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mizzwanned · 11-28-2007, 06:23 PM

omg that's so scary, im sorry

And you were alone? That's even more scary, weird and awkard. Did he say something to you? Is it too late to tell the cops?

mizzwanned · 11-28-2007, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by pepe mint

this is why i want to keep a gun. but i'm scared i would use it.

So get pepperspray

It doesn't kill someone but will hurt their eyes, i need to get one!

Tiggerwit · 11-28-2007, 06:28 PM

I personally wouldn't call the Papa Johns. You have no idea what kind of people they are. Usually they are just kids running it or someone just like him and they aren't really going to care. They might say something like hey you know that lady's house you just went to, well she called and said that you....

How long ago was this? call the police, your boyfriend or past boyfriend could testify also against him. Call your b/f!!

Monday · 11-28-2007, 06:29 PM

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Originally Posted by pepe mint

you know, i would almost call papa johns and tell them about it. if i owned a company like that...i would not be sending a man like hiim out to people's houses!!!!!!!!!

definitely tell the restaurant about him ... did you press charges? Was he convicted and all?

and on a lighter note, I sure hope you did not give him a tip ....

did i read that you never reported this??? Why not???

SladesMommy · 11-28-2007, 06:32 PM

How scary! Stay safe! I would at least call the police so they can drive by a few times a night.

I had something similar happen to me 2.5 yrs ago, except I had no one to rescue me. I did report it to the cops, but it never even got to go to trial, despite the evidence, bc they wanted to be 100% sure he would be convicted before putting me through the trial. SOOO... I never even got a trial and he got away with what he did. I remember how much it used to scaree me when I just saw him out at the bar and other places. I would freak out if he showed up at my house and I was alone.

Please stay safe! Even if you just think you hear or see something outside, call the police!

For My Coby · 11-28-2007, 06:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiggerwit

I personally wouldn't call the Papa Johns. You have no idea what kind of people they are. Usually they are just kids running it or someone just like him and they aren't really going to care. They might say something like hey you know that lady's house you just went to, well she called and said that you....
How long ago was this? call the police, your boyfriend or past boyfriend could testify also against him. Call your b/f!!

This is sort of what I was thinking. I'm not saying that you should do nothing, but you shouldn't do anything rash or anything to aggravate the situation. You need to stay clear-headed. My thoughts and prayers are with you in whatever you decide to do. I'm sure it brought a flood of bad memories back. Stay safe!!!

Patti · 11-28-2007, 06:35 PM

How scary! How well did you know him, because he may have recognized you and not said anything. If it was only that one time he most likely didn't recognize you. Be extra careful, he most likely won't try again but you need to be safe.

EmrldShdwQueen · 11-28-2007, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Patti

How scary! How well did you know him, because he may have recognized you and not said anything. If it was only that one time he most likely didn't recognize you. Be extra careful, he most likely won't try again but you need to be safe.

I had only seen him in person that one time...he was a friend of a friend and he came over unexpectedly and pushed his way into my room...

EmrldShdwQueen · 11-28-2007, 06:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Monday

definitely tell the restaurant about him ... did you press charges? Was he convicted and all?

and on a lighter note, I sure hope you did not give him a tip ....

did i read that you never reported this??? Why not???

I DID tip him actually...how ironic is that...

I didn't want him to get even MORE pissed at me...

No i never reported it...just like Slade'smommy I had an incident happen like this when I was 15 AT CHURCH

but he never went to trial or anything...and my parents took me right to the police...I even had a witness...and then he started followign me and leaving messages at my work...and he tried to run me off the road...it was so scary. So I guess I was sorta afraid this would happen again......

EmrldShdwQueen · 11-28-2007, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by For My Coby

This is sort of what I was thinking. I'm not saying that you should do nothing, but you shouldn't do anything rash or anything to aggravate the situation. You need to stay clear-headed. My thoughts and prayers are with you in whatever you decide to do. I'm sure it brought a flood of bad memories back. Stay safe!!!

Thank you so much...I agree...I'm not going to call them because they would probably laugh at me...and then he might REALLy recognize me if he didn't before...

EmrldShdwQueen · 11-28-2007, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by SladesMommy

How scary! Stay safe! I would at least call the police so they can drive by a few times a night.

