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IsabelleOllie · 10-21-2011, 08:40 AM

I am so sorry, this is heartbreaking. Rest in Peace little Oliver.

AkCrimson · 10-21-2011, 08:47 AM

The night he died I had many dreams about him. The next night me and Vinnie had dreams about a new puppy. I feel awful and guilty for thinking these things so soon. It feels shameful to even type it out. I just have a big Yorkie-shaped hole in my heart....

He was my first dog, my first puppy. I had no idea how much he would light up my life.

BabyGirl Rosie · 10-21-2011, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by AkCrimson

The night he died I had many dreams about him. The next night me and Vinnie had dreams about a new puppy. I feel awful and guilty for thinking these things so soon. It feels shameful to even type it out. I just have a big Yorkie-shaped hole in my heart....

He was my first dog, my first puppy. I had no idea how much he would light up my life.

I think it is ok to think about getting another puppy. Oliver will always be in your heart. Another puppy will help fill the void but will never replace your memories of Oliver.

AmyD102 · 10-21-2011, 09:17 AM

Thank you for words about Kiwi, it is much appreciated on this sad day. We had just brought Lola home(about a week before kiwi passed) and she has been such a savior for me. She has kept my days busy (training, playing and cuddles) and helped heal me from my loss. Kiwi was also my first dog and we had decided to get a second pup to keep him company, and now sadly we are in the same situation with Lola.

I do not think you should feel guilty over thinking about getting a new puppy, If anything I truly believe I would not have been able to be so strong or even close to "ok" if I did not have Lola to help fill my heart back up with love. Like I said she will never replace Kiwi(they are soo different, its impossible!) but she has definitely helped me heal.

Thank you for listening and again my deepest sympathy.

impish · 10-21-2011, 09:48 AM

I'm sick to my stomach for you. I'm so sorry. And I thank you for sharing, as it is that continued reminder of how diligent we need to be at all times with these little ones. Be well.

TxVicki · 10-21-2011, 10:05 AM

I am so sorry for your loss of Oliver. RIP Sweet Oliver.

lvtyorkie · 10-21-2011, 10:32 AM

Oh my, I am so sorry. Thank you for honoring his memory and reminding all of us accidents can happen so quickly. None of us is perfect and the same could have happened to many. Most of us here have lost a loved furball in some way, and know how you are feeling. Time will help.

Sending HUGS your way!

Lil Ladies · 10-21-2011, 10:51 AM

I am so sorry. Your first story was heart breaking, the second was unbearable. I am wiping tears from my face as my babies sit on my lap. I couldn't imagine. Rest in Peace little Oliver.

AkCrimson · 10-21-2011, 11:23 AM

I don't know why but I am starting to feel angry today. Angry with myself for letting him play in the yard. Frustrated that he is gone. Mad that I am disrespecting him by thinking about another puppy.

Clearly I am not ready for another dog. This SUCKS. I feel like crap, I feel so lonely. My fiancee is getting restless, he wants to go out and do things (we are a very active couple). I don't want to do anything. Nothing sounds good.

angieNchloe · 10-21-2011, 11:34 AM

i'm so sorry! He was a beautiful yorkie!!

gemy · 10-21-2011, 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by AkCrimson

I don't know why but I am starting to feel angry today. Angry with myself for letting him play in the yard. Frustrated that he is gone. Mad that I am disrespecting him by thinking about another puppy.

Clearly I am not ready for another dog. This SUCKS. I feel like crap, I feel so lonely. My fiancee is getting restless, he wants to go out and do things (we are a very active couple). I don't want to do anything. Nothing sounds good.

It is part of the stages of grief. Valid and necessary stages. You will need to go through all those steps of grief. And everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. We learn the lessons we need to through loss; but every loss, I believe creates a larger, wiser, more compassionate heart.

Yes perhaps right now your are not ready for another dog; and that is probably as it needs to be.

Sometimes activity is good for the heart and soul. There will be a turning point, when you need to look out, need to experience the life of the world around you.

Try not to be so hard on yourself, we all make mistakes, it is what makes us so very human. One day you will go past your self blame, learn the lessons life has offered you.

So right now just heal. There is a world of time for you and your fiance, a world of Yorkie love for you again when the time is right.

Hugs to you

Donnainohio63 · 10-21-2011, 03:59 PM

This is the same way I lost my Sophie Lynn. She was a door darter and she darted and the car got her and now I do not allow my pets out front at all. It is not your fault. It was a terrible accident. I know where you are I have been there before and still am from time to time. Please do not be so hard on yourself. Prayers for you and yours.

tjdmom · 10-21-2011, 04:55 PM

i'm so sorry for your loss

Sandysbabies · 10-21-2011, 05:26 PM

RIP sweet baby Oliver. God bless your precious little heart.

