUGS)))

kyancer 03-13-2008 04:42 AM
I'm so sorry you are having to go through this! I will keep you in my prayers.

ARCHIE 03-13-2008 05:08 AM
Quote:
Originally Posted by cariblonde (Post 1845565)
First of all let me say how touched I am that everyone is so kind I really feel like I have an extra support system out there it really means a lot but My husband and I are getting Divorced, the pics I found were of him and someone else and i just cant get that out of my head, I cant forgive him just yet, I just cant believe he could do something like that and then put them on the computer!! I guess maybe he was emailing them then forgot to erase the folder it is a struggle just to get out of bed and go to work I feel like I cant even breathe.......

Oh honey, I'm so sorry. You have to get yourself together and be strong
and think this thing threw with a clear head. There are many things to
consider. Have there been problems, is this a one time thing, the two of
you have a history together do you really want to throw that away?
It depends on all these circumstances. What he did was the worst that
can happen in a marriage it broke the trust but only you can deceide
if your marriage is worth saving but you need time to think things threw
clearly after the anger leaves you and you do have a reason to be angered
and dissapointed and violated. Women are the stronger of the two.
Men think with a thing called (you know what) most of the time and their
brains just leave them! I am sure you will make the right decision for you
but don't be too hasty in it. Think things threw with a clear head.
I wish you good luck in your decision and a happier life in the future.
You only get one time around in this life so make sure you pick what's
best for YOU.

chachi 03-13-2008 05:19 AM
I am so sorry you are going through this. I had been concerned thats what it was about since first read this. I would just give it some time and not rush into anything. Time may heal your heart


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