I had something similar happen to me 2.5 yrs ago, except I had no one to rescue me. I did report it to the cops, but it never even got to go to trial, despite the evidence, bc they wanted to be 100% sure he would be convicted before putting me through the trial. SOOO... I never even got a trial and he got away with what he did. I remember how much it used to scaree me when I just saw him out at the bar and other places. I would freak out if he showed up at my house and I was alone.

Please stay safe! Even if you just think you hear or see something outside, call the police!

yeah this happened to me when I was 15 (see above story)...but he actually came after me....

EmrldShdwQueen · 11-28-2007, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Tiggerwit

I personally wouldn't call the Papa Johns. You have no idea what kind of people they are. Usually they are just kids running it or someone just like him and they aren't really going to care. They might say something like hey you know that lady's house you just went to, well she called and said that you....

How long ago was this? call the police, your boyfriend or past boyfriend could testify also against him. Call your b/f!!

Thanks, I agree...I think they wouldn't care...it's sad what people get by with these days...

typhani76 · 11-28-2007, 07:03 PM

I'm so sorry this happened to you! I think calling the police is actually a great thing. You could tell them that you don't want him to know because you're scared. Unfortunately, they've probably had situations like this before and they know how to handle it. If you place the call it would be on record and if he ever messes with anybody else again they would have your call on file. Whatever you do, I'll be sending prayers your way.

LunasMomma · 11-28-2007, 07:05 PM

OMG that is so scary

Hopefully he doesn't realize who you are. If you still wanted to call his job, I'd wait a week or two, so he doesn't connect the call to you.

Prayers headed up for you

!

MeganS · 11-28-2007, 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by EmrldShdwQueen

I have no idea...I wouldn't think they could anything now, because it happened over 2 years ago...I think there's a clause or something

There is a three year Statue of Limitations on these types of crimes.

sadly, I agree that the people at his job wouldn't care. Its awful how people don't take anything seriously anymore.

*hugs*

11-28-2007, 06:23 PM	#31
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	omg that's so scary, im sorry And you were alone? That's even more scary, weird and awkard. Did he say something to you? Is it too late to tell the cops? __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

11-28-2007, 06:28 PM	#33
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	I personally wouldn't call the Papa Johns. You have no idea what kind of people they are. Usually they are just kids running it or someone just like him and they aren't really going to care. They might say something like hey you know that lady's house you just went to, well she called and said that you.... How long ago was this? call the police, your boyfriend or past boyfriend could testify also against him. Call your b/f!! __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy Last edited by Tiggerwit; 11-28-2007 at 06:30 PM.

11-28-2007, 06:32 PM	#35
SladesMommy Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: ATX Posts: 4,513	How scary! Stay safe! I would at least call the police so they can drive by a few times a night. I had something similar happen to me 2.5 yrs ago, except I had no one to rescue me. I did report it to the cops, but it never even got to go to trial, despite the evidence, bc they wanted to be 100% sure he would be convicted before putting me through the trial. SOOO... I never even got a trial and he got away with what he did. I remember how much it used to scaree me when I just saw him out at the bar and other places. I would freak out if he showed up at my house and I was alone. Please stay safe! Even if you just think you hear or see something outside, call the police! __________________ GIGANTIC DOG CLOTHES SALE!!! <--- CLlCK!

11-28-2007, 06:35 PM	#37
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	How scary! How well did you know him, because he may have recognized you and not said anything. If it was only that one time he most likely didn't recognize you. Be extra careful, he most likely won't try again but you need to be safe. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

11-28-2007, 07:05 PM	#44
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	OMG that is so scary Hopefully he doesn't realize who you are. If you still wanted to call his job, I'd wait a week or two, so he doesn't connect the call to you. Prayers headed up for you! __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

11-28-2007, 07:03 PM	#43
typhani76 Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 16	I'm so sorry this happened to you! I think calling the police is actually a great thing. You could tell them that you don't want him to know because you're scared. Unfortunately, they've probably had situations like this before and they know how to handle it. If you place the call it would be on record and if he ever messes with anybody else again they would have your call on file. Whatever you do, I'll be sending prayers your way.