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momof4CA · 02-06-2008, 08:13 PM

Did he fly there? Can't he call the airlines and changes his flight & come home sooner?

Some times the best way to deal with someone we love, is to let them figure it out for themselves. If you don't have the money don't send it.

kaitlyn · 02-06-2008, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by cariblonde

Urghhhhh!!!!! I just need to vent..... My husband went to Oaxaca mexico last week and is supposed to come home saturday and he just called me and said he spent all his money drinking and partying and doesnt have any money for his hotel or to take the bus back to the airport and can I send him some money......

What irritates me even more, I collect wine and I am a wine lover, not to the extreme I may have 5-7 glasses a WEEK which is supposed to be very healthy, i never drink more than one or two drinks at a time unless its new years or a b-day or something like that, well i finally just stopped b/c he would get mad if i had ONE glass of wine,

I'm so pi$ off right now I have tears in mhy eyes

I dont have any money to send him, I had to put gas in my car and buy groceries and live while he is off partying away all his money

If it was me...id leave him down there!! Of course my husband and I have not spent even one night apart with the exception of basic training in the 5 1/2 years we have been together. I could never imagine taking a trip without him, and he feels the same way.
I hope you get through this...beer is very cheap down there, have you asked him what else he did with the $$ he took with him??

labrown · 02-06-2008, 08:24 PM

When was the last time you talked to him?

Tillys_mom · 02-06-2008, 08:31 PM

You are a much more loving wife than I am. My hubby would stay there until he found his way home.

cariblonde · 02-07-2008, 04:46 AM

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Originally Posted by labrown

When was the last time you talked to him?

right before I posted that last night

cariblonde · 02-07-2008, 04:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Tillys_mom

You are a much more loving wife than I am. My hubby would stay there until he found his way home.

he is........im not sending him any money he knew better and this may sound ugly but he got himself into this he can find a way out it would be one thing if he "lost" his money or he was mugged

011011 · 02-07-2008, 04:58 AM

I am sorry dear.I have been married 20 years this month been together for 25.We have had our share of trials,part of the package with a man I think.I would not send him any either .
But I do not think my hubby would of done that either.Good luck with whatever you decide.Go have another glass of wine

.Being it is in the am have a extra one tonight

02-06-2008, 08:24 PM	#18
labrown T&T-DYNOMITE! Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 2,111	When was the last time you talked to him? __________________ TBone Tina & Lauren

02-06-2008, 08:31 PM	#19
Tillys_mom Spoilin' Tilly & Jack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,227	You are a much more loving wife than I am. My hubby would stay there until he found his way home. __________________ Momma Tilly Money will buy you a pretty good dog, but it won't buy the wag of his tail.

02-06-2008, 08:13 PM	#16
momof4CA YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Bay area, CA Posts: 345	Did he fly there? Can't he call the airlines and changes his flight & come home sooner? Some times the best way to deal with someone we love, is to let them figure it out for themselves. If you don't have the money don't send it.

02-07-2008, 04:58 AM	#22
011011 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: minnesota Posts: 1,432	I am sorry dear.I have been married 20 years this month been together for 25.We have had our share of trials,part of the package with a man I think.I would not send him any either . But I do not think my hubby would of done that either.Good luck with whatever you decide.Go have another glass of wine .Being it is in the am have a extra one tonight