CouversMom · 10-21-2011, 05:26 PM

I am so sorry for your loss...

RIP Sweet Oliver

10-21-2011, 08:40 AM	#16
IsabelleOllie YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Syracuse NY Posts: 1,590	I am so sorry, this is heartbreaking. Rest in Peace little Oliver. __________________ Melissa and Belle

10-21-2011, 09:17 AM	#19
AmyD102 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Norwood, MA Posts: 162	Thank you for words about Kiwi, it is much appreciated on this sad day. We had just brought Lola home(about a week before kiwi passed) and she has been such a savior for me. She has kept my days busy (training, playing and cuddles) and helped heal me from my loss. Kiwi was also my first dog and we had decided to get a second pup to keep him company, and now sadly we are in the same situation with Lola. I do not think you should feel guilty over thinking about getting a new puppy, If anything I truly believe I would not have been able to be so strong or even close to "ok" if I did not have Lola to help fill my heart back up with love. Like I said she will never replace Kiwi(they are soo different, its impossible!) but she has definitely helped me heal. Thank you for listening and again my deepest sympathy. __________________ Milo (11/1/11) Kiwi (RIP 7/28/10-9/21/11) & Lola (RIP 7/12/11 - 9/8/13)

10-21-2011, 10:05 AM	#21
TxVicki Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: At Home Posts: 8,386	I am so sorry for your loss of Oliver. RIP Sweet Oliver. __________________ [SIZE="3"VICKI & ALLIE[/SIZE]

10-21-2011, 03:59 PM	#27
Donnainohio63 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Lorain Ohio Posts: 1,882	This is the same way I lost my Sophie Lynn. She was a door darter and she darted and the car got her and now I do not allow my pets out front at all. It is not your fault. It was a terrible accident. I know where you are I have been there before and still am from time to time. Please do not be so hard on yourself. Prayers for you and yours. __________________ http://thelittleyorkierescue.weebly.com/

10-21-2011, 05:26 PM	#30
CouversMom and Khloe Mae's too! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Eastern Washington Posts: 14,732	I am so sorry for your loss... RIP Sweet Oliver __________________ Michelle- mommy to Couver and Khloe Mae! http://yorkiehavenrescue.com/

10-21-2011, 08:47 AM	#17
AkCrimson Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Dorado, Puerto Rico Posts: 40	The night he died I had many dreams about him. The next night me and Vinnie had dreams about a new puppy. I feel awful and guilty for thinking these things so soon. It feels shameful to even type it out. I just have a big Yorkie-shaped hole in my heart.... He was my first dog, my first puppy. I had no idea how much he would light up my life.

10-21-2011, 09:48 AM	#20
impish Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: USA Posts: 954	I'm sick to my stomach for you. I'm so sorry. And I thank you for sharing, as it is that continued reminder of how diligent we need to be at all times with these little ones. Be well.

10-21-2011, 10:32 AM	#22
lvtyorkie Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Post Falls, Idaho Posts: 80	Oh my, I am so sorry. Thank you for honoring his memory and reminding all of us accidents can happen so quickly. None of us is perfect and the same could have happened to many. Most of us here have lost a loved furball in some way, and know how you are feeling. Time will help. Sending HUGS your way!

10-21-2011, 10:51 AM	#23
Lil Ladies Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Kelowna, bc, canada Posts: 46	I am so sorry. Your first story was heart breaking, the second was unbearable. I am wiping tears from my face as my babies sit on my lap. I couldn't imagine. Rest in Peace little Oliver.

10-21-2011, 11:23 AM	#24
AkCrimson Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Dorado, Puerto Rico Posts: 40	I don't know why but I am starting to feel angry today. Angry with myself for letting him play in the yard. Frustrated that he is gone. Mad that I am disrespecting him by thinking about another puppy. Clearly I am not ready for another dog. This SUCKS. I feel like crap, I feel so lonely. My fiancee is getting restless, he wants to go out and do things (we are a very active couple). I don't want to do anything. Nothing sounds good.

10-21-2011, 11:34 AM	#25
angieNchloe Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East Tn Posts: 402	i'm so sorry! He was a beautiful yorkie!!

10-21-2011, 04:55 PM	#28
tjdmom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: upstate ny Posts: 5,847	i'm so sorry for your loss

10-21-2011, 05:26 PM	#29
Sandysbabies YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Dallas, Texas Posts: 2,234	RIP sweet baby Oliver. God bless your precious little heart.