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Yorkie_Mama · 09-20-2005, 10:47 PM

Today is the one year marker of the day we found out my Dads plane went missing September 20th is the day we lost my Daddy and his Twin brother Joe in Alaska ... my mom finaly decided to do somthing for herself she took off with Joe (my dads Twin) wife for Montana letting Joe's son and daughter in law watch my moms first true love her tinker bell her Doxie the one think that mom admitted made her decide it wasnt worth it to pass on herself when dad didnt come home. they put tink in an non secure area and tinker got out and was run down....... and killed on the 20th of September
i guess shes playing with dad now ... and mom is sleeping alone ... i am so heart broken for mom i have no clue how she can find room to breath right now it so sucks not being in Washington able to reach her and give her a hug ..whats the saying .... LIFE SUCKS sorry this is such a downer i just cant seem to find the up button

MeganS · 09-20-2005, 10:56 PM

omgosh. that is so awful!!

i'm so so so sorry for the tragic loss of your dad, and now your mom's baby. this must be so hard on both of you. i have your mom, you, your family, and tinker bell in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace

alaskayorkie · 09-20-2005, 10:58 PM

I'm so sorry for your mother's loss, and on that date it is pure heartbreak. Stick by her. It sounds like she's going to need a lot of support. I think you're right, though, Tinker Bell is playing with your Dad right now.

Yorkie_Mama · 09-20-2005, 11:05 PM

Thank you all for your support i swore when i woke up this morning i was gonna do somthing fun for dad and uncle joe get a tattoo climb a beam * dad was an Iron Worker* but this just floored me i know tinker is sitting on dads lap and he's calling her his little Hussy

dianne · 09-20-2005, 11:44 PM

I know alot of us search for answers when terrible things happen to us in life and I guess I am still searching my self.I dont know where I got the strength myself sometimes to carry on from terrible grief Ive had in my life,I guess thats why I love my animals so much but to also lose an animal when thats whats made you hang on is just so cruel.Just be there for your mum and listen to her in her grief.Im so very sorry send my thoughts to her.(dianne and prudence).

yorkieusa · 09-21-2005, 06:35 AM

What a huge heartbreak for both you, your mom and your aunt. I'll be thinking about you all today. I'm so very, very sorry.

lily's mom · 09-21-2005, 06:43 AM

My sympathies to your mother! That is alot to handle. I hope she finds some peace and happiness soon. Maybe a puppy would totally keep her busy and overwelmed and then she wouldn't have time to think about it. Just a thought. Puppy's are pretty good medicine though.

rrosenberry · 09-21-2005, 06:50 AM

That is so horrible, Im sorry for everyone involved, call your mom,, and give her a big phone hug from you and everyone here. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

bettyeanne · 09-21-2005, 07:27 AM

I am so, so sorry! Life seems so terribly cruel sometimes! We will remember you and your family in our prayers.

Yorkie_Mama · 09-21-2005, 03:23 PM

my phone recorder had a wonderful message this morning i finaly fell asleep at 4am just overwhelmed looking for some positive in all this wondering why it hurts so much to breath and my cousin chris who was raised in our direct family who spent the most time searching for my dad in alaska had a baby boy Chirstopher James *my dads name* i cant wait to hug the babie talk about a message from above its sooo... i guess healing for me i am gonna try to talk mom into moving down here with me this week shes up there all alone and i miss my Mommy! good idea about the puppie anyone know a good doxie breeder in Wa Or or Ca pet quailty

red98vett · 09-21-2005, 04:58 PM

That is terribly tragic ! I'm so so sorry about your dad and his brother ...that's just awful for you .....BIG hugs to your family and especially your mom - that poor woman ...and then to lose her little Tink...I'm so sorry.

HeatherW · 09-21-2005, 05:01 PM

I am so sorry for yours and your mothers loss!! My prayers go out to both of you!!!

SoCalyorkiLvr · 09-21-2005, 06:13 PM

How awful...I hope the birth of this new life will give everyone some hope for the future.

