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[kanda]

Originally Posted by kaitlyn

Ive seen it alot with the foster girls that come in and out of my MIL's home.. it seems like they do it for the attention. If someone would pass a law where if you said you were raped (forced) but then it was discovered that it was consentual it should be treated just like filling a false police report only with stronger consequences. Of course the guy would still get in trouble cause the girl was still underage, but it would cut out on alot of the mess thats going on now.

What these young girls are doing, when they falsely accuse, is they are making people pause and doubt the stories of girls and boys who really ARE victims.

I still believe, strongly, that any adult has no business with an underage person even if it is consentual. They are just in it for different reasons. I know that if I had a son then, like you said, I would make sure that he is not putting himself in harms way.

The statistics of rape are staggering. Even if you take into consideration a percentage that may be lying, you also have to take into consideration the number of people who dont report. To this day I havent and I think there are a lot of people out there just like me.

Anyways, I keep allowing myself to get involved in this type of topic and it's draining on me. I just pray that everyone out there can stay safe.

[kaitlyn]

I can only imagine the number of people who do not come forward, its got to be very scary to have to come forward and be treated like you are lying just because of coming forward. Ive heard that also happens alot, especially when the one doing the crime is someone in good standing in the community or in a position of power.
I commend you for being a strong enough person to be able to talk about what happened to you and for being strong enough to come forward and turn the creep in. I hope he is rotting in prison.

[kanda]

No, I didnt turn him in. I was drugged and didnt know that it even happend until a girl told me about some pics she had seen of me. I was very scared and I did nothing to stop him from doing it to anyone else.

A few years ago I did call crimestoppers on him, but I had forgotten enough of the important info (I cant even remember his last name) that could have helped. My only hope is that one day his house will get raided by the police for something and his collection of photos will be found. The statute of limitations has run out on my case anyways.

Ok, time to go play in the snow

EDITED: A few people, other than this one girl, have seen the pics and have confirmed that it is me.

[kaitlyn]

Oh no...im soooo sorry!!
Have fun playing in the snow...its in the 50's here today...