|
Welcome to the YorkieTalk.com Forums Community - the community for Yorkshire Terriers. You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. You will be able to chat with over 35,000 YorkieTalk members, read over 2,000,000 posted discussions, and view more than 15,000 Yorkie photos in the YorkieTalk Photo Gallery after you register. We would love to have you as a member! Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please click here to contact us. |
|
| LinkBack | Thread Tools |
11-17-2007, 11:55 AM | #16 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sequim, Wa
Posts: 4,541
| Wow, that is a unanimous opinion! Thank you all for your support and kind words. I'm not doing anything with the business for now. I still own it, rather my "other" company owns it. I have just been trying to pay off the debt. I may start it up again, when I have time and energy. Who knows. I just wish I could figure out a way to stop thinking about this woman. We were never exactly close until this business thing came up. I think over time she manipulated me into believing we had a closer relationship than we did, because she saw me as a source of income. This was a big hurt. Maybe I need to get it all out, write it down in a letter, then ceremoniously burn the letter in the fireplace? HMMMMMMMM For now, I am putting it all away for the day. I am going to go take a shower and take Gracie to the PetCo fashion show! Thanks again.
__________________ Gracie loves Bailey. Holly loves Tucker. Proud member of the YT Gracie Girls. |
Welcome Guest! | |
11-17-2007, 12:01 PM | #17 |
I ♥ my Furheathens Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: VAN ALSTYNE
Posts: 8,226
| Congrats to you!! A job well done! I wouldnt waste the time or energy to send anything!!!! But if I was going to then I buy big add in her local paper and post it!!!
__________________ Twalla & The Furheathens |
11-17-2007, 12:07 PM | #18 |
Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX
Posts: 4,596
| I wouldn't waste your time or energy on her. congrats!!!!!! though on pulling out of it and overcoming the issue. Proud of you.
__________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy |
11-17-2007, 01:30 PM | #19 |
Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys
Posts: 5,056
| Congrats. on all of your hard work!.....This speaks volumes on your character..... I understand about not being able to get this other person off your mind...I guess when we feel used or taken advantage of it's only natural to want to straighten it out get the last word.......but I totally agree with everyone else, it's time to let it go, and chalk it up to a hard lesson learned....
__________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too.. |
11-17-2007, 01:55 PM | #20 |
Love The Verminator! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: ny
Posts: 4,282
| Congrats on accompolishing what you must have thought would be impossible 7 years ago. And, personally, just from reading your posts, I think you have far more class than to waste you time playing the childish "Na-na-na-na-na-naaa-na" game. She'll find out soon enough and she'll be the jealous one. Kudo's to you for a job well done!
__________________ Roxy loves Alphy Remi loves Millie [COLOR="Purple"]Mom to RoxyJo & Remington , Fozzy Bear & Chloe |
11-17-2007, 02:51 PM | #21 |
Donating YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Charlotte,nc
Posts: 1,976
| I just wanted to say that I am very proud of you for paying off all that debt off!!! I am sure this was so much work!!!! Good for you!!!!
__________________ Rhonda, Buddy-licious and Sammie |
11-17-2007, 03:20 PM | #22 |
Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Iowa
Posts: 9,493
| What a wonderful job to pay off a substantial debt and not take the route she did. I am sure there have been very difficult days because of the pressure to pay it off. I like the idea of writing the letter - I find this is a great way to relieve and express something without ever getting in someone else's face. Or maybe you could write a letter to yourself about the pride you have in what you accomplished, detailing what it took to overcome this mountain. Wow, remember this huge accomplishment & if in the future you feel overwhelmed by a responsibility or something you want to accomplish, you can look back at this and know you have the stamina and backbone to see the project through to the finish line.
__________________ yorkiesmiles Loved by Bubba & Roxy Holy, holy, is the Lord God Almighty, who was, and is, and is to come |
11-17-2007, 06:56 PM | #23 | |
I heart Sugar Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida
Posts: 7,373
| Quote:
__________________ "If you have men who will exclude any of God’s creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men." — St. Francis of Assisi, 1181-1226 | |
11-17-2007, 07:04 PM | #24 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Riverview, Florida
Posts: 4,953
| Congrats!! You have a lot of integrity. I think at the end of the day she will get what is coming to her!! Be proud of ur accomplishments and focus on building ur biz! |
11-25-2007, 09:49 PM | #25 |
Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: sunny CA
Posts: 789
| What an achievement ... pat yourself on your back and do not give this woman another thought ... very sad that someone related to you wold do such a thing ....
__________________ Dogs are such agreeable friends, they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms, they do not borrow money, they only beg for food and love. |
11-26-2007, 08:07 AM | #26 |
No Longer A Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: london, ky
Posts: 287
| I firmly believe that what goes around comes around. This woman will get her just desserts and what will happen to her will be a lot worse than what she did to you. I had a manager borrow a lot of money from me (sob story) and I couldn't get her to pay me back even though we worked in the same place. She eventually had me transferred to avoid facing me. I wanted to blow the whistle so bad but had given her my word not to say anything. I never did. But in the end she ended up losing her job because she was borrowing from everyone! Now, she's working at McDonalds! |
11-26-2007, 10:49 AM | #27 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: A little town south of Chicago
Posts: 4,525
| Wow, You have just been added to my list of heros! Doing what you have done takes a lot of stamina, discipline and hard work! Great job. I was going to tell you to send her a card until I read what everyone else had to say. Good thing no one ever listens to me! They are right. Rejoice in your personal victory and know that the rest of us are really proud of you! |
Bookmarks |
|
|
| |
|
|
SHOP NOW: Amazon :: eBay :: Buy.com :: Newegg :: PetStore :: Petco :: PetSmart