09-20-2005, 10:47 PM	#1
Yorkie_Mama YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Chico,California Posts: 597	moms heartbreak Today is the one year marker of the day we found out my Dads plane went missing September 20th is the day we lost my Daddy and his Twin brother Joe in Alaska ... my mom finaly decided to do somthing for herself she took off with Joe (my dads Twin) wife for Montana letting Joe's son and daughter in law watch my moms first true love her tinker bell her Doxie the one think that mom admitted made her decide it wasnt worth it to pass on herself when dad didnt come home. they put tink in an non secure area and tinker got out and was run down....... and killed on the 20th of September i guess shes playing with dad now ... and mom is sleeping alone ... i am so heart broken for mom i have no clue how she can find room to breath right now it so sucks not being in Washington able to reach her and give her a hug ..whats the saying .... LIFE SUCKS sorry this is such a downer i just cant seem to find the up button

09-20-2005, 10:56 PM	#2
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	omgosh. that is so awful!! i'm so so so sorry for the tragic loss of your dad, and now your mom's baby. this must be so hard on both of you. i have your mom, you, your family, and tinker bell in my thoughts and prayers. Rest In Peace __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All

09-20-2005, 10:58 PM	#3
alaskayorkie Banning Thread Dictator Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Anchorage Posts: 30,843 Blog Entries: 57	I'm so sorry for your mother's loss, and on that date it is pure heartbreak. Stick by her. It sounds like she's going to need a lot of support. I think you're right, though, Tinker Bell is playing with your Dad right now. __________________ Mike ~ Doting Dad to Jillie, Harper, Molly, Cooper, Eddie (RIP), Lucy (RIP), Rusty (RIP) and Jack (RIP). Check us out on YouTube

09-20-2005, 11:05 PM	#4
Yorkie_Mama YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Chico,California Posts: 597	Thank you Thank you all for your support i swore when i woke up this morning i was gonna do somthing fun for dad and uncle joe get a tattoo climb a beam * dad was an Iron Worker* but this just floored me i know tinker is sitting on dads lap and he's calling her his little Hussy

09-21-2005, 06:35 AM	#6
yorkieusa Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 21,173	What a huge heartbreak for both you, your mom and your aunt. I'll be thinking about you all today. I'm so very, very sorry. __________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel

09-20-2005, 11:44 PM	#5
dianne YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 1,002	I know alot of us search for answers when terrible things happen to us in life and I guess I am still searching my self.I dont know where I got the strength myself sometimes to carry on from terrible grief Ive had in my life,I guess thats why I love my animals so much but to also lose an animal when thats whats made you hang on is just so cruel.Just be there for your mum and listen to her in her grief.Im so very sorry send my thoughts to her.(dianne and prudence).

09-21-2005, 06:43 AM	#7
lily's mom Lily Loves Maximus Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 2,633	My sympathies to your mother! That is alot to handle. I hope she finds some peace and happiness soon. Maybe a puppy would totally keep her busy and overwelmed and then she wouldn't have time to think about it. Just a thought. Puppy's are pretty good medicine though. __________________ Lily and Dawn

09-21-2005, 06:50 AM	#8
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	That is so horrible, Im sorry for everyone involved, call your mom,, and give her a big phone hug from you and everyone here. Your in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

09-21-2005, 07:27 AM	#9
bettyeanne Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Alabama, etc. Posts: 9,031	I am so, so sorry! Life seems so terribly cruel sometimes! We will remember you and your family in our prayers. __________________ Toto's Mom - http://www.dogster.com/?206581 Yorkie Rescue Colorado - http://www.yorkierescuecolorado.com/ "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has limits." -- Albert Einstein

09-21-2005, 03:23 PM	#10
Yorkie_Mama YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Chico,California Posts: 597	to the year and the day my phone recorder had a wonderful message this morning i finaly fell asleep at 4am just overwhelmed looking for some positive in all this wondering why it hurts so much to breath and my cousin chris who was raised in our direct family who spent the most time searching for my dad in alaska had a baby boy Chirstopher James my dads name i cant wait to hug the babie talk about a message from above its sooo... i guess healing for me i am gonna try to talk mom into moving down here with me this week shes up there all alone and i miss my Mommy! good idea about the puppie anyone know a good doxie breeder in Wa Or or Ca pet quailty

09-21-2005, 04:58 PM	#11
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	That is terribly tragic ! I'm so so sorry about your dad and his brother ...that's just awful for you .....BIG hugs to your family and especially your mom - that poor woman ...and then to lose her little Tink...I'm so sorry. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

09-21-2005, 05:01 PM	#12
HeatherW Gracie loves Cosmo Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 755	I am so sorry for yours and your mothers loss!! My prayers go out to both of you!!! __________________ Heather & Gracie Gracie's dogster page:http://www.dogster.com/?145965 See Gracie's Age http://tickers.TickerFactory.com/ezt...k/4ac7/age.png

09-21-2005, 06:13 PM	#13
SoCalyorkiLvr BANNED! Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 8,246	How awful...I hope the birth of this new life will give everyone some hope for the future.