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Old 07-15-2006, 10:35 PM   #1
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Hi all, I am new to forum, the only reason I found it was because of Phoebes unforseen passing this past Monday.
After reading about Junebug I wanted to share what happened to Phoebe.
After puppy sitting Phoebe for 2 years her owners gave her to me last year. She was usually with me for 2 weeks out of each month anyways and they were just way to busy not to mention that they had 3 very active boys. They also said that when I would take her back home to them, she would sulk for days.
Phoebe would have been 5 in August and if you weighed her right after eating she weighed a mere 3lbs 9ozs on a very full belly.
So, what happened. I am not sure that I fully understand or maybe the better wording would be accept it. I had taken her out to go potty & she made a little noise ....a whimper. We came back in & I noticed a funny color of little blood droplets on the floor. Well being a female human I put 2 & 2 together and thought she must have a bladder infection. I called the vet, they said to bring her in, but that I would need to drop her off because they were booked, but that they would work her in. She trotted right over to her little carrier & away we went. She always rides on my lap, but because she had drippled the blood I put her in her carrier. She was not lethargic, she was not moaning, but she wasn't 100% herself either. 25 minutes later the vet called me & said that she need emergency surgery. Evidently when Phoebe had gone into heat a piece of the lining did not shed and stayed attached to the uterus. The cervix closed and an infection started. Evidently this type of infection weakens the uterus & leaks the infection into the abdomen.
I can honestly tell you she did not appear or act that sick!
Yes, Phoebe was intact. While her 1st family had toyed with the idea of breeding her, I never intendend to breed her. I choose not to have her spayed because of her small size & because when she first came to live with me on a full time basis, she was not in the best health. You could feel every bone on her, she also refused to eat for them.
I was given 15 minutes to make a decision on what to do. I was told that due to her size and the infection she may not make it through this surgery, one of the concerns was that the uterus would burst into her abdomen. They also said it was a very complicated surgery & if she did make it she may not make the recovery. I opted to let her go peacefully.
Phoebe was my companion. She went everywhere with me. My daughters are now 21, 18, & 16. So they are often to busy to hang out with mom. But Phoebe was never to busy and she always wanted to go.
I know that I will replace her, not only for myself but also for all of the people that Phoebe touched on a regular basis. One imparticular comes to mind. Nick. He would wait by the curb at his house, in his wheelchair until we would come by. Phoebe was small enough that she could sit on his lap and he could pet her on his own without someone needing to hold a dog up so that he could pet it.
Given what I have just gone through if you were to ask me, if I had it to do all over again would I have had her spayed? I still do not have the answer to that. I do realize that some breeders require it and in that situation you do not have a choice. But under 5lbs is so small to go under, and right now all that I do know is that I really miss her.
Sorry this is so long
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Old 07-16-2006, 01:37 AM   #2
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I am very sorry for your loss of Phoebe. She sounded like a special girl. Godspeed Phoebe
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I am so sorry for your loss. Phoebe definitely touched your life in a special way and it is obvious she loved being in your life. I'm glad you found this forum and honored that you shared your story.

I hope you do get another baby to help your healing. My Sissy is just 4 lbs and was spayed at 7 months when she was 3lbs 7oz. She had pre-op blood work done and I felt very comfortable with my vet. You will find many similar stories to mine with even smaller pups who were spayed without any problem. I think it is important to find a vet you feel comfortable with who has at least some knowledge of caring for the really little guys. Whatever you decide, I wish you happiness and love along the journey.
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First off, I just want to welcome you to YorkieTalk. You'll find a wealth of information here.

Next, I am so sorry for what you've been through with your baby. I hope some time in the future you will be able to love another little furbaby while cherishing the memories of Phoebe.
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R.I.P Phoebe, i am so sorry for your loss. It is a very sad story,but you followed your heart. I hope that you will find another baby,not to replace phoebe,but to help fill the hole in your heart. You will be in my thoughts and prayers
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I am so sorry for your loss of Phoebe. Please know that you will be in my prayers.Time will heal your broken heart.
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I am so sorry for your untimely loss. I know what it's like to loose a precious little one. Please know my Reggie will take care of your Phoebe over Rainbow Bridge. She was such a good mama.

And welcome to YT. You will love it hear but I warn you, it is very addicting.
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Welcome to YT. I'm so sorry for your loss and the heartbreaking decision that you were forced to make.

Tears come to my eyes everytime I read one of these stories. I hope it doesn't take you long to find another one to fill the void.

Pheobe can never be replaced. Nothing can fill that little hole that her tiny little soul left in you heart, but another one can help to fill the void that is left in your daily life.

How can these tiny little creatures get so deep into our hearts?
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I am very sorry about Phoebe's passing. she sounds like a special little girl. know that you have friends here that understand the pain of losing a close friend, such as your Phoebe.
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May God give you peace of mind and heart about little Phoebe. I am so sorry for your loss, and hope your broken heart is mended soon.
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Cry I am so very sorry.....

Poor Phoebe.....

I had a yorkie 15 years ago, and never spayed her....of course she was never bred either....and did not spay her for the same reason as you did not spay Phoebe.....but, never would I have even thought such issues could result....

I know that you are grieving....but, your story really educated me and I am so very sorry for your pain...

My heart aches for you too.
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I'm so sorry about little Phoebe. I know your pain and how you miss her. The man in the wheelchair will also miss her...so sad. I hope you will get another furbaby...they do help to ease the pain. Please know that we are here for you. RIP PHOEBE
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I am so sorry for your loss. It is to awful to describe how it feels to lose such a special person. I have lost 3 Yorkie's over the years and each one is just as painful. The pain never really goes but you learn to deal with and cope and soon the pain will dull just enough that you think of the precious memories and smile.

Please take comfort from your memories. She's in a much better place now and if you look into the night sky you will see her there - the brightest star in the sky.

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so very sorry to hear you lost your baby, I know it's a pain that hits you right in the pit of the stomach and I dont wish it upon anyone. Time will heal you, talk to her and maybe even right her a letter.
I did got out and get a new baby after I lost my baby Kloey, I knew she would never replace Kloey but she sure has helped me heal my heart. But take your time and do whats right for you.
Bless you and my thoughts are with you.
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Phoebe was lucky to have had you in her life and I know that she brightened your days. Prayers go out to you for your loss. I know it leaves a big hole in your heart.
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